Family & Relationships - 14 May 2007

2007-05-14 10:34:45 · 16 answers · asked by jlau_hn 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if guys are flirting with you..wat are some things thety doo

2007-05-14 10:33:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well...actually it was more like my ankle...but thats still part of my leg!! right?

2007-05-14 10:32:14 · 14 answers · asked by xo~brianna~xo 2 in Singles & Dating

Im shy and some guys dont like me cause of that reason....why?

2007-05-14 10:26:15 · 10 answers · asked by Ljay 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend and I broke up three months ago. He was mean and controlling and I couldn't take it anymore. These past three months we've kept in touch, and he's showed me he has truly changed. The past three WEEKS we've been hooking up and everything just like we used to... I've been thinking we're getting back together. Someone told him I was seeing someone else last week, so over the weekend he had his 19th birthday party... He slept with my "best" friend. A girl who calls herself my sister... I wasn't seeing anyone else, I was single and still deeply in love with him. He says I can't blame him for what he did because he's a guy and because we weren't officially together... What do I do? I love him, but I feel this is so wrong... Help...

2007-05-14 10:23:51 · 7 answers · asked by Cieeeee <3 3 in Singles & Dating

guys wud u rather have sex with virgins or expirienced girls .. and why? whats the difference
why is it such a big turn on?

2007-05-14 10:23:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I filed for Chapter 13 two years ago and have a little over 2 years left on paying the debt back. This payment is taken out of my check each week. I will be filing for divorce in two weeks and I am curious if anyone has been through this or if any one knows what will happen. Will I have to continue paying all of this...will it be split...will I have to pay it plus child support? We have a 12 year old daughter. Any help is appreciated. Thanks!!

2007-05-14 10:21:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need an idea for a great birthday present for a teen boy that doesnt cost over 200$, any ideas?

2007-05-14 10:20:18 · 13 answers · asked by Italian Stallion 1 in Family

Well to make long story short I met a guy a while back this year through a friend and we danced at the club. We instantly were attracted to one another. He asked my friend about me but was kinda turned off by the fact that I was a virgin. (Im 20 and waiting till marriage). Well i guess u could say he fell out of liking me and met someone else. I too met someone else. HE is a great guy and hes like no hter guy Ive ever met.Hes basically my dream guy. Well the other guy, the one I danced with at da club, well he has kissed me before and he mnetioned that on myspace on a pic comment. I always wonder why he does that and I find myself flirting wit him again and I get soooo atttacted to him again but then I feel bad becuz of this other guy Ive been seeing which truly is a good man. Well why is this other guy throwing the time we kissed in my face?? What does he want from me. Is he still attracted??

2007-05-14 10:19:45 · 1 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Singles & Dating

but I didn't sleep with anyone

2007-05-14 10:19:30 · 25 answers · asked by db14 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 15, fortunatey have a good relationship with my parents. But I see so many cases of bad and hurtful relationships that I'm upset and scared. It seems most parents are unforgiving and only love and trust their kids when everything is OK. But if they mess up, everything is lost, love trust, good relationships. And sometimes this makes kids so resentful that they their resentment will go to adulthood. Is it possible for a kid to be forgiven if he or she messes up? I've never done anything bad and don't inted to, but I'm a human being and can, of course, make misstakes. I I make one, will everything I 've built in terms of love and tyrust be lost? I think if my parents make some mistake I'll forgive them? So, why does this have to be on-way? I think not forgiving their kids is somewthing cruel and selfish of their parents, who can't accept and loive their kids when they make mistakes. I guess this is not the case, otherwise all parentskids relationships would be destroyed forever

2007-05-14 10:16:37 · 2 answers · asked by Marta 1 in Family

im so sad

2007-05-14 10:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by blondey 1 in Singles & Dating

I am with this guy and he is so direspectful to me. He calls me bad names and tells at me he hates me because I 'm lazy. I can't stand how he gets so personal with me and I wish something bad would happen to him, really! Well, I don't know what to do know because he's in jail and I do not want to see him after he is released. I just don't know what to do . What does anybody think I should do ????I hate his guts!

2007-05-14 10:15:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday my husband and I and my step son went on the river and my hubby was drinking. We left around 5 and went home. I took my step son home around 6:30 and asked my hubby to start the grill. The last time i had eaten was about 11am. (MIND YOU THIS WAS MOTHER'S DAY) When I got home, he was going to the neighbors (on the 4 wheeler) because it hadn't been run in a couple of weeks. Well he didn't start the grill until about 8, he finished cooking about 9. About this time he was trashed. The neighbors were over at our house and were talking and she wanted her toungue pierced (my husband is a licensed piercer) so he said he was going over there. I was fussing about him not cooking until late. I told him to start around 6, and he didn't, he was being really rude and short with me. So i told him to go by himself, i had to go to work the next day. Well when i took my step son home there was 1/2 tank of gas. When i went to work there was a full tank. He didn't home until 1 am! What you think

2007-05-14 10:14:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am about to have a baby me and my husband are separated and my family hates him. He was verbally abusive and so they have harsh feelings towards him so do I. I know that this is supposed to be a exciting time and it seems more stressfull than anything. I don't know wheter to call him when I am in laobr or not. He says that a time like this only comes once and he doesn't want to miss this time at the same time I have my family saying that he doesn't desrve to be there. What should I do I want this to be a happy time! I imagined him being there by my side and I also imagined my family being there also. It is a complete mess and I dont know what to do? Any suggestions?

2007-05-14 10:12:03 · 23 answers · asked by pittbull mommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-14 10:10:02 · 9 answers · asked by ben_ev0lent 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was a teenager, my divorced parents got into drugs and I was unable to live with either one (mom was physically abusive, dad was paranoid, talked about everyone "trying to get in [his] head and destroy [him]", and kicked me out a lot. I spent most of my teen years living in a hippie crash pad with my boyfriend and surviving off very little food. When I contacted my god parents (who always said I could stay with them if the divorce got messy) they obviously didn't want me there, said it was my fault and I drove my parents to their behavior. Years later, my parents are recovered and very sorry about my teen years. However, my godparents have never said a thing, and on the few occasions I have encountered them, act like nothing happened and introduce themselves as my "god parents". I'm very uncomfortable around these people who hurt me very badly. I do not want them at my wedding, but my mother is pressuring me to invite them. What do I do?

2007-05-14 10:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am a 33 year old mother of 4 who is pregnant with a 5th. When I married my husband 5 years ago he had no children of his own and I agreed to have my tubes "untied" and have ONE child so that he can fulfill his dream of being a father. While all of my pregnancies were plagued with complications, the 4th one was the worst. I was hospitalized 6 times and wound up having to have an emergency c-section which resulted in further complications. Despite the sickness and complications, he still wanted more! Because of the c-section complications, I cannot have any more abdominal surgery. Because of other issues I cannot take birth control for longer than 6 months. My husband hates condoms and refused to buy them and he will never consider a vasectomy. Now, I'm pregnant again, suffering the same complications as the last pregnancy. He's happy that he has another child on the way and I'm miserable and suffering daily. I hate the sight of him and try to avoid being around him. Am I wrong

2007-05-14 10:07:37 · 59 answers · asked by weebit9898 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well to make long story short I met a guy a while back this year through a friend and we danced at the club. We instantly were attracted to one another. He asked my friend about me but was kinda turned off by the fact that I was a virgin. (Im 20 and waiting till marriage). Well i guess u could say he fell out of liking me and met someone else. I too met someone else. HE is a great guy and hes like no hter guy Ive ever met.Hes basically my dream guy. Well the other guy, the one I danced with at da club, well he has kissed me before and he mnetioned that on myspace on a pic comment. I always wonder why he does that and I find myself flirting wit him again and I get soooo atttacted to him again but then I feel bad becuz of this other guy Ive been seeing which truly is a good man. Well why is this other guy throwing the time we kissed in my face?? What does he want from me. Is he still attracted??

2007-05-14 10:07:06 · 1 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has some anger issues because of a past relationship that I was in and I don't want him headed to the wrong crowd. I am a single parent on a budget. Please help!!

2007-05-14 10:06:27 · 11 answers · asked by SINGLEMOM4 3 in Family

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years living together for 2, he's older and its a very sexual relationship. It started as him becoming aware of my past where I had experimented with a same sex partner. He wanted me to do this so he could watch (which I haven't done). It has now gone to him imagining me being with him and another guy I play along because he is insistant that I not ruin this fantasy for him. He now keeps making comments about really wanting me to be with him and another guy. He wants us to get married in Vegas and him get us a male prostitue. To be honest I don't think our relationship can handle going to that level. I have pretty much become a homebody because he has issues with me going out to have dinner/drinks with friends because his exwife cheated on him. I love him very much but don't think this is a good idea us going down this road. I feel like I can't tell him because he gets offended so easily he will take this personally. What to do?

2007-05-14 10:06:24 · 20 answers · asked by heidi 1 in Singles & Dating

It would be me, a lesbian or bisexual and him. He only wants to watch me ane the other woman make love, for titalitation he says. What do you think of a man who declairs he is in love with me asking me to do something like this. I really love him alot and would consider obliging him.

2007-05-14 10:04:56 · 26 answers · asked by Redhead 2 in Singles & Dating

Married to the woman of my dreams for 6 months now, and a problem is surfacing that I really dont like. I know communication is the answer, but my question is how. My wife constantly compares me to her brother in law. Not outright, but through subtle hints. I am a very open, loving and caring man. I bring flowers home every few days. I celebrate our anniversary monthly. We take small vacations monthly. I constantly tell her how beautiful she is (and she is!!!) I love shopping with her for her and her mom and my kids. Not so much for me, but occationally. I feel like I am doing the best that I can but am never quite good enough. It is different than when we were dating, not sure what is the deal. Counseling, communication, all that is good, just looking for some helpful advice in this stressful first year of marriage. I am commited to be the best husband God wants me to be, it is just hard to never feel quite good enough....

2007-05-14 10:02:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have this friend...who i have been friends with for like 2 1/2 -3 years when i first met him he was with a girl he had been dating for like 3 years so he was of limits and it was ok cuz i didn't really like him then!!! but then one summer( like 2 summers ago) he broke it off with his girlfriend and he spent everyday with me he told me he didn't want a new girlfriend just like friends with benefits......so a couple of our mutual friends were making out with him one night and i got mad cuz it was gross and annoying so i went outside to hangout and later that night he told me it would have been better if i would have just stayed in there and talked to him instead of him making out with the other girls.......then like a week later we went camping with some friends and i rode out to the camp site with him after he got off work and i asked him what he would do if i kissed him and he said he wouldn't mind...but he didn't say he wanted me too either!!!.....more details coming!!!!!

2007-05-14 10:00:56 · 3 answers · asked by hmmm...interesting 3 in Singles & Dating

i know no one likes to be cheated anyway but if you would had to choose between them what kinda cheating would you prefer........... mentally/emotionally OR physical/sexually?

2007-05-14 09:59:10 · 20 answers · asked by lavin tats me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What r they? Symtoms? How r they spread? What kind of kissing do you have to do for them to spread. If it was your boyfriends first kiss would you get a sickness?

2007-05-14 09:57:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 09:55:11 · 39 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I have a "Parenting Plan" from the court stating I will get our sons every summer, however for the past 3 years he has "altered" the plan to meet HIS needs. It states ,I will get the kids from June 1 - July 31 paying all costs for traveling (I am in NY they are in TN) He makes plans with his wife, 2 daughters and our sons to go on vacation every first week in June (MY TIME) and wants them returned to him 2 weeks prior to the end of July even though he has both boys FULL time during the year.I only see them those 2 months.Should I file for contempt of court for not following the parenting plan? I have documented work showing harrasement from both of them towards myself as well;phone calls,IM's,emails,etc.I LOG everything(already thought of that).He phoned in April to say I would NOT be seeing my sons this summer AT ALL!That he would bring them to me for a day or 2 when he comes to NY to see his parents.

2007-05-14 09:53:30 · 8 answers · asked by Gina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

... guys wud u rather have sex with virgins or expirienced girls .. and why? whats the difference?

2007-05-14 09:51:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 49 years old and just dont want anymore kids! Will I be breaking church doctorine if I do this?

2007-05-14 09:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by Steven M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships