ok i have a boyfriend and we were together for 4 months and he would flirt with this other girl and i would see it and other people would tell me they would and i would ask him and he would tell me that they would just talk so it went on for like one whole month we were going out so i broke up with him but i loved him very much and he got with that girl that he would flirt with and some stuff happen with them and they broke up they were toether for 3 months and the whole time he sisnt talk to me but i loved him soooo much i wanted him back so they broke up because she treated him like crap and was talking to other guys and then we stared talking again and like 1 week later we got back together and just now this time it dont seem like he cares well it seems like he does but not as much i feel like i try to hard and there is this other guy that i like and he likes me and i dont know what to do because i am like IN LOVE with this guy that i am with now what do i do
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2007-05-14 12:00:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok i know this is easier said that done, but it'll hurt a lot less thatn when he breaks your heart, ditch him! Do it before he cheats on or ditches you.
2007-05-14 12:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Greer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not 100% in love with the boy you are dating now if you have some feelings for another boy, and he is probably not 100% in love with you either if you say he doesn't care about you as much. I think you should go with the boy that you like and he likes you back.
2007-05-14 19:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by brunettebeachbum72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, honestly I would break up with him and take some time for myself to see if you're really in love, lust or just infatuation. And If your heart remains then choose whats best. Sometimes people need space but the fear of lonlieness forces people to stay together in their comfy zone. And to let you know hun being all alone in love or one sided love isnt complete. Let it go. "Listen to your heart using your MIND yet dont be a fool." I wrote that quote :D yah
2007-05-14 19:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we love people who aren't good for us. as much as we need to let them go, we don't want to. But trust me, it's good for you to break it off with him, and you'll appreciate what you did later. He flirts with others while with you, and now he doesn't seem to care about you. Go with this other guy and your feelings for the guy you're "in love with" will fade with time.
Punctuation marks are really helpful, too. Good Luck
2007-05-14 19:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you don't know what like real love is so like finish Jr high and like move on to high school and don't like get pregnant because you like love a guy. GET OVER HIM. Stick to your studies and make something with your life. Don't worry about what other guys and girls are doing and saying. Worry about yourself and your future.
2007-05-14 19:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this guy doesn't seen all that in2 u than break up with him and talk to the other guy. If he treats you badly than y are you still with him. Make yourself happy cause since he talks to other girls that makes him happy so make yourself happy and get with this other guy.
2007-05-14 19:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with what feels right. If you like the other guy and think he will make you happy then try it. if the other guy likes you like he said he does, Im pretty sure he will do his best to make you happy.
Good luck!
2007-05-14 19:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Totsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and see the world for what it is. Find someone better.
2007-05-14 19:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keeping one in the oven and one at rest will always get one off its best.
2007-05-14 19:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll do the same thing that he did before
2007-05-14 21:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by poeticscribe1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋