i really like this girl and recently she told me she might have feelings for me when we had a fight and she told me i guess because she thought we weren't going to talk anymore. and that didn't happen we still talk and are good friends. but she says its a lot for her to even consider a guy. but it seems odd to me for a girl who claims not to trust guys and almost never have feelings for a guy to even mention it if she didn't sorta have an idea of what she thought about me. it seems weird, i'm not sure how to interpret this i really think she has a better idea. is it possible for a girl to really not know how she feels at all? wat should i do? she asked me to write a poem about her but i dont feel comfortable giving her something like that since i wrot it romantically because shes not sure about her feelings to me. i told her to just tell me she didnt like and she refused. can anyone make sense of this for me?
2007-04-11 10:13:32 · 4 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U SAY U REALLY LIKE THIS GIRL AND SHE FEELS THE
SAME BUT U ARE BASICLY HOLDING YOURSELF BACK.
THAT IS WHAT IS MAKING IT SO CONFUSING. SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS AND U KINDA KNOW MAYBE . SO I THINK U SHOULD REALLY GET YOUR HEAD ON STRAIGHT AND FIGURE OUT WHAT U REALLY
WANT. ONCE U DO THAT THEN TAKE IT FROM THERE.
AND THINGS SHOULD FALL INTO PLACE. AND MAYBE
ONCE U FIGURE IT OUT IT MIGHT HAVE A DIFFERENT
OUTCOME. THERE MIGHT NOT BE ANY CONNECTION...
2007-04-11 10:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible for a girl to not trust guys and then when they think they have feelings for someone, they freak out and get all defensive. so they really don't know if they like you because they are so used to pushing away these feelings. how would you feel if you didn't trust someone and then suddenly realized that Hey! i just might like this person!
you would be like: what the hell is going on? and you would be confused too.
but the fact that she asked you how you feel about her, is her way of saying (maybe) that she is interested but afraid of being hurt. if you don't respond favourably, she will close up. make sense?
2007-04-11 17:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she likes you, and by asking you to write a poem wants to know if you like her as much, she probably doesnt wanna let her guard down if you might not reciprocate the same feelings, if you like her, show her, very clearly that you feel the same, write her a sweet poem, good luck!
2007-04-11 17:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have feelings for a guy??
I think she likes girls.
Move on, man.
2007-04-11 17:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋