Okay so heres the deal. I dated this guy twice for the past year n half! i got pregnant with his kid and lost it last August! we stopped talking til feburary of this year. he broke up with me may 4th saying he dont have feelings for me! his cousins love me to death we still kick it n ****. they tell me all the time that he is scared. his bestfriend called me the other day we talked for like an hour about my ex. We both came to the understanding that my EX could not accept the fact or understand that someone other then family wanted him. Cause everytime he went to the bar without me he was taken he told everyone that i was his girl and he wanted me. so my question to you is do you think he will realize what he lost and come back or is this really done?
2007-05-14 12:13:44 · 11 answers · asked by mizzbrittaney87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he tells all the guys that he wants u back then i think he wants u back and still likes you. Hunni...dont give up too quickly. call him up one night and just be likehey whats goin on. I havent talked to u in ages. I kno u don tlike me but i still have some feelings for you and i just want u to no that because i miss u ok?i love ur family i love hangin out with u i love u! please lets just hang out as friends or whatever i just miss being with u. I am not asking u to go back out with me but just be friends becasue i want u in my life. Then you can hang up. THen he will call u back if he does like you and tell u that he likes you trust me thats what happened with my bwest friend...she still had feelings for him nad just called him up one day and was like omg! i miss you soo much then she started crying and they broke up mothes ago. He broke up with her and she was a reck. Now you lok at hem and they are married with a baby on the way! Its great so just give it a shot.. becasue what do you have to lose? You are going to say i love u but if you dont love me back t hen lets be friends for now. So you will be friends then you guys can hang out more and mroe and will be back together again. Trust me it WILL i repeat WILL work! All the luck in the world with your soon to be husband!!!
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2007-05-14 12:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by calientaXOchica<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait for him, girl. Move on. You don't want to have to deal with his issues. You can't go by what you perceive, you have to go by what he communicates to you. Because, if he is unwilling to admit it to you, then he probably is unwilling to admit it to himself. Move on. He may never realize it, or he may already realize it but still be afraid to do anything about it. The best thing for you to do, is prove to yourself and him that you don't need him. You are a young and fiery woman, and will not be held back by someone else's problems. Especially if that someone, refuses to acknowledge you. ONLY GET BACK WITH HIM -If he comes to you and confesses his problem and his love for you and asks for you to help him through this, then let me know because there is a man in my life that I wish would do the same.
Honestly, until he realizes that the world and you will not stand by and wait for him to figure out his ****, that every time he chickens out he loses someone great, and that unless he decides to be brave -he will end up alone- he isn't going to do anything.
move on.
2007-05-14 12:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Earthling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is using you to hide behind. I think he has some very big commitment issues and that you are not going to get anywhere with someone like this. Cut your losses, keep your friends (his cousins) but move on to someone who has the same expectations and goals as you do hunny!
2007-05-14 12:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by mrsmommaid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is mysituation and i think that he will just not come back because my man dide and its been 4 months now and i mean ive been dating an **** but he never came back so yeah i think its over but you should just talk to him and ask him stright up and see what happenes
2007-05-14 12:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he dodged the bullet on this one and is not coming back. In the meantime I hope you learned how to use birth control properly (and don't give me that junk that you did)
2007-05-14 12:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want a guy like that first of all, give your self a break and try to date others and don't worry about it, if he comes beggin' then your heart will tell ya what to do at that moment.
2007-05-14 12:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its over, time to move on.
2007-05-14 12:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should want to be over. Don't deal with his drama.
2007-05-14 12:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a prequel to a jerry springer show?
2007-05-14 12:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by johnofthehills 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes tellin ppl hes taken and YOU ARE his gurl .....he'll come running back ;)
2007-05-14 12:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋