it had all off my secert/inner thoughts...srry if this is repeating it wont show up on my computer. any way i mettion how no one likes me and how i used to cut my self...and stuff like that. It was just all my thoughts. that no one was ever going to see. But mom saw it and read it. I dont know what to. Now my whole faimlys gets to hear what i sick little girl i am.
2007-05-14 11:59:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Srry about the thing i clicked the wrong tag thing
2007-05-14 12:02:42 · update #1
You are not a "sick little girl" it was just a time in you life that you were going through, and right about it helped you to kind of get through it.
Sit down and talk to you're mom about everything, let her know that it hurt you that she went through you things. Anyhow since she knows everything talk to her about what it was that you were battling with. Let her know that you don't want her to go off telling everyone, and that you are confiding in her.
2007-05-14 12:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by MzCaRaMeL 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry about it... when they want you to sit down and talk about it, remember that you actually do NOT cut yourself (since you said it was just in your thoughts) Assure them that you do not plan on doing that either. They need to know that their daughter is OK and that she won't harm herself, because they probably love you a lot and want only good for you in your life. My Mom found a letter I had written many years ago too, and found out that I was pregnant and then all hell broke loose. It was awful the first week, lots of anger and tears. But in the end everything worked out alright. You just need to be strong now. And, if you actually do have thoughts about doing those things to yourself for real, try to talk to someone about them, maybe a school counsellor, a minister, a good friends Mother... anyone who you know won't judge you but will try to help you find out what's going on in your life.
Then they can direct you to the right person who will help you get rid of those self destructive thoughts. Life is good... we're all lucky to be on the face of this earth.
You're not a sick little girl hon... you're just going through some rough times right now and rough times always go away and things can get better. Don't forget that you can always MAKE things better in your life. Be strong.
2007-05-14 12:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by musica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur mom sounds just like my mom telling the whole world my business. That sux ur mom is like mine. next time- don't even keep a diary i find that there are almost no secrets that you can keep from the world & when u think no one will find out that's when it all comes out. Good luck & try not to leave your personal stuff anywhere even ur backpack. My mom had a bad habit of looking through my stuff to see what i was up to & that irritated me. Good luck & just hang in there i'm usre all this has you pretty pissed.
2007-05-14 12:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, that's no longer me. I purely have one new child and he or she's folding laundry dazzling now mutually as I goof off on the information superhighway. (She's owed me a prefer.) besides the shown fact that that's my pal with 5 little ones to a "T". She asked me to return over and help her make dinner some days in the past. She'd had some dental artwork and became into groggy. interior of an hour, i became into waiting to curve up in a ball and weep. The chaos became into maddening! dogs, cats and young ones have been everywhere! They have been like returned speaking spider monkeys. It became into as though the sensed my weak point or smelled my worry. She thinks that's exciting. She'd have extra young ones, in the event that they'd extra healthy them interior the domicile. What an adrenaline junkie! whilst the little ones strengthen up and circulate out, I wager she takes up base leaping as a pastime.
2017-01-09 20:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by rambharos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie G. Well to me it is good for you to keep secreat thoughts of yourself but when your mom was reading it, it has made her feel bad as how you are feeling, so that is why she started to tell to the whole family. But in my point of view it is better for you to go up to her and explain to her on why are you feeling this way, maybe your family members can help you to find a solution, but first try to go out to places and meet people around you, also try to talk to them and maybe from there you can make some good friends instead of you doing this and just keep it to yourself. Try this and hope it mtght help you.......
ALL THE BEST...........
2007-05-14 12:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good thing that mom found out or else you might be doomed to death. You need help and your family will be there to support you. All things have a reason to happen and that one was when your mom found that inner thought. Good luck to you and hope you find help that you so desperately need.
2007-05-14 12:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you wrote it to get those things off of your chest and never intended for anyone to read it. In my experience it is necessary at times to write things out versus keeping them bottled up at all times. Let her know that you would appreciate it if she respects your privacy and keep the contents of the letter and the conversation between the two of you. Good Luck and I hope that you are doing better.
2007-05-14 12:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by midgee81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not sick, just need someone to talk to. if people make fun of you don't listen. i had a bit of a problem when i was younger and so many people laughed at me. what i did was to develop a "tough skin".
look in the mirror, the person you see is the Real person that will always love you no matter what. family and friends can be mean sometimes, you will learn how to deal with them.
2007-05-14 12:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first read the book "she said yes" its a good book and it has almost the same senario in it, the girl wrote a letter and her mom found it her mom helped her and sent her to a church camp....
then tell your mom that you hav changed soo much since then and that you never would do it again and u dont think of any of the stuff in the letter is true anymore
2007-05-14 12:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are going to have to talk to her and tell her the truth and ask her to keep it between the two of you. This actually might be very positive for you in that you can get help if need be, or at least have your mom as an outlet for support when you are feeling down.
2007-05-14 12:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by tinks44 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋