is cybersex cheating? even if you plan on never meeting?

Answer 1

It is so amazing that all these people say that it is cheating, however...look at all t he people that answer these type of questions. Face it, there are way more people out there that have done it and won't admit it. Or would like to do it or have thought about it. They are just too rightous to admit it. I feel it is the same as watching porn and masterbating. If this other persons words can make you feel good for a short period of time, go for it!!! you are not hurting anyone!!! I have had the experience twice, (same person both times) and I don't feel that I have cheated one bit!! Not sure if we will ever meet, but don't care. We enojy talking with each other and there is nothing wrong with that. We talk more about other stuff, it's just that twice it led to a little more!!

Answer 2

Cybersex is completely ridiculous. It is unnecessary, and only those who appear to be completely desperate do it. And yes, it is considered cheating - you are looking towards someone else in a passionate, lustful way.

I think that cybersex is not needed in a relationship. It's pretending to have intercourse. Key word: pretending.

Stop with your playing and fooling around. Move into the real world of real love, and grow up.

Answer 3

From my personal point of view, TECHNICALLY, no... but if you have any morals, YES.

Frankly, I wouldn't care if my fiancee had cyber sex as I trust him implicitly. If that would be something he'd enjoy, it doesn't affect me in the slightest (though lucky for me, I know that's not the case).

My point is this, consider how you would feel if the rolls were reversed or if it would be possible for you to have a frank discussion about your desires. If you were to bring it it up in conversation, you could end up learning about some new things to distract you from your computer.

Anyway, my womanly answer, cybersex without your significant other's consent will ultimately be detrimental to the relationship.

But that's just me.

Answer 4

cybersex is emotionally cheating if your are not plan on ever meeting if you have a mate of your own.

My wife for 4 year emotionally cheated on me and we almost got an divorce.

Answer 5

Yes --- words and actions while ur typing the words is still doing something sexual with another person other than ur spouse is wrong. Could lead to more than just cybersex eventually u could meet.

Answer 6

It ain't something I would do...but I see nothing wrong with it.

Unfortunately, the jealous mentally insecure wieners and paranoid controllers of the US of A seem to think so.

I wonder when someone will decide that we need to wear blindfolds to leave the house as well.

I say bring on the Taliban...make everyone wear a burka.

Answer 7

Well that all depends! If it's the wife most definitely because women lives revolved around their emotions and if their carrying on an affair on line it's just a matter of time before it turns physical........ The husband more than likely is just fantasizing and looking for an ego boost.

Answer 8

Yes it's cheating......you say you don't "plan" on meeting but you are still giving to someone else that should be for your spouse.

Answer 9

Yes because you have the intention in your mind. From a mechanical perspective it isn't. I think cybersex is a paradox.

Answer 10

It is disrespectful. I give 100% of my desire and intimate thoughts to my BF. Why should I share this with a stranger?

I am sure your spouse would love to have long chats and ramp up the hot stuff, but instead you choose to chit-chat with some online dream.

Make your reality better buddy.