Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

tenis would be a tenis skirt and volleyball would be a bikini.
what should i pick.

i cant say no.

if i say no she'll tell everyone in shcool a false rumor.
but if i say yes she will say nothing.



p.s we have a tenis court in our yard

2007-04-11 11:49:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 11:45:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 11:45:00 · 9 answers · asked by Liz 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife has been having emotional to almost full blown sexual affairs in the past couple of months. She has been having an emotional affair with a person at her work who has suggested that she divorce me. It seems she has a deeper connection with the person then I do. She also had been initiated erotic chat with other men on the internet. I have gone to extreme measures to discover everything monitoring her email, keyboard loggers, etc. She agreed to stop her online relationships but refuses to break any contact with her coworker friend. Since then we have gone to counseling to try and make our marriage work, but I sill feel something is going on. I have found myspace accounts with pictures of her hugging and getting really friendly with her coworker and she still has secret email addresses. She also continues to get several text messages from this coworker all of the time. We are currently going to counseling, but I still feel like something is going on. Help?

2007-04-11 11:44:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know repulse is a strong word to use but i dont think i am being stuck up they are just quite disgusting only bathing once a week which makes them smell,wearing the same dossy clothes and socks for days on end, i have tried subtle hints but they were ignored. i dont want to cause a fight over the matter but they really need to realise how disgusting it is

2007-04-11 11:36:54 · 22 answers · asked by MARIE S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how can I find the right gift to mark the day for the woman who truly 'needs' nothing, except that family will be there, which we will of course but I'd like to give her a pressie

2007-04-11 11:31:27 · 26 answers · asked by fishionuk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am still a virgin and am ready 2 lose that 2 my bf.

2007-04-11 11:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by well, duh. it's me! 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when just about everytime a certian guy sees you, he says your name? [9th grade]

2007-04-11 11:30:07 · 16 answers · asked by DLP 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 11:29:20 · 10 answers · asked by paris&&niclole 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 11:27:51 · 12 answers · asked by katie r 2 in Family

I have a friend and she always pulls pranks on me. We always e-mail each other and i just e-mailed her this prank but i checked out the rest of the website and it was stupit. Does anyone know a website where i can get here good? Oh and give me somthing scray by the way we are only 10.

2007-04-11 11:24:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do boys really like exposed/big boobs?

2007-04-11 11:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have employed a caregiver for my Mother for 6 years now and found her personality to be "bully-like in many areas". She always threathens to do something to me legally if I try to fire her etc. She speaks critically to me and insults me often. I put up with it because she is doing a good job with my Mother. Finally on Monday I just go so tired of it and called her daughter to speak to her about her Mother. I was in shock when I heard what she had to say.The daughter told me that the Mother speaks like that all the time . The daughter has not been in contact with the Mother in 17 years. The other daughter /her sister is like her Mother . The Mother tells lots of lies and has an aggressive /insulting /critical nature to her.
I was surprised to hear that the oldest daughter told me she would not even attend her Mother's funeral if I called her and told her to come. WOW!!
What does one do in this situation???

2007-04-11 11:20:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Guys, which do you prefer?
Your g/f to wear make-up and do her hair?
Or when she has that natural look?
Like would you want her to take hours everyday to look better for you, or want her to be natural at times?

2007-04-11 11:19:35 · 22 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

Thiers this guy who got out of jail recently and he has a tear on his eye which is like a tatoo but my husband says it was cause he got raped but i say he killed someone, which one is it?

2007-04-11 11:17:19 · 12 answers · asked by marilyn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this five year old son to deal wtith. Whatever.

I'm curious as to who the father is. I was seeing 3 guys during that time and was a little social during the weekends and stuff.

One of the dudes just sold his and his wife's business. If I could porove it's his i might be in the $$$$.

Can i just go to a doctor?

After all that i've been put thru, it's time fo ra big payday. I deserve it.

2007-04-11 11:17:09 · 7 answers · asked by Mel Dogg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok guys this is the thing, me and my boyfriend agreed not to have sex till we were both ok with it, and i was just wondering if there was other things that guys enjoy and like to do instead of that.
well any suggestions are welcome
thanks

p.s
i want to know what make a guy feel really good.... ok

2007-04-11 11:15:31 · 3 answers · asked by CACR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey what are you attracted to more?

a girl who wears all the short sleezy tight clothes.
or a girl who dresses like a suck up teachers pet?
or!!! a girl who dresses in John Deere T-shirts and blue jeans with work boots, hair up in a pony tail with a hat on. who still wears make-up and looks very good even if she has mud on her?

I want HONESTY! I'm the last girl

2007-04-11 11:09:33 · 5 answers · asked by off_road_chick_9219 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 11:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are in a committed relationship, but a year ago, he and my sister started an affair and ended up having sex several times. I've thought of how it has affected me. I still love my partner. I have forgiven him and my sister from the moment I found out. But i have trouble committing to him again. We have a lot of friendly togetherness in our relationship which makes it hard to leave coz it is great source of happiness for me. We can irritate each other alot tho. Also Im not very physicaly attracted to him. My desires stemmed from his faithfulness and our deeper connection. He said that he had the affair coz he got more affection from her. We have since been living separately, and iv found men who i find appealing attracted to me. Ive been faithful to him anyway. I can do more things i want if im not in a committed relationship. Do i stay and build on our friendship or should i go single and see the world b4 committing to any1? is it unfair 2 him 2b with me? He wants 2 work it out.

2007-04-11 11:06:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We are in love and know our relationship will work if we dont do something stupid. She got a scholarship to a school 8 hours away and her parents want her to go. Its a great school for the field she is going into. She has tried to convince herself to leave and all she does is cry and cry and cant do anything. For about 3 days she was sure she was going to leave, in those 3 days she lost like 5 pounds and cried non-stop. She decided she cant make herself leave. She applied to a good school here where Im going. The education she will get in her field is not quite as good, but she did get a good amount of scholarship money (Almost a full ride). She doesnt want to leave and we both believe that because of the way we are 4 years of seperation would destroy our relationship. We care to much about each other to be away from each other. for that long. I want to make sure that changing your college plans for someone you love isnt rediculou

2007-04-11 11:04:05 · 5 answers · asked by john h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in junior high and my friend likes this guy a lot, but he doesn't like her...the problem is today she claims i was flirting with him! All i did was smile at him when he smiled at me, and he said hi to me a lot today, and then, in a joking way he tossed my book in a garbage can..LOL! And we talked..that's it..are we flirting? I don't think we are...

2007-04-11 11:02:37 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ MEOW ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

I left my husband in October because of mental and emotional abuse. The right before I left, he gave the ultimatum that it was his way or the highway and told me if I didn't do what he wanted me to, I shouldn't come home because I wouldn't want to know what the consequences would be. I left the next morning and went to a Safe House, ended up there for 1 1/2 months. I have always maintained that I didn't leave to leave for good...I love my husband and wanted to work on it with him. I tried to explain to him how he makes me feel with his repeated degrading remarks, lack of helping around the house, and continuous disregard for how many bills I covered vs how much he covered. At first, his attempt to get me back into the house was, "you will do this and this and this". He didn't listen to me at all, so I didn't go back. His next attempt was, "if you don't come home now, there will be another woman by the end of the week. I have someone in line". I didn't go back then either

2007-04-11 11:02:37 · 21 answers · asked by Shannon H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

FIRST OFF IM NOT SHARING THEM!!
i just want to know what other wives have done. they say dont send pornographic material but my husband is such a guy. he will find some somehow. i dont think he is capable of masturbation with out porn, (it has torn our relationship to peices). lately he has been such a nice guy on the phone, just saying hte nicest things and not arguing. i love it. i want to show him how proud i am of him for bineg so nice to me and also i would rather him masturbate to my pics rather somone elses. so should i take some pics for him and send them or what? my friend (also military wife) said she would do it if her hubby was there but i dont know if there are other wives that actually have the guts to do it.

2007-04-11 11:01:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

flirting with some guy and telling him i wanted to hook up for some no strings attached sex. i wouldn't have, but i would have with some other guy if i were attracted to him. the worst part is that i was telling this guy that my husband never wants to have sex and that he can't handle me. which is true, but mean. i love my husband so much, but i've tried so many times to have a real sex life with him that now i don't see him as a sexual being at all. it's like being married to my gay best friend, except i can't paint his nails. i already know what you're gong to say-obviously the marriage is over. but like isaid before- i am welcoming all comments. be as mean or as nice or say whatever the hell you want. i'm just hoping that maybe something i read may inspire to know what to do. thanks!

2007-04-11 11:01:45 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do some husband have affairs and still don't want to leave there wifes. Why? And also what makes them think it's ok for them to stay in the marriage, when the wife told him to leave. And he won't.

2007-04-11 11:01:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

not be togeather again

2007-04-11 10:59:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In court order, both parent are each order to pay one half of the uninsured potion of the medical, hospital, dental and orthodontistry expenses.

2007-04-11 10:58:22 · 16 answers · asked by Minako I 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband will not stop smoking marijuana. I was okay with it at first because he said he was going to stop when we got married. Now that I want to have kids, I don't feel comfortable with him smoking anymore. Plus his habit is costing a lot of money. What should I do? I love him, but I don't know how long I can keep doing this.

2007-04-11 10:56:25 · 10 answers · asked by mustanglvr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you and she told you she just got out of the shower and that she woul go and get her other phone but it was to cold outside. what would you think of this conversation

2007-04-11 10:55:15 · 4 answers · asked by jazzy m 1 in Friends