2007-04-11 19:48:33 · 24 answers · asked by Jessica H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd say first be open and honest about what you'd like to do. Talk about your fantasies, maybe pick out some sex toys together. Get an educational video and watch it together, like sensual massage. Then try out what you learned. Good luck!
2007-04-11 19:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Alexander D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away for the weekend and bring some hot lingerie with you. Perhaps you want to surprise him by letting one of your female friends (who he finds attractive) take videos of the two of you. You may want to watch some pornos together. Get some insertions and use them. Watersports are what some people like (golden spray one another).
The point is that there are tons of ways to improve your sex life--just find the ways that will be the most fun to you and your husband.
2007-04-12 05:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try these:
-Send him an sms while he is working, telling him that you are waiting for him tonight on the bed w/o wearing anything .
- buy some G strings n show him which designs nice?
-watch Sex video together
- when he watching tv / doing his work at his room., whisper to his ear that you want to make love with him tonight..
-or wear transparent shirt and walk infront of him up n dwn so that he cant concerate watching tv or doin his things.
-when on the bed, try to touch his body gently and use your hand to do the work. hahaha
well i guess this will improve your sex life? if not, he shld go see doc!
All the best! You can try seraching in Yahoo for more research if you can. Do homework and you get the best result! that whay Yahoo search for right? DO your own research!
2007-04-12 03:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy a book not a porn but a book on sex like positions,
G spots, erogenous zones etc. Really sometimes you just have to tell your man to get educated on his women. Really
most couples think they know everything until it gets routine
and there is no change he need to educate himself on the female body and all the different parts that bring pleasure to them. Realizing it is just not the clitoris and the nipples that bring pleasure to a women and gets them aroused. Just even mastering the art of kissing a women properly can make them melt. I know for my wife and I a deep passionate french kiss gets both our hormones jumping into overdrive. I think your man is just not the knowledgeble in the area of love-making which is far better then just sex.
Good luck and go shopping with him so you get a good book and not a stupid comic book. Pictures are good but alot of the information that is really good involves some reading.
2007-04-12 02:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find a common ground that you both like, everybody has perversions...use that to build up to something fun. Surprises, are always good. Go to a swingers club to just watch and mingle, doesnt mean you have to do anything with anybody else...you might get some ideas for later when you get home.
2007-04-12 02:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by jamaracobengals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it outside of the bedroom, and be willing to learn about each other's desires and fantasies, and about different techniques and positions that you can do. The Kama Sutra, The Joy of Sex, and porn movies can provide ideas. Then freely and lovingly give yourselves to each other and experience making love on every level--emotionally, spiritually, and physically.
2007-04-15 04:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many, many ways!!! From talking dirty to bondage. There are many fettishes out there. I know a guy who likes feet, one who likes ballet boots, one who likes Zenai, and one of my friends likes being spanked. Of course I also know a guy who likes to double the pleasure. You should discuss what you want... maybe even during sex. Right before you start you can ask him what he wants, tell him to be specific. Make him tell you EXACTLY what you should do. Some guys like the opposite and being told what they should do, they like knowing how to get you to make the O face. When you tell them over and over and in diffent ways, they learn and they get really happy. lol I have seen the excitement first hand!! When it comes to bondage, some people think S&M but there is no need to take it THAT far. Bondage can be more about release then being bound. For example, if you tie him up and blind fold him, you have full rein over him and all he can do is feel what you are doing. Maybe bring in some chocolate syrup or whipped cream and start by licking it off of him in the important areas ;) then start having your way with him. BUT release his feet first, then one hand, then the other hand and finally the blind fold... this could make for some exciting reactions from him. THEN there is always tearing off your shower curtain, throwing it on the kitchen floor and slopping a bunch of baby oil on it and go to town. :)
2007-04-12 03:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by SpoiledBrat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off bring anyone else into your bed is JUST ASKING FOR TROUBLE. so dont listen to them. I will agree that toys and trying out postions will spice up sex. Hell role play, go to a hotel room every once in a while. Change up your sex routine. dominate sometimes. surprise him with romantic baths and massages. Blindfold him, make him use his five senses by feeding him, having him touch your body and so on.
2007-04-12 02:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SEX IS NOT JUST WHAT HAPPIENS IN THE BED ROOM BUT HOW OU TREAT EACH OTHER ALL DAY I FIND WHEN WE ARE EFFECCTIONATE DURING THE DAY TO ONE ANOTHR THEN SEX IS SO MUCH BETTER ITS LIKE A WHOLE DAY OF FOR PLAY TOUCHING AND KISSING AND SWEET TALKING AFTER ALL THEY SAY THAT MOST OF SEX IS BETWEEN THE EARS SO IF YOU HAVE HEARD SWEET THINGS ALL DAY AND ARE HAVING A DESIRE THAT IS BURNING BEFOR SEX THEN ITS GOT TO BE THE BEST! (
2007-04-12 03:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an affair. You sex life will definitely improve. Enjoy!
2007-04-12 03:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by seattlego 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋