Family & Relationships - 14 May 2007

Does a butt actually have to be big to be considered attractive? Is it the size or the shape? Like my butt is round and sticks out well, but I don't think anyone would call it big. What makes a nice butt to you? I'm confused.

2007-05-14 15:03:32 · 6 answers · asked by melissa 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 15:01:34 · 12 answers · asked by The Naughty Librarian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering....

What reasons do couples decide to do a vow renewal? Is it just because maybe they never had a big wedding? Are there other reasons? And at what point would you do that? 10 years? 25 years?

2007-05-14 14:59:49 · 9 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

.........this girl that did me wrong....was really bad to me...i honestly hate revenge...i just ignore her likeshe never meant anything to me...ladies, how does it feel when someone ignores you? is it worst than word spoke out loud?

2007-05-14 14:58:32 · 21 answers · asked by dostres 1 in Singles & Dating

After 13 years of searching, my first love and i finally found each other. We have not communicated except through email. We are both married and realize that if we agree to meet eachother we would end up in an affair. So after 4 months of emailing we decided we should at least try and meet for lunch in July. He started to confess that he was still 110% deeply in love with me and felt bad that he felt this way, but I was his one true love. etc. etc. So I have three questions...

1. Can you hang on to someone for 13 years and still pick up where you left off when you were 15 and 17 if you were truly in love.

2. He freaked out and sent me a wonderful and thoughtful goodbye letter and says he just can't bear the pain of seeing me, Was that the truth, why would he freak out?

3. Do I persue this? Do you fight for someone you loved so deeply or do you leave your past alone?

2007-05-14 14:58:23 · 15 answers · asked by Little_Red 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my daughter's father are trying to get a long with each other for the sake of our daughter, however my mother keeps being negative, and it is affecting our daughter. My mother is very protective of her 1st born granddaughter, however her negativity is not welcome, and i don't want to keep her from her Grandmother, however it makes it hard when my mother is always talking down about my daughter's father, and have asked her to stop. She is not supportive of me trying to have my daughter see her father, she wants me to keep him out of her life as much as possible, and that is not good for my daughter, nor is her negativity either. How do i ask her to stop, and if she continues, what should i do?

2007-05-14 14:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am jealous and he said I should get over it. He said he is going to talk to who ever he wants to talk to. how does a family work this one out? I cant help but be jealous...

2007-05-14 14:57:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My delima is this-----you meet guys with potential to be in a serious relationship...but as time go on and sometimes they tell you right up front....I am not ready for a relationship, or I dont know what I want right now.....why is this?

2007-05-14 14:52:57 · 7 answers · asked by msann 2 in Singles & Dating

what the #@%$#$^# my wife just canceled our gym contract without telling me!!!!!!!and i pay the stupid bill.............and i am the one who brings in the majority of the $$$........i dont understand why she wouldnt tell me.............yes its true we dont go too often but we just got it in march!!!!!!and payed the $#$##! deposit..............why would someone do that........im so pissed!!!!!!!!maybe if she would of told me, it would be different.................tell me should i be mad?????????

2007-05-14 14:52:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If someone you have been seeing for about 7 months, has lied to you twice, and you have found out and confronted them, tells you they're sorry again, and they'll make it up to you... do you trust them? do you give them one more chance?

2007-05-14 14:51:55 · 6 answers · asked by Jaylee B 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this really cute girl that lives downstairs from me. I see her when i get in from work when she is goin to work. We have spoke to one another twice. Somedays when she gets in from work she leaves as im coming in when she is done work. Does that mean she has a bf? I have never seen her with or brought a guy around this apt. Is she single? How can i find out.. What should i do to get her attention or to get to know her more to ask her out? Thanks I honestly think that she is the most attractive and beautiful girl that i have ever met, which is why I would love to get to know her better. What is the best way to go about this?
Sorry to ask this question again. I just need more responses to help me out.

2007-05-14 14:50:14 · 3 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are hosting our wedding and my soon to be husbands father has remarried and his natural mother has passed away several years ago but is there a way to do invetitions to include her too or do we just stick to the brides parents.

2007-05-14 14:44:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a daughter who is 12. My husband and I are seperated and she's really been pulling away. I'm trying my hardest to give her the space she wants, but I'm afraid that she's angry and she's doing things she may regret in the future.

When I try to talk to her, she just withdraws. I found a note from one of her friends, telling her to cheer up and "don't be weird just cause of what you did with (insert boy's name here)." I don't want to invade her privacy and I don't want her to feel that she can't trust me ... but if something is happening with her I need to know about it.

I NEED ADVICE!

2007-05-14 14:41:51 · 23 answers · asked by fairy*chick~ 1 in Family

What should I do?

2007-05-14 14:41:28 · 26 answers · asked by Carmelita~Cita 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 14:39:17 · 3 answers · asked by claude s 1 in Singles & Dating

hellooooo there!!!!... i want to find a very good perfume with sweet notes of vanilla!... i want something good, maybe like "BLUE SUGAR".. ("that pefume smells GREAT!!")... but, can you help me finding another one different?.... thank you! VERY VERY much!! ^-^

2007-05-14 14:39:00 · 1 answers · asked by emo rockr 1 in Singles & Dating

i am trying to find a wedding dress but having a really difficult time. i want more of an evening gown look instead of a big flashy wedding dress. i'd like a halter top and maybe even a lace up back. our wedding will be outside near the water. we will only be having about 50 guests. it's gonna be more of a wedding party kinda occasion. but i still want to stand out. i am a size 16 and hardly anyone carries dresses that i'm looking for in that size. its been hell! anyway! has anyone had a dress made specially for you? did it turn out exactly like you wanted it to? i've been told by some people it was AWESOME, and then i've heard from others NOT to get a dress made. i'm in the houston area, so if you know of someone GOOD, let me know!

2007-05-14 14:38:37 · 10 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Weddings

my boyfriend awlways wants me to drink w/ him but everytime I get drunk I find him horribly hidious what should I do?

2007-05-14 14:38:02 · 13 answers · asked by Christiane H 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who i rarely see, i love him alot and we talk everynight, its hard tho to hear ppl say how pathetic it is that i never see him, and i want to see him so much it drives me crazy! Idk how do you make it work?

2007-05-14 14:37:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just broke up with my boyfriend and he called me ugly and i tried not to let it but me cause it really shouldnt matter but please tell me what u think of me honostly thanks
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2007-05-14 14:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by Tinkerbell eats Yahoo! 5 in Singles & Dating

i have always wanted to know why they have it?

2007-05-14 14:36:01 · 41 answers · asked by sweetpie 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend crystal is having her 12th birthday party and I have no clue what to get her . She likes candy alot , make up , art stuff , reading , music and that type of stuff . What can I get her

2007-05-14 14:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by Stubby hashbrown 3 in Friends

2007-05-14 14:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by pim203 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is very moody and likes to blame his bad behavior on me. On Mother's Day he didn't acknowledge me or even take our daughter to get me a card because he was mad at me for some unknown reason. It hurts me and I tell him it does, but he just justifies his behavior by saying I did something wrong. Sometimes I don't know what to do.

2007-05-14 14:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this really cute girl that lives downstairs from me. I see her when i get in from work when she is goin to work. We have spoke to one another twice. Somedays when she gets in from work she leaves as im coming in when she is done work. Does that mean she has a bf? I have never seen her with or brought a guy around this apt. Is she single? How can i find out.. What should i do to get her attention or to get to know her more to ask her out? Thanks I honestly think that she is the most attractive and beautiful girl that i have ever met, which is why I would love to get to know her better. What is the best way to go about this?

2007-05-14 14:24:12 · 4 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20, a guy and still a virgin. Its nothing serious I just have really had the "opportunity" come my way. But I'm very much fine with that. I kind of consider myself greatful actually. But it this soceity I'm a freak. Why? I've seen what sex can do to a person. Look around at are culture. For so much people losing their virginity make them turn into Jeykell and Hyde. I was watching something on TV and saw a bunch of people taking an HIV test and they looked terrified at what their the results might be. But sitting there kind of laughing. I got nothing to worry about. I'm not getting anyone pregnant, no ones getting an abortion because of me and not infected with HIV or Aids. Im not using anyone and I'm being used. If anything looking around sex is a bit of a turn off. So why are people like me considred freaks. Is it fair?

2007-05-14 14:23:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What qualities should I look in a girlfriend? Okay, hotness is not a quality I am looking for. If I am looking for a nice girlfriend, every girl in the whole world is "nice", every girl in the world can have the personality that I am looking for. If I am looking for a b i t c h, every girl can be a b i t c h as long as I talk nasty to them. All girls can have a caring personality also. They all can be fun. What make you choose your girlfriend or boyfriend? if you serious think about it, all people have the same qualities, I don't know what am I suppose to be looking for anymore. I think I will just get any girl as my girlfriend.

2007-05-14 14:23:14 · 5 answers · asked by ralph g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 14:18:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know what happens to me

2007-05-14 14:16:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-14 14:15:09 · 10 answers · asked by oslo_cat 2 in Singles & Dating