Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

I have a lot of crush, and it's really hard for me... not to fall for a guy. what should i do? Cause if i fall in love it's making me crazy! real crazy... I don't know what to do. Especialy if the guy that i realy like has no feelings for me.It hurts me so bad and it makes me cry and sad.

2007-04-11 20:19:45 · 9 answers · asked by Just me! 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey, this is my problem. its exists of 5 people

Me (18)
grandfather (65)
grandmother (66)
great-grandmother (89)
Mother (33)

It was great-grandmother birthday lastweek, she got chocolates and other items, but she didnt want the chocolates so she gave them to Me.

I want to give them to Mother for "late easter present" as i didnt get her anything.

But grandfather and grandmother knows thats great-grandmother gave them to me.

Mother doesnt know that great-grandmother gave them to me.

Should i give chocolates to mother or should i just eat them?

Would it be cheap?
Should i tell great-grandmother?

Please help me asap.. Ive got till tomorrow.

thanks

2007-04-11 20:19:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

receive thumbs down - even though you spent a long time to answer the correct way and or the person asking doesn't say-thanks becuase they never choose the best answser. It gets very old!

2007-04-11 20:10:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive had a lot of chances to get a girlfriend but a lot of them
wernt my type

2007-04-11 20:09:01 · 23 answers · asked by the_graffitiART 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't like guys who wear very long shirts to their knees. I prefer a waist length shirt so you can check out his figure. Should I straight up and tell guys who dress like this why I don't want to date them?

2007-04-11 20:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Bu Tran 6 in Singles & Dating

he says thats why he goes on myspace to tell other girls that he loves them. i hate it so bad i want to rip my hair out sometimes.... how do you deal with this? im trying to keep our marriage lasting but im starting to disconnect when he wants affection... what do you think?

2007-04-11 20:04:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me.he keep on telling me that he wants to grow old w me,he loves me more than himself and things like that.but whenever we had a fight over serious or just so trivial things just like last night,he told me that is why he's not too keen on marrying me coz he's not so sure if he wants me as his wife.so,iasked him this morning about what he said last night...i also told him if that's the case,then he should let go of me...and he said no!he's not letting go.i dont know why?is it possible to stick w someone whom you dont intend to marry?i was really hurt.right now my mind's racing,i want to break up w him and start a new chapter of my life.

2007-04-11 20:03:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 20:02:28 · 18 answers · asked by wbettyboo1974 1 in Singles & Dating

I love him and have always been there for him but he doesn't love me at all. I know alot of other guys like me but I have no intrest in them because I love him. Why doesn't he love me?

2007-04-11 20:02:03 · 24 answers · asked by sadgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

If you know for some reason in your gut that you do not see yourself with the same person for your life why even marry them. I know that it is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all. But really why marry someone if you do not see yourself growing old together?

One other thing why marry if you know you cannot be faithful to your spouse?

2007-04-11 20:01:49 · 11 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Though i haven't answered even 1 question 2day.

2007-04-11 20:01:15 · 5 answers · asked by Teerna 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend and I were just together sexually,our first time,she seduced me.Christine stripped off her clothes and started rubbing on my crotch and I had a full erection,then she pulled down my pants and underware.while starring at my erection she said {WOW are you tiny} after we had been together she said I left her wanting sexually and that I was to small to satisfy her. I need another womans opinion about my size ???

2007-04-11 19:58:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

indian surroundings

2007-04-11 19:56:18 · 13 answers · asked by tijo 2 in Singles & Dating

A close friend recently divorced her husband due to his infidelity. Only 3 weeks later he married his mistress. Their local pastor married the new couple and now my friend wants to leave the church. The new couple are no longer members BUT my friend feels betrayed by all involved.

Was the pastor wrong in marrying the couple.. He explained to my friend that he and the gentleman have been friends for over 30 years and that he believes that God would want them to be married... less they live in the sinful manner? (Adultery)

My friend is planning to leave the congregation because she feels that the pastor should not have gotten involved and should have NOT married the couple.

What are your views.. Only God can judge this situation, right?.. How would Jesus handle this? Who is at fault - if any? Is man being too judgmental.

2007-04-11 19:55:39 · 16 answers · asked by KeraniBai 3 in Marriage & Divorce

WHY IS LOVE SO COMPLICATED? ....SOME PEOPLE THINK LOVE IS THE HAPPINESS YOU FEEL
WHEN YOU LOOK AT HIM....ITS WHEN YOUR AT HOME, EATING DINNER WITH YOUR FAMILY
.....THEN YOU THINK OF HIM AND A BIG GRIN COMES UPON YOUR FACE AND YOUR PARENTS
LOOK AT YOU LIKE YOU HAVE MENTAL PROBLEMS..........THEN TO OTHER PEOPLE LOVE I
WHEN YOU LOOK AT HIM AND SMILE BUT YOUR HEART CANT STOP CRYING BECAUSE HE DOESNT
SEE YOU THE WAY YOU SEE HIM......WHEN ITS YOUR BIRTHDAY AND YOU HAVE HAD THE
BEST DAY EVER...THEN WHEN YOU GO TO BED ALL YOU DO IS CRY ....BECAUSE HE DIDNT
WISH YOU A HAPPY BIRTHDAY........TO SOME PEOPLE LOVE IS SMUDGED EYELINER AND AND
BROKEN HEARTS....TO OTHER PEOPLE ......ITS JUST WONDERFUL....TO ME...........ITS
BOTH

2007-04-11 19:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by BrOwN eYe'D cHiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's more so when guys are younger. My boyfriend of 14 years told me I was not aging well, and that he was just not into me anymore. We have 2 kids and we are both 42. I think I look great. But are men that shallow?

2007-04-11 19:51:58 · 20 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years. We are now moving in together next week, I'm moving 1000 miles away to be with him.

A few months ago his "friend" came to hang out with him for a night, they went to the bar and she ended up trying to kiss him, or successfully kissing him. He called me immediatly to tell me what happened. Ever since I've been cautious about her intentions, I'm a girl... I know how evil we can be!

He's out of town, she happens to be "vacationing" with her best friend for the weekend in the same city. I told him I was uncomfortable with the whole situation. He said that he wouldn't hang out with her, he didn't realize her intentions may be to get him. I said I didn't want him to have to not be around friends because of a jealous girlfriend, but to be aware of the possible intentions.

Did I cross the line? Was I justified in my concerns? What should I do next?

Thanks for your input!!

DiZdZ!!

2007-04-11 19:50:45 · 28 answers · asked by Randomblina >^..^< 3 in Singles & Dating

If you just started a relationship, and it's going okay, not spectacular, but not bad. Then out of the blue, someone you hadn't heard from in 6 years leaves you a message with her number.

The girl in question is someone Ihadn't spoken to in 6 years because of an argument, but prior to that, I had known her since grade 1, I am now 25. We found out during my last year in highschool that we both had feelings for each other for a long time, and we were really close, but we talked and decided not to do anything because we were going out with other people. We got into an argument because she wanted me to go the same university with her, but I choose to go elsewhere, she said I was abandoning her and that I didn't love her...I was upset she said that, and hadn't talked since.

I know nothing about her now, except that she's a model and a grad student...but I use to think about her, and use to wonder what if.....so now I feel like this is a second chance....what would you do?

2007-04-11 19:50:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey yall
im a year 6 girl right and there s a guy named tim and at a band thing they made every1 get up and dane and he tapped my shoulder blushed said nothing and walked away and laughed with his friends.
IM CONFUSED!! ,^_^

2007-04-11 19:49:05 · 5 answers · asked by deep_thoughts_come_and_go 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 19:48:33 · 24 answers · asked by Jessica H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically, something like Tiffany vs the local diamond center. Both might be same price, but Tiffany would be way smaller. What would you rather receive?

2007-04-11 19:46:36 · 30 answers · asked by Jeremy 1 in Weddings

Alright-It's birthday time!
Girls-If you were turning fourteen, what would you want for a present. [I got a nice MP3 player already-what else sounds fun/cool?

2007-04-11 19:44:39 · 12 answers · asked by Roderick F 5 in Family

I really want to contact my ex boyfriend even though its only been a week. I mean, we were together for 4 years and I do love him very, very much...I miss him. I was waiting for him to contact me and he hasn't..so does that mean he doesn't care??! Honesty is the best policy!!!

2007-04-11 19:42:12 · 6 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 19:40:42 · 16 answers · asked by F A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for one year and I am looking for cute, personable ideas for a gift besides cooking dinner. We already live together and I cook for us all the time. Plus some of my cooking deals with wine, and since he has to buy it because I am underage, it would ruin the whole surprise.

My question is, what would be the best thing to get your bf of one year? He is into electronics, but he has every movie under the face of the earth,

He doesn't care for the crap that just lies around either. Gift cards are great but it takes a touch of personality out of it.

Any ideas would be great. I am looking for simple or totally out there ideas. I am on a budget of 75 dollars. Let me know!

2007-04-11 19:38:15 · 7 answers · asked by Molly M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-11 19:36:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been having this repetive dream about me falling in love with this guy and he is just my dreamman. everything goes good at first and he is the best man any girl can have but then some things and pictures i can't really make out flash and my dream ends with him taking me to this house and raping me , when i get up in the morning i feel very breathless and like i have just had rough sex my body is usually very tried and feels like i have had a fight with someone, the strange thing is that i say his name and i have never heard of this name in my family or friends,but the weirdest of all is i am still a virgin so then how would i feel what i feel in my dreams. I have had this dream for almost 7 years now at first it came sometime, but lately it is coming more often. I can't even get my thing done because i keep thinking about it, am i going crazy or my dreams are telling me something?

2007-04-11 19:33:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think it is healthy and normal, as long as it's truly innocent. my friends and i are taking a poll.

2007-04-11 19:32:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to start looking after children in my house like babys'r is it possible and how can i start with .Please need good advise.Thank you.

2007-04-11 19:30:51 · 4 answers · asked by Kaktus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married to my husband for 7 years, and for the nine years that we've been together he has been my best and pretty much only friend. I have a girl friend who I've known since high school but she's only really looked at me as a back up friend and never has invited my husband and I to join her and whomever she's with at the time for drinks/dinner/etc... Even though we've invited her numerous times (she and her date do come, but never reciprocate). My husband has aquaintances that he socializes with at occasional sporting events but that's all. We are happy though and very much in love. In fact, I enjoy doing everything with him and he feels the same way. But I can't help but wonder if we're doing something wrong here. Like it's unhealthy not to have other friends. I'm shy anyway and although my husband is more outgoing he's never really made any true friends since he moved here nine years ago--except for me of course. Any thoughts?

2007-04-11 19:29:17 · 19 answers · asked by lookforlight 1 in Marriage & Divorce