Are my dreams telling me something or am i going crazy?

Question

I have been having this repetive dream about me falling in love with this guy and he is just my dreamman. everything goes good at first and he is the best man any girl can have but then some things and pictures i can't really make out flash and my dream ends with him taking me to this house and raping me , when i get up in the morning i feel very breathless and like i have just had rough sex my body is usually very tried and feels like i have had a fight with someone, the strange thing is that i say his name and i have never heard of this name in my family or friends,but the weirdest of all is i am still a virgin so then how would i feel what i feel in my dreams. I have had this dream for almost 7 years now at first it came sometime, but lately it is coming more often. I can't even get my thing done because i keep thinking about it, am i going crazy or my dreams are telling me something?

Answer 1

COULD MEAN SEVERAL THINGS BUT MY GRANDMOTHER TAUGHT ME THAT THERE ARE TWO POSSIBILITES WITH DREAMS
1. YOUR MIND IS TRYING TO TELL YOU SOMETHING ABOUT CURRENT EVENTS OR FEARS ECT
2. SORT OF PREMENITIONS TO THE FUTURE (I KNOW IT SOUND SCARY, BUT THAT IS WHAT DE JA VU IS AFTERALL)

here are the two possiblities i see when i read this:

You have a great fear of trust, your scared to trust people because you feel that they can abuse that trust. It also shows that you have an anxiety over close relationships that need to be resolved, because you feel that you are not being appreciated enough. The fact that the dream was so physical that you woke up feeling the pain shows the great severity of the problem , and that it needs to be resolved quickly!, sometimes our subconcious minds try and tell us this through dreams, its not often we know how to interpret them.

the second possiblity is that this could be a type of 'premenition' now dont be freaked out you dont have any supernatural powers this is pretty common to have dreams like this. The dream is telling you that in the future you need to be wary of partners, as you are open to abuse. This does NOT mean you will be raped nothing at all like that. It might mean you are susceptable to emotional rape, and you are being warned. So if you find yourself in a situation in the future with a male that seems perfect and then begins to change negatively- remember this dream:D

Answer 2

You are not going crazy. Dreams allow us to relieve ourselves of subconscious stress. It is our minds way of finding relief. Being a virgin, your mind is exploring your emerging sexuality by bringing out your wilder side during sleep. Since you've been resistant, the fantasy makes it happen in a manner where it isn't your doing. However this is your dream, therefore somewhere inside you, the desire for sex is there. Again, it is only normal. It is mother nature knocking at your door. Until you balance your reality with some sexual experimentation and exploration for real, you'll likely continue having these dreams. Have fun and enjoy!

Answer 3

Wow that's intense! When I as younger before having had sex I had a rape dream and I felt the same way- it seemed so real and I did feel pain as well. Maybe you are worried about being taken advantage of in your real life- are you on the defense about anything? Is someone in your life you consider to be shady? I would try going to sleep thinking about positive things and see if it doesn't help!

Answer 4

I have relatively bizarre goals... When I was once a child all my goals had been in black and white and made no feel or was once simply undeniable random. Like being slapped by way of a monkey who has a pumpkin or anything like that. Some of them are speedy a few of them are lengthy. I had one final night time while I was once on Top equipment in a vehicle with a tiny Richard Hammond and all of us raced and had to check out and get beyond a massive rabbit....

Answer 5

i think im crazy too
i ahve crazy dreams and then next day my body also feels like what happened in my dream really happened to me. i dont know whats it called but im sure there is some explanation to it. i guess the best thing to do is just stay away from anyone with that name and be aware of your surroundings

Answer 6

This could be a TERRIBLE MEMORY coming back. Often when we are traumatized as children, we block it out and have no memoryof it. Sometimes we never regain the memory, sometimes we do. Either way, it's still in our subconscious, and effects how we live our lives everyday and make decisions. I would recommend seeing a counselor.

Answer 7

You are not going crazy but may need a psychiatrist from the stress of the dream. Remember you are alright except emotionally. You are not crazy.

Answer 8

Sometimes dreams have meanings and sometimes dreams do actually become reality. But you may still be going crazy, I dont know you so I cant judge!

Answer 9

your dream means your inneed for some love. wen u fall inlove with sum1 that dream would stop. also, if ur finding pleasure in that rape then it probably means u want to have sex. think abt it, ur a virgin and ur not inlove. your dreaming of sumthing realy want

Answer 10

My advice is to be very careful who you date, and not only that, but be careful what you choose to put your trust in in life. Are you choosing someone or something in life to trust in that seems exciting or fun right now, but that might hurt you in the future? Don't pick someone or something for the fun factor, or for what is thrilling or convenient at the time; pick who and what is gentle, trustworthy, honorable, HONEST, true, and faithful. Good luck!