What do girls look for in GUYS? Wha catches your attention?

Question

How would you react if you like the person that you have never seen before and today is the first time?

Does expensive car makes difference....or conservetive clothes.....

Answer 1

i think it has to do with personality.. not really what he has like cars, etc..

Answer 2

Are you referring to love at first sight? I don't believe in it. I think it should be called lust at first sight because that is what it really is. You know nothing about the person so all you are going off of it looks.

What do girls look for in guys? It really depends on the girl. For me the biggest thing is personality and a great smile. Someone who is absolutely hilarious and really smart. Those are the BIGGEST things for me. Other things that are also a factor(sort of) dark hair, tan, outdoorsy, rugged car(jeep ect,) in shape(ish). 5'10 or taller. Many of these can be waived with an amazing personality or smile. I would never pass up a blonde who drives a crappy car and is a little chubby if his smile and personality are amazing. It's weird. I have had crushes on tall heavy weight guys and blonde skinny guys. it's really all out there. But personality, confidence, and a smile can get a guy a long way!

Answer 3

A girl, would like money, cars, and what you have to offer...but a real woman cares what is inside, how you treat her, never lie to her or do her wrong in anyway...I talked to someone that I liked for several years before I met them but there were lies, he borrowed money (not good for a man to do:), and I just know that he knew the person sitting next to us in the restaurant...a man that plays games is the biggest turn off for a women. Women like a man to put her first, but can still be sensitive, one that can be confident but not cocky...I know it seems like such a fine line, but you can still be yourself and have respect at the same time...how hard is that.
When a woman is meeting you for the first time, she is not only nervous, but she is also watching you to see if you are being fake. I hope this helps, don't listen to the ones that said you need a fancy car...the ones that have the fancy car are the ones that are usually boring and seem to look in the mirror alot...lol...some of my best dates have been with men in beat up old pick up trucks, picked flowers out of some ones yard and a drive to a lake in the woods to go fishing...:) It is what's in your heart that gives a woman warmth, that you think of her that much. Do what you like to do, and keep the respect, and the rest should fall in place:)

Answer 4

He should have a sense of humor. Has to know how to have a good convo. Looks matter to us sometimes depends on the girl I guess. You have to treat a girl nicely but still have the bad boy side to you. Every girl has wanted to be a 'lil princess and for that king to kill the dragon and come rescue her so if you're willing to do that for her then that's great. LoL. uMmM... what else?? Dnt act like her father or mother. That's the biggest thing. Dnt act like you're in charge of her. Give her her freedoms and dnt treat her like some kind of blow-up doll. Just have some confidence. That def. catches any girls attention. Thats like the biggest thing after your personality. Eyes and his smile should be nice. His body. He shouldn't be skinny but overwieght isnt so great either. I mean a muscular body wouldn't hurt. Material things are NOT all that. Cars, jewelry and all that is nothing. But it does make a good impression just as long as you dnt talk bout em all the time. I mean it'd be nice not to be broke when you go out on a date but you dnt need to take her to Paris to eat at a 5star hotel. Just the fact that you're together and she's laughin n sayin she'll never 4get the night is great eough. That;s what really matter to most girls is how happy you make them feel and it doesn't take material things to do that! G'Luck!!

Answer 5

It all depends on the girl, and for me conservative clothes makes a positive difference because I see they are responsible and reserved, but expensive cars say you are an egotistical freak who only gets attention with flashy things. The first thing I look for in a guy are his eyes, then his hair, then the smile, then size, then clothes. I don't really care if a guy is muscular or not, as long as he his healthy looking.

Answer 6

How u act around other people...if you're nice to everyone, friendly, etc. And money and cars aren't, or shouldn't be, important. What kind of clothes you wear might help catch people's attention. If I liked a person I'd never seen before I'd get to know them better.

Answer 7

I don't care about the cars and that mess- if the guy is really into that it makes him seem materialistic and pretentious. I like a guy who knows how to laugh and just have some good old fashioned fun. I look for the smile and the eyes a nice butt and big arms don't hurt either

Answer 8

I look for confidence especially. I go for guys who aren't desperate for attention, but will share the spotlight. They have to be able to hold my gaze, or else they're a coward, and it adds a little something extra if they smile- not ear-to-ear, but a little, daunting smile that leaves me wanting more. The kind of guy that holds my attention gives me subtle signs, so I can never tell if he really likes me or is just messing with my head. I would react, when I first like a person, like normal, just to be sure. I won't give signs I like him til a day or so later- just to get myself together.

Answer 9

material things aren't really what catch a girl's eye (unless it's a snotty one that just wants your money!) Confidence is a huge thing. And we like a guy that is just overall kind to people. I love to see a guy walk in with a great big smile looking like he's ready to conquer the world! (as long as the confidence thing doesn't go too far....) And a guy that I see just being nice to people, like opening doors and stuff, really catches my eye. Also, not necessarily one that has expensive clothes, but one that takes care of himself. Like has nice brushed teeth, wears cologne, ect.

Answer 10

I always want the guy to look at me in my eyes when talking to me. the eyes tell a lot.and a good personality ..
an expensive car means nothing..or clothes.

Answer 11

she must be outgoing and wild, but still kind of chilled back a reserved at times. She must be funny and be somewhat intelligent in that she can hold a conversation. tan or not snow white although there are a select few of exceptions, big breasts, big ***,nice/hot face, and hot legs are always a plus and belly rings are hot. Im offended by the 1st answer im gonna cry lol