Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

I really want to have sex with my bf but am not sure if we are ready. We have been dating for 2 months. Are we ready?

2007-04-11 10:50:29 · 11 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 10:48:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I dated for 3 months last summer, and fell completely head over heels for each other. In mid October, he was diagnosed with brain cancer and went to a hospital out of state. After Thanksgiving, I did not hear from him for almost 6 months. In his last email, he broke things off and said that he couldnt write me anymore until he got better and doesnt want me to go through the pain.

I thought he died. I didnt hear from him or his family. So I started moving on and dated again and had sex with another man. But Im single now. Yesterday, I got an email from his sister saying he was still sick, but doing better and might be coming home soon.

Did I cheat on him? What do I do? Did I do anything wrong? Because now that I know he is still alive, my love for him [that i thought was gone] is now stronger than ever.

2007-04-11 10:47:11 · 7 answers · asked by sweetblueyes 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

but simply wondering. Some people (men and women) place a greater importance on money than others. With this in mind, what would the size of (and presumably, as a consequence, the price) of an engagement ring mean to you? Please, feel free to be as honest as you want to be. Is there anyone who still really believes it's the thought that counts? Are there degrees to this?

2007-04-11 10:42:45 · 20 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

of me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 4 months now. and when we are together she treats me as a queen. we are in high school 11th grade. and she bought me a $400 dollar diamond bracelet. and she tells me she loves me all the time. but she is a cheater. she doesnt know i know but i figured it out when i see a new number in her phone everyday. we have broken up 3 times already. n i really believed she changed. today at her basketball game. her other girlfriend broke up with her and she doesnt know i heard. n i soon found out she was dating another girl on the other time n she broke up wit her. n one of the keyed *** hole in her car. is she every gon change?

2007-04-11 10:40:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

heres this guy in my class who keeps staring at me . he even sits behind me in class just to stare at me . initially i ignored him but later wen i couldnt take it anymore , i started giving him angry looks only to find that he continued to stare at me shamelessly .
one day i was alone at the bus stand . the whole area at that time was DESERTED ! . there wasnt even a vehicle in the road . then he arrived at the scene . it was just him & me there .
as he came closer , i became scared but did not show any signs of fear . i made eye contact only once and saw that he was giving me that dirty look again . i gathered the courage to give him one very angry look . to my surprise , i found that his expression changed--- he became a bit scared or was he sad i dunno , he simply walked away with his head down
since den , he avoids me , doesent look at me , , even though he has a lotta friends . he only stares at me wen i talk to other guys
wats up with this guy ???

2007-04-11 10:39:36 · 12 answers · asked by Grateful 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 10:37:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is really really cute but he gets on my nerves.we have not been going on a date since 1 month ago!He just does'nt have the guts to ask me out!i am waiting and waiting!what should i do should i ask him and there's gonna be A dance and he asked me already to go with him.i said yes but what about the date??What should i do???

2007-04-11 10:35:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive just got off the phone to my best friend who is pregnant with her 3rd child. Her husband is usually a happy go lucky guy but recently he has been very grumpy. My best mate asks him if there is something on his mind, he just shouts at her saying no don't talk to me / leave me alone etc so they sit there all night and don't talk. She said this isn't him, she is really upset and worried about him but he just wont talk to her. As her best friend i feel as though ive failed in looking out for her as i couldnt really offer her any advice apart from keep calm ( shes 3months prg) and see how things pan out. What advice can i offer her. please help im quite worried about her x

2007-04-11 10:35:07 · 2 answers · asked by prg 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here are the facts: Wife and I married seven years and have been separated for eight months. During those eight months, I've had my boys over 60% of the time. I make $60,000 per year; she makes $52,000. We have two boys, ages 6 & 5; she also has two other boys, ages 12 & 14 from another marriage living with her about 90% of the time. There are no issues regarding abuse or drugs.

Currently, I pay all of the monthly $1,200 child care bill, plus the $400 a month med. insurance. According to various child support calculators, I'm paying much more than I should.

She says that she can't afford to pay anything, yet she's paying $200 a month for a housekeeper.

Those of you who have been before a CA judge, how has the judge determined child support? Is it strictly a numbers game, or do they take into consideration other more subjective things? Do they overly favor the mother?

Anyone that has been through this kind of thing, please share your thoughts.

Thanks!

2007-04-11 10:33:32 · 7 answers · asked by Kevin H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have realised that my so called good friend has been using me. She needs me only when she has nothing to do and as soon as she gets something to do she says me bye.

She had given my such a big picture of her busy life that I just cant think of her in my need of time to talk to her bcoz I am scared of disturbing her so its her who always contacts me first.
These days she is calling me after a long time so that I should be desperate to talk to her and wouldnot avoid her call and exactly thats happening, I am just not able to resist her call and after talking to her again I feel used by her.
I just want to get hurt by her so badly that then I would not want to see her face.
She is killing me slowly. she is keeping me keen. I just dont know what to do?
Plz show me the way to reach a good solution. She talks to me like she is doing a favour on me. I have become just a door mat and pet of her's who runs to talk to her everytime she calls or text. What she would be thinking of me as?

2007-04-11 10:33:00 · 8 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend told me that this guy likes me. I don't know how long ago he told her this. What should I do next? he is not my first pick as a boyfriend, but he's ok. HELP?

2007-04-11 10:30:30 · 4 answers · asked by *Forget me not* 5 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I were together 14 years, he got involved with a nightmare, he left me for her, cause he could not deal with the guilt of what he did, though he is still in my life, sexually, emotionally. She knows we are very much connected, so she has gotten pregnant twice, both times she loses the baby, she harrasses me constantly, and though he lives there now, he cannot formally live there, he is unhappy, and does not stay away for long, I love him more than I can say, I can not seem to move on, though I have had lots of therapy, he is the love of my life, he is unhappy, and I just can't seem to make him see, that I forgave him so long ago, I just don't know what I should do, he will not say good bye, he will not stay away, we talk, and laugh, and spend time together, but I want him home, with me, and I don't no if I can make it happen, I have lost 40 lbs, and 7 sizes, I look awesome, but it is not enough, I feel lost, though when I see him, I feel so much joy, for days Help

2007-04-11 10:29:53 · 4 answers · asked by mattymycat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 10:29:02 · 2 answers · asked by dena s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

SHe fed you and put a roof over your head and called that parenting. No emotional attachment, nothing else. Now she is a bitter 80 year old woman wondering why her kids don't cater to her every need.

2007-04-11 10:27:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He is great person, no problems in relationship from last 8 years. We have 2 wonderful kids. Few months back, he said he have to finish this project, so he started to work at night. Then same excuse again and again. He would say he is not sleepy why don't you go to sleep. He would not come to bed till 3 am. I day I caught him talking to other lady. He was talking to her four hours. He said there is nothing there. they are just friend and she have some problems and want to talk to him. I told him not to talk to her again. He said he loves me, and will not call her again. Does he really loves me. Will he stop calling her.

2007-04-11 10:27:03 · 24 answers · asked by annie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy that I fell madly in love with in the beginning of Feb. and he had my heart from the very begainning. So anyways one month rolls around and then one day for no reason he disappears. He didn't answer my phone calls...and I could not find him anywhere. So about a week and a half goes by and then he calls and said where are you at...I told him and he showed up well he didn't say much to me but carried on like normal...Well then he leaves and the next day he calls me and talks to me on the phone telling me how sorry he is and ****. So now we hang out and ack like friends, but the other night I stayed over there at his mom's and he like just started kissing me....it was crazy. So does he want to be with me or does he just want to be friends.....We have never done anything but kiss which I think is crazy.....I am so confused! help me out please

2007-04-11 10:26:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy i used to like but i sort of still do... i'm not very sure.... he asked me out today in a txt... he got my fone... typed it... and saved it to my drafts... then he told me to read it..... should i go out with him????? please help!!!

2007-04-11 10:26:07 · 31 answers · asked by BasketBall_Girl_010 1 in Singles & Dating

she say's i haven't a clue what's been going on and he say's it's lie's & is just winding me up because of the baby this happened 2 yrs ago but she lives round the corner from me my partner has recentley went 2 work away and latley i found txt on his old phone making me believe he has cheated again & with what she said to me 2 days ago and the txt i found all make sense but he strongley denise this & my heads all over the place how can i deal with this and find out yhe truth because all my partners doing is shouting that hes done nothing and i dont know what to do anymore ?

2007-04-11 10:25:31 · 1 answers · asked by minnie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright, so here's the question which most men are wondering...What is an average size for a male's penis? Is this important to you ladies?

2007-04-11 10:23:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so..we've known eachother forever and like eachother a lot but he lives a few hours away and had dated this girl and they went out for a few months then she broke up with him and it seems they are friends again but to me it looks like he likes her again and he wants to go out with me but because he lives so far away it just doesnt work right now and he comes and sees me whenever he can but its killing me not knowing if he likes this girl and if she would want to go out with him again if he would just dump me off..i dont think he would..but him living so far away how could i know?..i know its like if you dont know if he would just do that then you shouldnt like him but its not exactly like that..its just really complicated and i cant deal with it anymore..its getting really old and would it be wrong if i gave him an ultimatum her or me?..or just ask whats going on..i'm just not sure..what do you think of that situation?..i cant stop liking him and he likes me..its just so complicated

2007-04-11 10:20:32 · 6 answers · asked by ash d 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this ffriend and everytime i fancy someone she makes a point by pretending they asked her out when they diddent. And all she ever does is talk about the people i fancy leveryday she says 'ow he keeps looking at me' and stuff and she always tells the people i fancy that i fancy their best mate o something when its really them i fancy.
And naw she is trying to brake my ffriends up from me and because of her i can never get close to a boy. please help me.

2007-04-11 10:18:57 · 5 answers · asked by Alexa 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl and recently she told me she might have feelings for me when we had a fight and she told me i guess because she thought we weren't going to talk anymore. and that didn't happen we still talk and are good friends. but she says its a lot for her to even consider a guy. but it seems odd to me for a girl who claims not to trust guys and almost never have feelings for a guy to even mention it if she didn't sorta have an idea of what she thought about me. it seems weird, i'm not sure how to interpret this i really think she has a better idea. is it possible for a girl to really not know how she feels at all? wat should i do? she asked me to write a poem about her but i dont feel comfortable giving her something like that since i wrot it romantically because shes not sure about her feelings to me. i told her to just tell me she didnt like and she refused. can anyone make sense of this for me?

2007-04-11 10:13:32 · 4 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 10:05:28 · 36 answers · asked by greeneyedflavor 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 10:04:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl and recently she told me she might have feelings for me when we had a fight and she told me i guess because she thought we weren't going to talk anymore. and that didn't happen we still talk and are good friends. but she says its a lot for her to even consider a guy. but it seems odd to me for a girl who claims not to trust guys and almost never have feelings for a guy to even mention it if she didn't sorta have an idea of what she thought about me. it seems weird, i'm not sure how to interpret this i really think she has a better idea. is it possible for a girl to really not know how she feels at all? wat should i do? she asked me to write a poem about her but i dont feel comfortable giving her something like that since i wrot it romantically because shes not sure about her feelings to me. i told her to just tell me she didnt like and she refused. can anyone make sense of this for me?

2007-04-11 10:04:15 · 1 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 10:04:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went to the eye doctor, and he said i need glasses. I'm afraid that my bf will laugh at me. what should i do?

2007-04-11 10:00:58 · 38 answers · asked by Angel S 1 in Singles & Dating

i love this 35 year old man ....he is married and he has 2 kids. i saw him last night and he tried so hard to hide his feelings from me but i know that he knows that we belong together.i just want to be with him and hold him and touch him everyday but HE IS MARRIED!!!! what can i do???? i sleep with his picture under my pillow at night thinking of what we can be ......but i have no idea how to get thru to him and make him love me. help me....i`m desperately dying!!!

2007-04-11 09:59:45 · 27 answers · asked by dog head 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 09:58:43 · 43 answers · asked by justcurious 1 in Marriage & Divorce