We broke up about 2 weeks ago and have kept in touch via text. We met a week ago for the evening (there was hand holding and a kiss). Shes coming over in 7 hours and im feeling a little nervous. We broke up because she wasnt happy with the way i treated her (i was overly anxious/jealous and it got to the point of making her unhappy. I have been seeing a doctor about this and feel a lot better. So i guess my question is what is the best way to act tonight, im going to be "myself", but i dont want to appear too forward or not interested. Any help would be greatly appreciated
2007-05-14 20:21:42 · 6 answers · asked by Nick C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself- that's who you are.
2007-05-14 20:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by purpledeucegirl06 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do NOT try to win her back yet - two weeks isn't long enough (in her mind, at least) to show that you have changed. Let her see that you have at least made some progress, and that you aren't just trying to spend time with her to get back on her good side.
I feel that she is still staying in touch because she isn't completely over you - but she will run (and never look back) if you pouce on her too quickly.
In time, your feelings for her might change - but if they don't, then consider that a sign that you should try to patch things up. Just don't jump too quickly - after all... if she is the love of your life, then you have the rest of your lives (all 50+ years of it) to spend together.
Very little good can come from rushing Love...
2007-05-14 20:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The cards shall fall where they shall fall-nothing much we can say, but that's good you're seeing a doctor. Try to keep in mind some thigns he or she has told you. And don't act or do whatever it was that made you guys break up! Don't be that way. Good luck....2 weeks is NOT a long time, though! Not that much can change in 2 weeks, I think you may be fooling yourself a little bit-it takes a good 6 months-a year for any one person to REaLLY change. oh yeah, good luck man.
2007-05-14 20:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just dont make the same mistakes you made to be broken up. be calm be cool. act cool and CONFIDENCE IS KEY. also dont act all needy and beg. be cool and just remember what you did to get her the first time and youll be cool. relax take a shower take a nap and make sure you look good when you see her
2007-05-14 20:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by robin c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guh, I only read this question and I already want to break up with you. Over analyze much?
2007-05-14 20:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by JudyTang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't get too possesive of her
take things easy
treat her like a friend who you like spending time with , watch movies have fun
don't bring up old things
and don't repeat things that have caused fights in past
you'll do great goodluck
2007-05-14 20:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋