a few years ago we were burgled whilst away on holidays, when i got back and started to sort things out i was in contact with a very nice sergeant, our friendship outside of what happened seemed to bloosom, we flirted a lot and both new what we wanted to do, but i didn't allow it to happen. Now through work i am back in contact with him, and the flirting has began but taking tiny steps, the feelings i feel for him are just as strong now as they were then, what the hell do i do? He is married with 2 girls, and i've been with my partner for 18 years and have 2 boys, there isn't anything wrong in our relationship, but i can't help these feelings. Of course deep down i know what the answer should be, but i have to work alongside him and i am really enjoying it. HELP, please don't be nasty, these feelings are real and i have never done anything like this before, and the only time i ever have these feelings are with my partner and him.
2007-05-14 01:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We all enjoyed our free single flirty days. This man has put a spring in your step and reminded you that as an individual you are attractive and desired. There's nothing wrong with this,my guess is if you were put into the situation to take things further you would probably call a halt to things and come to your senses. Just keep on enjoying your flirting and try to avoid any trouble with either of your families.
2007-05-14 01:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by heebygeeby 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When youre in a long term relationship its normal to wonder if the grass is greener on the other side, and enjoy a little flirt now and then.but ive found that the fantasy is usually better than the reality, especially the consequences and complications if you were found out.if i were you id try and resist the temptation, and keep it as a little fantasy in your head.that way no one gets hurt and you wont be dissappointed!
2007-05-14 01:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ramona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try thinking about what you two getting together would do to your kids and then to your spouses. Imagine ALL the damage that you both can and WILL do to your families if you dont stop this nonsense NOW!! If it helps..transfer to different department Honor your vows and commitment to your family.
2007-05-14 01:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it feels good do it . I am somewhat of a liberal in these
matters We only go these route once . I am also a firm
believer in Love, Fulfillment and Happiness..
The only problem is determing how you would feel of the consequences.. If you get caught... Good Luck..
2007-05-14 01:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just make sure he wears a condom.~~
2007-05-14 01:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋