.........this girl that did me wrong....was really bad to me...i honestly hate revenge...i just ignore her likeshe never meant anything to me...ladies, how does it feel when someone ignores you? is it worst than word spoke out loud?
2007-05-14 14:58:32 · 21 answers · asked by dostres 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if they care.
2007-05-14 15:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by Zasu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about that person. In my first marriage, it bothered me early on when my ex-husband would ignore me. It hurt me. After a few years though, my feelings for him changed and then when he ignored me, I was happy because then I didn't have to listen to him or kiss him or anything. It was like a nice little "vacation" from him. Eventually, I began enjoying his silent treatment more and more and finally asked for a divorce.
2007-05-14 22:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a jerk for ignoring her. It's your choice, you are able to make your decisions, and if she doesn't matter to you...then good for you. Move on with your life and stop caring about the emotions she is currently having. It's just wrong to do such a thing, and then wonder if you're hurting her emotionally.
2007-05-14 22:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being ignored is better than being told to your face that your hated if thats the case, but if you dont hate her completly then tell her how you feel and talk it out thats always the best way to solve problems
2007-05-14 22:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by bRoWn EyEd BeAuTy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's worse. If you say negative things to her, you give her an opportunity to say things back and hurt you AGAIN. If you ignore her, it sends her the message that she just isn't worth the time and that you aren't hurting all that much about what she did to you. It's a good tactic.
2007-05-14 22:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ughh it kills me, when i guy ignores me thats all i talk about, i tear myself to pieces trying to figure out what i did wrong, basically cry myself to sleep, listen to depressing love songs, and watch the free hugs campaign.
you really shouldn't do it on purpose, sometimes we actually don't deserve something that drastic, i don't think i did (my guy friend was mad cause he found out i had a crush on his best friend, i didn't know he liked me though, if i did i so totally would have liked him back just cause he's my friend and he means more to me thanjust a crush).... it broke my heart, its really terrible, you think its not bad and you probably would perfer it to the spoken words but honestly NO! i would rather know what exactly i did wrong and how much they hate me and have them call me names than to have to wonder how much i must have hurt them, and think of all the things i would have done differently and what i would/want to say... but feel to ashamed to say... i spent every minute of every day thinking about him... but after about 2 weeks i started to hate him and honestly didn't care what he though anymore, so i started avoiding him too, and not even giving him a glance in the hall .... and now we are starting to be friends again, slowly with one word conv. daily but its a start
well if you want to hurt her you are doing pretty good, just don't let it drag on for more than one weekend after that she would have thought about it too long and given up...
if you like her stop
2007-05-14 22:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes the silence kills me I rather fight than be ignored because when I'm ignored I feel like nothing, when in fighting I at least have a voice.
2013-12-24 01:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes!!!!! I personally hate it, I would rather someone curse me out in front of millions than to ignore me.....You go!!! if she did you wrong she deserves it
2007-05-14 22:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by skeeter195848 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she did u wrong she probably didnt care about you to begin with and u ignoring her probably doesnt bother her anyway. so the joke might just be on u
2007-05-14 22:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by poeticscribe1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring is worse than yelling but sounds like she deserves it!
2007-05-14 22:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by Angelacia baybeeeeee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does hurt and it makes us feel really bad!!! Dnt ignore just start talking about it with her and tell her how she made u feel
2007-05-14 22:00:44 · answer #11 · answered by ~*****Latina Gangsta*****~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋