2007-05-14 12:06:53 · 16 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If is only scheduled ... I want to get paid, because then it just becomes a chore.
2007-05-14 12:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes having a schedule for love making is a good thing because with kids and work its hard to make time for it or you are simply too tired when its bedtime. Try not to make it so routine that it gets boring and always try to be spontaneous to keep the fire burning. Try sneaking into the shower with your spouse when they aren't expecting it. Even if all you can squeeze in is a quicky thats ok too because sometimes those quickies can be sooooo hot.
2007-05-14 19:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am all for the spontaneous - but I understand the schedule thing if y'all are too busy for the spontaneous
2007-05-14 19:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if it is scheduled try to keep it new and fresh with the things that you are doing. And that also depends on if it is a time issue. If not then spontaneous is best.
2007-05-14 19:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scheduling it makes it seem like a chore. It should be spontaneous and whenever one of you is in the mood. Each of you needs to make sure that you are thinking of each other in that kind of way to make love as much as possible as it nurtures your marriage.
2007-05-14 19:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by SillierKimmy! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Spontaneous if you are wanting to enjoy it more:)
Scheduled if you are planning to make a baby and having trouble.
2007-05-14 19:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly spontaneous because scheduled isn't good
it would feel like to me that you have an appointment and not a relationship at all
2007-05-14 19:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by cassie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, for me and my spouse, sometimes scheduled, not written or anything works. If we haven't done it for a while and we make a point of ''lets do it" tonight, it puts it on the table. Spontaneous sex happens for us but a little harder with kids running around.
2007-05-14 19:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact of the matter is it won't get done if it's not planned. We both have real work to do when I get home and w/ kids and everything. If it doesn't get planned, it won't get done. Would love it if it was spontaneous but this is the real world especially w/ kids....
2007-05-14 19:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spontaneous!!!
Scheduling it would be weird. What if you schedule it and you're just NOT in the mood, and CAN'T get in it??????
2007-05-14 19:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between work, kids & everything else that goes alone with being married. How ever you can get it. Go for it! Me myself spontaneous can be very freaky.
2007-05-14 19:13:34 · answer #11 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋