Why is it so hard for a man to show their true feelings? The men around here would rather check out your *** and smile when you see them doing it than say hello! That is just rude and disrespectful! Really how hard is for them to just LOOK UP! and say hello? And then when you say hello first they look at you like they are speechless and they are not sure what to say back?!
2007-05-14 02:45:42 · 21 answers · asked by beth0800 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard because of all the crap a lot of dudes go through when they show their true feelings to a girl. That said I think it is best for a guy to "man up" and show his feelings and not to pedestal a girl...so what if she doesn't like you. But most of us fellas basically can't get past the fear of being rejected even though our chances of a hookup go up exponentially if we just "look up and say hello" lol.
2007-05-14 02:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior-Scholar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because enough women like to play games with guys, like showing up late, making us do silly little things, expecting us to read your minds about what you want for gifts, what's bugging you, etc. If you want something, say so. If we're doing something that bugs you, say so. We can go knock a moose in the head with a stump - no problem. But picking out the right flowers? That's hard!!!
2007-05-14 02:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the way we are. saying hello to a beautiful girl is like saying "i love u". we just cant bring ourselves to do it.some of us actually will say hello,but a very good portion will just follow with our eyes and maybe let out a few words that arent hello.
2007-05-14 03:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by stxlemonhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can but are unsure of the outcome. Some girls are down to earth and answer politely and frankly and some are different in the sense they just can't behave normal afterwards.
2007-05-14 02:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live, but that isn't true of all guys. Certainly there are alot of men and women who are either shy or very full of themselves, and won't say "Hi", but not all. Maybe you are fishing in the wrong ponds?
2007-05-14 02:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are like that. its just guys are more into those stuffs than saying hello. guys who are like that are just plain perverts. i am not that kind of guy who would stare but if you were to pass by i would just stare because im a total stranger to you and you might freak out if i get to know you.
if guys do stare at your *** then stare at them too. but if you see a guy who looks at you straight in the eyes and nowhere else that means he likes to know you.
2007-05-14 03:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c looking up and saying hello takes to much effort to cordial. its easier for them to stare than to speak. thus leads to the word pervert. if a guy is sincere and not a perv then he usually speaks then looks.
2007-05-14 02:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Tanay76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh mock outrage by women is such a funny sight to see. You blame us when we look at you. There are plenty of women who look at mens butts.
2007-05-14 02:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not as expressive a women. They don't need for everything to be defined. They accept things for what they are
2007-05-14 02:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because modern feminism makes women terribly unfriendly to men who approach them.
2007-05-14 02:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by DeadmanWalks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋