people treat me like im nothing and that they can punch or hurt me when ever they want to. well thats how i feel. someone punched me hard and so i got sick of doing nothing and just being someone who always gets runned over so i give her a decent scratch i scrath really hard and i meen in but people still annoy me? how do i win a bit of, i dunno, respect
2007-05-14 20:30:22 · 18 answers · asked by Chinky 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You must respect yourself... and being mean and ugly to people that are that way to you doesn't always help.... my mom always said... "kill the ones that hate you with kindness" oh and it worked...
2007-05-14 20:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then stop whining on yahoo about how bad your life is. At least you aren't one of the children in Africa starving with AIDS. At least you aren't one of the Iraqi children that has no home. And I'm pretty positive you aren't living in a place that is taken over by another country and has been for hundreds of years. Quit whining, and look at the good things in your life. Stop taking life, especially a probably decent life, for granted. If you want respect, make sure you are treating OTHERS with respect. If you afford them respect and it goes unreturned..then cut that person out of your life.
Definitely won't get best answer on this one, because it's not exactly what you -want- to hear. But oh well, I'd rather be honest than kiss asss for some points on this.
2007-05-15 03:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lexi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone in the world is going to like/love you and it's just how life rolls. For every time someone hurts you physically or mental you shouldn't bring yourself down by thinking or feeling like a loser. If they feel the need to annoy you or pick at you then it means there is something within themselves they don't like or hate and picking on you or annoying you makes them feel better about themselves. Love and respect yourself first, if your able to block the negativity around you and focus on the things or people in your life that brings you happiness then nothing Else showed matter. You are a winner and will always be, remember your always number one.
2007-05-15 03:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Pink~Panther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you think of yourself is reflected on your outside. People can sense your self esteem, and some people get a thrill by taking advantage of people who think little of themselves. It's nothing to be embarrassed about as long as you're willing to change. You have to look inside yourself and ask yourself why you allow people to belittle you, and ask yourself why they target you and not other people? Treat yourself nicely and others will treat you more nicely also. In dealing with physical abuse, stick up for yourself and tell them what they're doing is bullshit
2007-05-15 03:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know how you are takeing this. Im sure they wont care but it does help out a little. Then just let them know that you ARE planning on doing something back. ( Just to scare them and make them watch their backs) And always make it look like you are getting ready to do something. But just dont do anything. The goal is to make them scared that you are going to get them bad so they will be to worried about anything else. Try it. It might just work...
2007-05-15 03:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by chriswh90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have spoken my words and rightly expressed my feelings. Obliged. What I am doing is I have become absolutely blunt. I don't base my views on emotions. Flat answers to people. Really don't bother people.Eagles catch no flies. Don't bother and forget every thing. I am successful.
2007-05-15 03:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwwwwww home girl just drop kick them fools Bruce Lee style.
Keep ya head up and be strong cause you know you gon be alright.
Peace
2007-05-15 03:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from someone who used to get bullied. I let it roll off my shoulders, and eventually people stopped bugging me because they knew I didnt care what they thought said or did. Most of the time people bully because they know that it gets to you, and they love to watch you get a rise out of it. I bet if you ignored them, they would eventually stop.
2007-05-15 03:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by src8784 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a pushover stand up for yourself you have that right none deserves being treated this way...there are self defense courses look into takin one
2007-05-15 03:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ,try to understand others behaviour.Bcoz thre may be a reason to do so..
2007-05-15 03:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by Nirmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋