Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

i think i should wait do you?

2007-04-11 04:17:01 · 19 answers · asked by Brittany 3 in Singles & Dating

Parents got me married when 17 years old to a relative from india also 17 years old. After 17 years of married life and 3 children, I fall in love with a chinese lady in china who is 23 years old, I'm a business man so travel to china every 2 months from UK !! My mind is like matrix now, i realise now what it's like being in love but then think of my 3 kids. Any suggestions ?????

2007-04-11 04:16:21 · 11 answers · asked by saj k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my friends asked a guy out for me online and I really liked him. He turned me down because he said he doesn't like me. How can i get him to like me? Does anyone have advice in how I could change my looks or anything?

2007-04-11 04:16:11 · 4 answers · asked by BuStEr 1 in Friends

Okay this is what happens when im alone with my best friend we have the greatest times and i feel happy, however when were both with our friends together he practically ignores me and talks to everyone else and only talks to me sometimes. When hes with them, he ignores me when hes with me we have a great time.. what do i do?

2007-04-11 04:14:44 · 15 answers · asked by kc c 1 in Friends

There are usually two opinions on the matter:

1) A man should NEVER hit a woman. Even if she comes after him, due to the differences in strength, the most a man could do is restrain her until she calms down. Because a man is naturally stronger than a woman, he should never use his strength against her even if he is threatened.

2) A man is allowed to use force against a woman when he is threatened or for self defense. If a woman attacks a man with the use of a weapon (like a gun or knife), he is perfectly entitled to use force.

What do you guys think? Although I feel a man should never lay a finger on a woman even when provoked, if she came after him with a weapon (thus having the advantage) then a man should be perfectly allowed to protect himself.

Serious thoughts only, please. No wife-beating jokes......

2007-04-11 04:14:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He is not working anymore

2007-04-11 04:12:57 · 5 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

boring?? Maybe they dont necessarily need to be in the mix of everything, taking up air time, talk time and running their mouth all the time. A person cane be fun in their own way quiet or not.

2007-04-11 04:01:36 · 18 answers · asked by reene2g 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

After many LONG discussions, I have finally realized that my husband isn't going to budge when it comes to having more children. Together we have a 3 year old son. I also have 2 step kids; a 17 year old stepdaughter who lives with us and a 21 year old stepson that has his own family. I'm only 29 and my husband is 40.

I am having a hard time coming to terms with this decision. For those of you in the same situation, how do you deal with it?
I am not looking for answers about how to change my husband's mind or how to "get pregnant anyway" because I am not a liar or deceitful. I guess I just need help getting over my desire to have another child.

2007-04-11 04:01:35 · 24 answers · asked by kim.san 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why would he flirt with me and kiss me and then tell me he just wants to be friends? Im not the skinniest girl in the world but i do think that im pretty. im tired of being the friend. but he still wants to flirt at work and i dont know if i can do that and just be his friend. how do i tell him not to flirt anymore and still be his fiend

2007-04-11 04:00:40 · 7 answers · asked by carriestrader 1 in Singles & Dating

If you've had the same partner for a number of years, how do you know if you still love them. My partner has few faults and I have never entertained the idea of looking at another man. But I can't help wondering how I should feel about him. He doesn't make my heat beat faster like when we first got together, but at the same time although he's not a great communicator, I miss him when he's not in the house. I find I look at him with nice thoughts, a lot. Have I become comfortable with him. Should I be asking myself how I would feel if we were no longer together. Help!!!!!

2007-04-11 04:00:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How often do you have sex on average each week?

Is your husband sympathetic to low sex drive due to pregnancy/birth of a baby or illness?

I just was hoping to show my husband we have sex a normal amount of times and how other marriages work around these sorts of issues.

2007-04-11 03:56:10 · 19 answers · asked by iampatsajak 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband down plays things that I say. If I tell him I made a comment to him, but he was on his laptop and he probably did not hear me, he says to me "I did not hear you say anything, You did not say anything." I Even though I know what happened and what I did say. And he makes me feel like I have to defend myself. We got into tthis huge arguement last night about this. Lately my husband downs plays things I say, I say I'm doing this for this reason and he tries to tell me why I'm really doing it (which he makes out to be some kind of selfish or my way issue). I feel like he doesn't know me. I've also noticed that in the last month or so he has been talking with his exgirlfriend, who is just his friend. We were seperated for 3 months during a move, and he comes back to me treating me like this. He down plays, my thoughts does not listen to me..but also has no problem wanting to have sex. PLEASE HELP EXPLAIN.

2007-04-11 03:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex told me he was proud to call me a friend. But he would fly 1.5 hours to meet me up and just buy me dinner. He still compliments me and tells me every part of me is perfect. He would hug me all night in bed without attempting to have s.e.x with me. He would still kiss me on the lips and tell me how beautiful I look.

He told me he did not want friends with benefits.

2007-04-11 03:54:53 · 11 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

my collegue says im annoying but always starts to talk to me first! why is that?

2007-04-11 03:51:18 · 37 answers · asked by jolene c 2 in Friends

a few months ago i dumped my ex because he slaped me but he was drunk. i think he still likes me and i like him too only i'm scared if i get back together wth him he will hit me again?
what do i do?

2007-04-11 03:49:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want revenge on my inlaws i am getting devoriced from there daughter and they are constantly bad mouthing me spreading around false information about me and telling my kids bad untruthfull things about me trying to turn my kids aginst me

2007-04-11 03:47:55 · 21 answers · asked by Dan B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My x is to provide health insurance for our daughter, and has not. My lawyer said that if he could not show proff of insurance that he would be in comtempt. Does that mean that he will lose joint custody?

2007-04-11 03:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For me, it was just something I had to do. I didn't like being there but it wasn't so bad. It would definitely be better to be out and do all normal stuff.

I'm 21 and I've been twice but don't plan on going back but who knows what'll happen again.

Being in jail itself wasn't too bad just all the stuff that goes with it - jobs, arguements, family, girlfriend etc. make it worse.

My parents think it i sthe worse thing ever and seem much more worried about it all than me.

2007-04-11 03:44:25 · 29 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Family

I'm not sure if I worded my last question wrong but people are saying because I feel that oral sex is something I want to wait to share with someone I have feelings for that I'm no fun. Does that make me no fun because I have morals I stick to and I respect my body? What is wrong with guys these days? I'm not going to let my morals go just for a man to like me.

2007-04-11 03:42:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Husband thinks it is Ok to wake me up in the middle of the night to conversate about whatever. He also thinks that it is Ok to wake me up before sunrise to see the sunrise, talk, take a walk, or get a breath of fresh air. Whenever He wants.
What do you think.

2007-04-11 03:42:38 · 31 answers · asked by So Different 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi All,

I contacted (hounded) an old friend on Friends Reunited over the past month.

After him fobbing me off I finally got him to meet up tomorrow, just to "chat". He's married, i feel like a manipulative little tart.

i expect i'm going to jump him.

can't help it, i love him.
i know its wrong, there is no point in telling me.

trying to stop myself, you know what, i can't. Isn't that pathetic ?

Please feel free to insult me, i hate myself.

2007-04-11 03:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-11 03:38:35 · 31 answers · asked by SlamC 2 in Family

i'm 21 and i'm getting married to a 31yr man in June. sometimes i feel as if my finance doesn't understand me. At one time i could tell my finance everything but now i feel like i can hardly talk to him, because i'm afraid of what he might say or think of me. We have been together for 4years and he's really a good guy. he's very special to me i just feel like we don't relate anymore. he was my first boyfriend and i'm very curious to see what's out there. My closest friends says that i should not marry him and some of my family members think that he's controlling. My friend tells me that there are RED FLAGS that i don't see. I try to think of those FLAGS but its sometimes hard to see when you think your in love. I think partially why i'm staying with him is because i'm scared of being alone. I'm scared of what my life would be without him because i have never had to work for anything in my life. I'm walking into a marriage with everything i could ever want: (car, house, security)

2007-04-11 03:38:34 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi ..ok my husbands younger brother has been recently married .
the new bride is good enough ... but do u think that everybody compares ?

2007-04-11 03:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by Racy! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok Girls...what do you guys look for in a guy?

Whats the most important thing?

What keeps you guys happy?

2007-04-11 03:35:32 · 27 answers · asked by Dork 1 in Singles & Dating

What was your experience like?

2007-04-11 03:34:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes after taking a dump the smell stays in the bathroom for like half an hour.....I feel embarrassed about this. what can i do?

2007-04-11 03:33:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes it bothers me, there are no kids involved.

Im kinda ashamed, like I'm Mrs ------ the 3rd.

Is this mad?

2007-04-11 03:33:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 03:32:30 · 48 answers · asked by The Desertflyer 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 03:32:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends