what should I do to teach her a lesson. I am feeling damn angry with myself.?

Question

I have realised that my so called good friend has been using me. She needs me only when she has nothing to do and as soon as she gets something to do she says me bye.

She had given my such a big picture of her busy life that I just cant think of her in my need of time to talk to her bcoz I am scared of disturbing her so its her who always contacts me first.
These days she is calling me after a long time so that I should be desperate to talk to her and wouldnot avoid her call and exactly thats happening, I am just not able to resist her call and after talking to her again I feel used by her.
I just want to get hurt by her so badly that then I would not want to see her face.
She is killing me slowly. she is keeping me keen. I just dont know what to do?
Plz show me the way to reach a good solution. She talks to me like she is doing a favour on me. I have become just a door mat and pet of her's who runs to talk to her everytime she calls or text. What she would be thinking of me as?

Answer 1

You are her security blanket. She knows she can always count on you when her other options don't work out. You're obviously not happy with this, so you have to break the cycle. Next time she calls, just tell her you're busy and you'll call her back. Then wait till the next day and call her.

You'll find out very quickly if she really values your friendship or is just taking advantage of you.

Answer 2

Let this terrible anger feeling go away!!!!

You already know how you feel about the situation, so why are you letting her hurt you again???? Ignore your phone calls, why are yo so tempted to talk to her??? just ignore her for a bit, get a hobby, get a life of your own, and don't be so dam available all the time... make yourself busy too... the if one day you decide to talk to her again in the future (not after 2 days!!!) in the far future - cut her off short, make the conversation short, sweet, and go on about your business...

I had a "friend" like this... now she is always calling me to make plans to meet and I brush her off... why bother wasting my time when I have so many other people around me that do give a dam about me...

Give yourself your true value.... and value friendship...

Good Luck

Answer 3

properly i think of Squishy's answer is unfavorable. as much as I accept as true with you which you are able to not have despatched that message, i think you have been wronged (and carried out some wronging of your man or woman). in step with danger you may desire to confront those human beings. regardless of the certainty that, curiously like everybody is going via annoying cases, no longer something will ever be resolved by skill of brewing over it. i understand war of words is annoying, curiously such as you and that i are lots alike. I stay on issues consistently and then they alter into even worse. Your issues have been rather great at first, so coming to words and dealing with human beings would be annoying, yet i think of that's the perfect ingredient to do. in case you are able to no longer confront them now that factor has surpassed, undergo in concepts this interior the destiny, and don't alow conflict to reproduce on itself. talk issues over with human beings, yet do no longer blackmail or threaten to "tell on human beings", which will never end properly and could basically make you seem bitter.

Answer 4

you will need a gun, shuvvle, and some lime

gun = shoot the ho
shuvvle = beat her body up for a bit, then dig toher a nice cozy hole,
lime = to stop the body from stinking up the place were she is buried

Answer 5

Break all ties with her tell her to loose your number and don't answer if she calls

Answer 6

if u are sure she is just using you, dumb her and get over it, the world is full with nice people

Answer 7

you should look for a new friend. so, she will get a good lesson

Answer 8

You actually asked this again?