can u people plz tell me that is it ok for a girl to think abut sex as boys do,is it normal?
2007-05-14 19:30:47 · 38 answers · asked by pooja p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thinking about sex is normal. I'd be more worried if you never gave it a thought.
2007-05-14 19:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tifa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe absolutely yes. As a young 12 year old girl, I used to have crazy sex dreams where I would wake up and I would be 'pounding' down there, so I would wonder if that was normal.
Then I started having sex at 15 (young I know) and I then was horny everyday, out of nowhere, in class I would get a strong sexual desire and become very aroused for no apparent reason. I would just be sitting there writing notes or whatever and this would happen.
As I got older, the sex drive sort of went away, but I had a 'reawakening' at age 18 and I thought about sex ALL the time.
Now I'm 21 and I think about it only sometimes, but there are times when I will become aroused out of nowhere and seemingly be even more hornier than my husband!
Hope that helps! You are NOT a freak!! Sex is good! God made us to be sexual creatures!
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2007-05-14 19:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal for anyone to think about sex. This is especially true when you are young and haven't experienced the pleasure of sex. Sex is a natural phenomenon that almost everyone participates in sooner or later. It isn't thinking about sex in general that causes problems; it is trying to do something about it when you are to young to know and care about all of the responsibilities associated with it. The same as some boys think about sex a lot, some boys don't. The same is true of girls. If one is not curious about sex, mankind would soon be extinct.
2007-05-14 19:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok for girls to think about sex. It's ok when girls do not think about sex.
Sex can be very good. Sex can be terrible too if you're not ready for it or have other things on your mind.
If you are under 18, remember you have the rest of your life to explore that matter. If you decide you want sex someday, tell him you will not do it unless he wears a condom. If he proceeds to force you in that direction, he is nothing more than a pig and a rapist. Do not associate with males who are not responsible enough to wear a condom!
2007-05-22 16:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by reeksofhoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is ok for girls to think about sex. You probably can't stop yourself from thinking about it, even if you tried.
Maybe your parents or religion are telling you not to have sex. That is a totally different thing and takes a certain level of emotional maturity to get into.
Anyway, no one can get into your head. Think whatever you want to think about. And be sure to think before you act.
2007-05-14 19:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by map8oula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...just be careful when and who you do it with. God created it specifically for married people to enjoy. When sex is done out of marriage and with fifty million people vs the one, then that's where all our troubles are from and why there's so much disease, single parents, orphans...Sorry, got carried away. Bottomline...save yourself for having it with someone you love. Thinking about it is definitely normal.
2007-05-14 20:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by LoveSlave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very normal! If you didn't then you would probly be considered not into guys! Besides, sex is great! I think about it 24/7
2007-05-22 18:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal.
2007-05-14 19:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by TitoBob 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's very normal... women enjoy sex just as much as men... I never understood why women got looked down on for thinking and wanting to have sex as much as men....... I think women masterbate more than men....
2007-05-14 19:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear god yes, humans think about sex.
All woman have done and thought perverse things and will prolly never tell anyone about it and leave it all pent up. sad really.
good luck and remember it's not weird lol
readin further down, I am so glad the ladies of yahoo q&a are so informed and sexually motivated ;) ;P
2007-05-14 19:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by No worries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋