i am going out with a girl today. but most times she won't pick up my calls, but she always replying my txts. I told her I love her, she replied it is good for her to know that she is loved but she won't turn down my request to go out, but wants me to wait till after exams for party stuffs. just advice me and more tips if possible.
2007-05-14 02:17:15 · 15 answers · asked by diji 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe since she is in school it is easier to txt back than answer the call. If you could answer this....how often do you call her and txt her? For some reason I see you calling and txting her a lot.
2007-05-14 02:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by ☼♫Hmm..Interesting♪☼ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To paraphrase Rev. Jesse Jackson, she's more interested in her brains than her butt.
Repsect her wishes.
In fact, offer to study with her (and pay more attention to the books - you could probably use the book time too.) That way you can spend time with her doing something she feels important.
And take your time about partying too. Go to the park/zoo; a good movie; even church. Respectable public places. Go to clubs too - but make sure you get home sober and at a reasonable hour. Let her pick the place you go on a date. The idea is spending TIME with girl - not showing her off like a trophy.
And take your time for more "personal activities" too. Talk about it - sure - but if she says "no" then that means exactly that. "No." If you really care about this girl, tell her you'll wait until she's ready to advance your relationship.
Honey, this girl is worthy. She's got a good head on her shoulders.
2007-05-14 09:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you do meet her, tell her straight up that you've fallen head over heels with her.
Tell her that you respect her decisions and tell her that you'll wait for her just like she requested. Tell her also that you'll always be there for her no matter what.
You can't jump into a realtionship just like that boy. The fact that this girl isn't jumping into any relationship yet goes to show that she's pretty matured and knows what she wants and you oughtta be proud of that. Spend as much time as you possibly can with her BUT don't be clingy or desperate. Be a friend to her and constantly show her that you care and respect her...
I wish you all the best!
2007-05-14 09:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Destiny Wan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax a little until exams are over. Either she is really into her studies but doesnt want to lose you (hinch the polite answer) or shes scared and has been hurt before. The first time my husband told me he loved me I almost put my car in a ditch!! If you really care for her follow her lead a little til she feels a little easier around you (not talking on the phone) She s interested (dates) but probably keeping you at bey to make sure she doesnt get hurt or good finals!
2007-05-14 09:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by jozoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I almost never talk on the phone. I use texting and emails. Been doing it for a very long time and been with my man for almost 6 years.
It shows that she is responsible being that she wants to wait until after exams for party things.
Be patient with her, sounds like a smart girl :)
2007-05-14 09:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by notacomet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient with her she already explained to you she is in for exams so she needs time to concentrate then after she will all be yours. Comeon you know how exams can stress. Thats why i think she leaves her phone somewere and goes reading when she comes back she sees a missed call and her caring enough she txts you.she loves you.
Love is patient
2007-05-14 09:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Musumba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's shy, maybe she wants time to think before any commitment, maybe she's focusing on her exams which is good.
Just wait and stop talking on this matter for the time being.
2007-05-14 09:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ... diji.... obviously the lady has priorities man.... she probably likes you but honestly, when you're studying... being in a relationship can be a distraction because of the effort it takes to maintain each of them..... if you truly love her you should respect what she is saying and not call all the time otherwise shé'll get annoyed... play it cool dude and don't act desperate.
2007-05-14 09:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to do good in exams - and doesn't need you at the moment mythering her
2007-05-14 09:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by Redhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the advice you need you have gotten from this girl.after her responsibilities she will see you.You said you love her and that sounds a little anxious to me and actually that kind of talk when we haven't even gone out would turn me off.
2007-05-14 09:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋