My ex boyfriend and I broke up three months ago. He was mean and controlling and I couldn't take it anymore. These past three months we've kept in touch, and he's showed me he has truly changed. The past three WEEKS we've been hooking up and everything just like we used to... I've been thinking we're getting back together. Someone told him I was seeing someone else last week, so over the weekend he had his 19th birthday party... He slept with my "best" friend. A girl who calls herself my sister... I wasn't seeing anyone else, I was single and still deeply in love with him. He says I can't blame him for what he did because he's a guy and because we weren't officially together... What do I do? I love him, but I feel this is so wrong... Help...
2007-05-14 10:23:51 · 7 answers · asked by Cieeeee <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off dump your "sister". If he truly cared about you and wanted things to work he would have approached you instead of trying to hurt you. Why your BF? Had it been anyone else I would have said work things out, but for it to be someone close to you - its not forgivible. Yes, you love him, but do you want to be hurt again, and again?
2007-05-14 10:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by sm02152001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety with the abuse issue alone you should just forget he is alive. Now back to the sleeping with your so called bff. She knew you still loved this guy right? well dump her butt as a friend and know that this is still all part of a abuse cycle with him. No, don't give him anymore chances unless you are truly wanting misery with your life. Get on with your life and find someone worthy of being with you. He is not worthy and you need to keep telling your self that.
2007-05-14 17:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be an idiot! If he thought that you were seeing someone else he should have asked you instead of sleeping with your best friend. i think that you should really take a close look at who you associate with because your choices are really messed up. Find yourself a new man and a new best friend. I would
2007-05-14 17:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BLOW THIS JERK OFF!!!!! HE IS A SLEEZE BAG AND SOUNDS LIKE HE IS USING YOU!!!
TELL HIM IN NO UNCERTAIN TERMS WHERE THE DOOR IS AND NOT TO LET IT HIT HIM ON THE WAY OUT.
He sounds like a realy worm - something lower than a snake in the grass. Be glad that he is moving and hopefully you will never have to see this jerk again!!!!
2007-05-14 17:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by Su-Nami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he slept with you friend to make u jealous and i think that if you really want to and you think he's changed then yes you shud give him another chance maybe your friend thought u were over him....
2007-05-14 17:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by trumpet.girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it was wrong.. given his past, i don't think i'd take him back to be honest.. if you think you have a shot at working it out, then you could try it though..
2007-05-14 17:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by idgaf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll say it outright:
He's a pervert.
2007-05-14 17:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋