im 14 and evertime i turn ariund boys want me to do it with them but im a virgin im to scared to?

Question

i think i should wait do you?

Answer 1

Boys are boys and their hormones are running amuck. Do not have sex with them just to be having sex - you are way too young in my opinion. I do not know if you are a christian but God meant sex to be something only a husband/wife share. Did you know that being a virgin and the tearing of the Hyman is the only blood covenant left - because you are special - that covenant is to join the two of you in marriage, under God. If you don't want to wait till marriage or you can't wait - at least make sure it is someone you are in love with and that cares about you. Not just a one night stand. Guys who don't care about you can be very cruel and are just using you to have their own good time. They will ruin your reputation with other guys and if you think they are hassling you now wait till they find out you will sleep with them. You will never get any rest. I would let them all know that I don't plan on sleeping with anyone - then only the boys who seriously like you for you will be trying to ask you out and they won't be pressuring you to have sex because you have already stated your position on it. If your other girl friends are pressuring you to DO IT - then tell them you are not ready and they don't need to concern themselves with your sex life or lack thereof. Our society is so sex oriented that it is really hard on younger kids not to have it these days but trust me you will be so glad you did not. You have plenty of Time to do that later when you are older and more mature to handle it mentally and emotionally. Many of my friends growing up did it way to early and they got hurt cause guys are immature and young and they seriously cannot deal with the consequences that come from sex and they act like most of the time its not even their responsibility if something does come from it. Like pregnancy or disease.

Answer 2

just because boys want to "do it with you" doesn't mean you have to do it. get a mind of your own and have respect for yourself. If you want to wait go for it! You should wait your only 14 years old there is so much outthere and putting yourself out there when your not prepared can be scary and dangerous you will regret it when your older. THe best thing for you is to wait talk to your mother or an older sister. If you cant because your too embarrassed then you may not be ready. But if you don't wait at least make sure your going to do it with somebody who you can really trust. Just wait!

Answer 3

It's your body and when YOU are ready, you will know it.
When I was your age, my b/f wanted it too, but I wasn't ready and didn't until I was 21.
Plus, it's so much better when it's with someone that you love and loves you back.
One night stands are empty and degrading, especially if you really liked the guy and he was only playing with your heart just to get into your pants.

Just wait. You have a lot of growing up to do. Not only physically, but mentally and emotionally. Plus, as an observer you can start choosing the qualities you are looking for in a partner. Be good to yourself because no one else will.

Answer 4

the boys that age most likely are just only now physically able to do this some are not even at that stage . despite all the info on the Internet about sex a great many wont even know what do it means.
the idea of having intercourse at your age is insane . don't do that for one thing you will end up with a terrible reputation despite what the boy says to you IE i wont mention it . he will.
it would be like winning the lottery and not telling anyone .
don't have sex now wait wait wait.

Answer 5

You should be VERY CLEAR in words and action that you do not wish to be treated that way. You must realize that almost everyone at your age wants to experiment, but the more you give in, your giving a part of yourself away. If you are proud of who you are, and want to be respected then make it clear that you are not "easy." Besides, guys really find girls who are "untouchable" much more seductive, so leave it at that, knowing that it will be YOUR choice. You are a goddess who demands respect, don't let these LITTLE BOYS make you feel any other way.

Answer 6

You should absolutely wait! Wait until you find someone worthy of you and 14 is very young. It will be a lot more special if you wait until you have a boyfriend. If you are scared, it shows that you aren't ready.

Answer 7

Its completely ok you do no longer might desire to hurry to sense cool as a results of fact its no longer all that cool to be that way I rather think of that in case you do no longer do it now and waited till at last you had a extreme GF( it does not neccicarily might desire to be love) you'll be able to take exhilaration in it extra provided that's going to be extra of a connection and feeling of delight which you ultimately have been given to be with the only you like. in case you're able to do it with basically every physique it is going to at some point at last lose its thrill.

Answer 8

Yes you should wait. You are too young to have sex. You are being smart to wait as you have your whole life ahead of you. It is the best path to follow until you are old enough to cope with the consequences such as pregnancy or a sexual disease. Good Luck!

Answer 9

Yes you should wait. Don't let anyone pressure you to do anything that you feel uncomfortable doing.

You are ONLY 14! As much as you think you are all grown up, you are not!

Answer 10

YES!! Please wait. Believe me when I say its worth it. Most boys your age don't really know what they are doing anyway so it probably wont be that great for you. You should LOVE the person that you decide to lose your virginity to.