Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

He seems not happy going back with us ''his real family", I observed him always thinking of something too far. Do I have to let HIM GO!!!!

2007-04-11 21:54:12 · 14 answers · asked by jazz d way b4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why is it that when i'm walking down the street and pass a goodlooking chick, after i look at her she smiles but if i look again she gives me a angry type of look , could it be because she is a weirdo or because she was expecting something in return like say a hello or something?


cheers

2007-04-11 21:51:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This persian girl at my gym used to be abrasive towards me and vice versa,but now gives me looks when i'm not looking,seems intent on trying to get my attention,and is mad when i don't pay attention.What's the deal?

2007-04-11 21:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this girl for 4 months. She goes to an out of state school. I have seen her only 3 times in person. We have been communicating quite a bit over that time, mostly texting because apparently she loves doing it. She wished me happy bday 3 times on facebook and even sent me a whip cream w/cherry gift. We have become somewhat good friends and shes even asked me awhile back how my gf situation was. We are both single. Am in the friend zone because she has called me the nice guy before? like she has said it twice but i havent really done anything "nice" for her, lol.

Anyways, we hung out twice during break, went to a dance club and she only fanced with me (no freak) but maybe she feels comfortable with me, and when some guy started feeling her she came back to me and started dancing in front of me.

we went for coffee 1 day, she texted me that night saying she was glad we hung out and now is telling me to come visit her at college so we can hang out more and go places. likes me?

2007-04-11 21:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 21:41:44 · 11 answers · asked by fred1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend and I have an online friend together for years. We almost regularly chat everyday and share secrets until one day he never online again for me but still online for my best friend. When I asked him why, he said he’s sick after a back surgery so he couldnt sit long. Well...but he never too busy for my best friend. It’s hurt. To be note: we are a pure friend, not love, sex and flirt involve.

2007-04-11 21:34:49 · 3 answers · asked by worth2try 1 in Singles & Dating

Thanks.

2007-04-11 21:26:41 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know how to deal with this, please help. My girlfriend and I have been seeing eachother for about 4 weeks, and she understands that im willing to re-schedule or give up anything to spend time with her, but she is not willing to do the same for me, stating that its not fair to me, and its not right to me, and that i deserve better, and more than her. and that shed just feel guilty if we stayed together knowing that shes conciously not giving 100% like she knows she should be. Shes been trying to push her guilt aside and thinks its not fair to me. I told her im willing to make that sacrifice that she wont always be there for me, and that I understand, and that I want to make this work. I told her that shes is the only person in the world that gives me joy, and that I dont think I can go through all of this over again with another girl, and that id crash if she decides to break me off. She knows im in it for the long haul. I just dont know how to take it from here. please help

2007-04-11 21:25:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My "friend" knew I was trying to get back with this girl and he asked her out behind my back and she said yes. How can I get back at him?

2007-04-11 21:21:07 · 20 answers · asked by loner8671 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to surprise him but i'm not sure how. please help.

2007-04-11 21:20:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 21:18:53 · 12 answers · asked by mat k 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 friends and they dont like each other but each one want me the only one for her, wishing I do not contact with the others... why is that
even though I like them all but every one is defferent but I wish to become all friends but I can not see that picture...

2007-04-11 21:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by kate 1 in Friends

i think my girl is cheating on me because a lot of people are telling me she is but i dont want to just flat out ask her because if she isnt i dont want to lose her

2007-04-11 21:11:02 · 5 answers · asked by dopeboifresh_87 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really shy when It comes to talking to women. It mostly stems from my early childhood and being bullied in school, and my self confidence being stripped away by kids and my father. Which now I am in therapy and taking medicine for. When I talk to women I get very nervous, I stutter, and get nausious. What can I do?

2007-04-11 21:08:12 · 5 answers · asked by ibyt2692 3 in Singles & Dating

me nephew (as i just learned) is being tested to se if there is something wrong w/ his brain. we had just gotten in a yelling match and i feel bad. i apollogized and he wont talk to me, its been a week. i guess it's just i'm his only friend and i hurt him. i don't know. please help.

2007-04-11 21:06:19 · 5 answers · asked by fobee123 1 in Family

2007-04-11 21:03:56 · 12 answers · asked by Tim X 1 in Friends

Knew a girl from the web and chat alot. Not long after, found both fall for each other. Decide to meet up and that night, we were together. Since then, she became my girlfriend. We went out at least 3-4 time per week, and spent our precious time together. I did not knew she was married till one day about 2 weeks ago. We were out and saw one of her friends. She was also a friend of mine too. That particular evening, after sent her home. This friend called me and told me about it. That the girl I was with is married and even have a kid. I was shocked to hear that... After much confront from her, she finally admit it. But too late, we have been commiting adultery. And worst still, I have fall for her deeply.. She did told me she love me too. And love the time when we are together. But she still can't let her husband and kid go. Since then, we seldom contact anymore. But still misses her. Am I stupid of doing that...?

2007-04-11 21:02:37 · 20 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have known this girl for 4 months, and I like her but not sure if she likes me or knows that i like her. She goes to an out of state college and we have been communicating quite frequently over that time. my issue is, sometimes I feel that if want to talk to her (by texting her), that it will seem that I am desperate for her attention or whatever. my mind has gotten so confused by reading so much articles online and how to play hard to get or whatever and make the girl pursue you, but it doesnt always work, i want her to like me but what is the best way to do this?

can i not be kind? friendly? i mean can i not ask her how her day is going? how she is doing? is that too much of a "nice" guy thing? am i being too "friendly" so thats all she will ever see me as? i care for her and want her to know i like her, she is usually the one startin text convos, i rarely do it, i like her, should i text her and see how she is doing? even tho its like 1am right now? she mite be awake doin hw

2007-04-11 20:59:52 · 6 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Singles & Dating

In the process of reconciliation you identify that your lack of trust in your wife hurt the marriage. You make a commitment to work on it and ask her in return to be honest. Next thing, she is lying again and you remember her that her lying hurt your ability to trust her. She becames defensive and treathens to abandon the reconciliation efforts and to leave if you insist in this cause-effect thinking (lying being the cause, diminished trust being the effect). What are your choices?

2007-04-11 20:56:54 · 13 answers · asked by F A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a diamond ring that I got years ago from an ex. I know nothing about diamonds and am trying to figure out what it is. This is what the receipt says: LDS RG .64CTR l-l1 .88CTW 14KYG. Can anyone tell me what this means? What is CTR vs CTW?

The ring itself has a big round diamond in the center w/ 3 small diamonds on each side.

Any help in explaining any of this would be greatly appreciated. I know what the ring is worth, I am just trying to understand it better. Thanks.

2007-04-11 20:51:48 · 8 answers · asked by KelMarie 1 in Weddings

I've been very close friends with a guy for 18 months, and we are shagging partners, he has recently met somebody, and he's had to tell me cos she's not happy about our friendship. I have a feeling that if she didn't have an issue he would never have told me. what do you all think?

2007-04-11 20:50:41 · 30 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

recently my friend has told me that she is having problems getting along with her husband. they've been married for years and have children together and now they cant seem to agree on anything. they used to be so good together but now they dont even talk hardly. i dont know what else to say ive been friends with her for a while and i dont like to see her family stressing like this. what can I sy or do to heelp. she comes to me with questions alot and i dont have any good answers.
please hep!!!!

2007-04-11 20:43:55 · 8 answers · asked by Amber 3 in Marriage & Divorce

dont taunt
my wife says that she can barly feel me when i get in there, what do i do?

2007-04-11 20:43:43 · 25 answers · asked by fobee123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am thinking of asking him to leave, but he is 62 years old, has had heart surgery ten years ago and is diabetic. He seems to be aggresive now, and kind of a type that gets angry when I just dont flat out agree with him, he raises his voice and at first I was startled but now I yell back. I really dont even like him now, when he is really cranky I feel afraid to go to sleep, Now am I being a fool, I am considered a smart, level headed person normally, I dont want to put up with this any longer. How do I approach this, should I go away and leave a letter or tell him in a restaurant , I have told him he is cranky, and that we are not happy, then he is ok for a few days. I dont have a long time and I enjoy life and nature and people and kids. oh I am going on and on. Can you help with ideas, even a little, thank-you

2007-04-11 20:42:40 · 6 answers · asked by spuds_suds 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just broke up with my bf but I still talk to him. He put me through a lot when we were together. I still love him and he says he has changed but I dont believe him. As u can tell trust was an issue. We dated for 16 months. I want to be with but I dont know if I can put what he did to me in the past. Should we work it out, stay friends or stay out of his life completely?

2007-04-11 20:40:56 · 18 answers · asked by Goobergirl 2 in Singles & Dating

i love her very much so i always think of making her happy and thinks of her calls and chat.wat should i do to stop thinking of her alleast while studying

2007-04-11 20:40:54 · 8 answers · asked by sexy g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 20:37:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im having lots of problems right now im into a lot first of all my self-esteme is really low.I dont like the way i am. A lot of people are mean to me.Sometimes i say "Why did i had to be from this family?!?!why cant i be from a family thats famous or something like that.Some people tease me that im chubby and im trying to loose it to just so people could stop calling me that.I dont like the way i am.I have lots of issues.I also dont like the way i am, because i dont feel i should be that way.I say,"Why cant i be like that actor.Or that person."Also i say to myself"Why did god made me so ugly,,,and god DONT like ugly!!!"I see all the people that they are beutiful and nice,but not me.I feel that im the only one on this planet earth also have the one with the only problem.Give me some advise on what to do.Please help me a lest tell me what to do.PLEASE HELP ME.

2007-04-11 20:36:06 · 15 answers · asked by JOSE 1 in Friends

There's so much on my mind lately and for the past months now i have felt the biggest weight on me i have ever felt. I cry for what seems to be sometimes way long ago but i know can be small to people but has affected me so much! School doesn't make it any better and neither do my parents. They like communication between us but i can't talk to them. I just want to be left alone. I'm just waiting until i die. I live just because for no reason at all. I don't want to talk to people. I'm not really the easiest person to talk to when i feel like this though and i know that. And just knowing that i don't know what is wrong just doesn't help. I don't know what it is. But i just act like a normal person "happy" and "worry free", when in reality that's not what is going on in me. Its just the worst weight i have ever felt on me. A feeling so sad and a feeling of lonliness. I don't know where to go, who to go to, how to make it better. I feel hopeless.

2007-04-11 20:24:38 · 6 answers · asked by ninacoqueta0817 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey, any good massages I can do to my man...for example on his back? Any ideas are appreciated!

2007-04-11 20:23:21 · 7 answers · asked by lonelioness 4 in Singles & Dating