Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

kissed you and you did not reciprocate but instead pulled back away and told them they knew better because you were exclusive with someone else.....would you tell the someone else?....if you dont is it considered cheating?.....if you do then is it still considered cheating and does telling alleviate you of any guilt? oh and yes they are acquaintences/quasi-friends but not close.

2007-04-11 09:03:44 · 17 answers · asked by cookiesmom 7 in Singles & Dating

How soon till our next time of "loving delight"?

2007-04-11 09:02:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with out joining any thing i tried www.mate .com and www.friends reunited .com but you have to join for them to get your message

2007-04-11 09:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

my bf broke up with me on easter, he said he wasnt interested in me, and he didnt like me anymore. he was the one who had asked me out, and was dying to get a date with me, and then he screws me over and breaks up with me 10 days later. why do you think he broke up with me? what do you think his reasons were? what are good reasons why guys break up with girls??

2007-04-11 08:54:17 · 20 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 08:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by tic22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My newlywed wife and I are dealing with trust issues and fidelity. She carried on a relationship into our marriage for a couple years. Got busted and lied about it on 2 dozen occasions and actually left me for the guy but we are working it out. We are both "mourning our single lives" but I am trying to work on our intimacy. She complained that I was not romantic enough and it drove her to another man but now I am trying by leaps and bounds to connect with her she is pulling away. When she would get distant before she was in love and starry eyed with this other guy. Now she is distant again and I am curious as to whats going on. She says I am insecure and I say it is because she lied and keeps being dishonest. Am I wrong to want to know whats going on? I don't want to give my heart 1,000% and she is just halfway in. I need to know.

2007-04-11 08:49:46 · 22 answers · asked by Magnus01 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband went to a strip club with friends. He came home with lipstick on the inside of his collar and the front of his shirt. I thought there was no contact allowed?

2007-04-11 08:49:01 · 27 answers · asked by Wendy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My live-in boyfriend of three years said he was too tired? For a regular good night kiss? I'm talking about a one-second peck on the lips, not making out?

We brushed teeth at same time and got into bed. I said goodnight, and usually I get a kiss. I said "can I have my goodnight kiss?" in a teasing way, and he said "I'm tired" in a grumpy voice.

I felt pretty insulted that he did not have the energy for one little goodnight kiss.

It would have taken one-second of his time to make me feel good. Now he is asking if it is a rule he has to kiss me goodnight.

It was more of a tradition, but now I am off on the whole idea.

He does not understand why I would be hurt that he did not want to kiss me.

2007-04-11 08:47:55 · 7 answers · asked by cathoratio 5 in Singles & Dating

would you wait for marriage? or would you wait to find the right person. to have sex

2007-04-11 08:47:44 · 7 answers · asked by Renisha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont wanna go to my daddies in the summer,he has not been in my life much and from what i have in memory of him he was soo mean to us and my mommie,i have a step dad i love alot and i really dont want to have anything to do with my birth dad,but i dont want mommie to get in trouble if i dont go to arizona .my mom filed the divorce not him,we live in teaxas,he is getting married in may to someone i dont know and she practices wiccan i dont wanna be around that,i love god and my real daddy cusses him all the time,can someone help me,i dont want mommie to get in trouble for something i want and not her

2007-04-11 08:45:55 · 17 answers · asked by TAM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

tenis would be a tenis skirt and volleyball would be a bikini.
what should i pick.

i cant say no.

if i say no she'll tell everyone in shool a false rumor.
but if i say yes she will say nothing.



p.s we have a tenis court in our yard

2007-04-11 08:43:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 14 but ive never had a date. i have a hot body akording to all my friends and i have a nice smile. i never swear and i have good manners. i do good in my school work and in my sport, but ive never had a boyfriend.

what im i doing wrong? what shoud i do?

I really need help!!!!!!

2007-04-11 08:42:54 · 15 answers · asked by Zabbstar 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a special present that conveys how very special she is and how much I appreciate being married to her. We are a well-educated, middle class couple in our 40s. Any good ideas?

Thanks!

2007-04-11 08:42:52 · 74 answers · asked by Gaucho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The other night i had a dream about having a kid. It was weird though because it was with a girl that i knew from my home town and i met her before but she was dating a person that i know. What was also werid about it is that she wanted to get rid of her bf and be with me because of this. I have no clue what this dream means and i sure hope it doesn't mean that i have a kid with a girl and she didn't tell me.

2007-04-11 08:40:41 · 17 answers · asked by drama0408 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 21 year old Step Daughter who has recently been in and out of jail. She is a meth user. We have gotten her a sponsor to help her, but she has only contacted her once. She is doing nothing to help herself by getting help or a job. She lays around the house and does not clean up after herself and rarely bathes. She also brings home not so trust worthing people and I have tried to talk to my husband about putting an end to it. And all he says if I don't let her have her friends over she will leave. What do I do? When my son had a problem we sent him on his way. He has learned to get by and live with the mistakes he has made, but my husband finds it alot different because she is a female. Please help me.

2007-04-11 08:40:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I known my friend for a month and boyfriend for 5

2007-04-11 08:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by Alize J 2 in Friends

2007-04-11 08:37:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i recently posted that i met a 28 year old and im 17 and he wants to have realtionship with me when i turn 18 were friends now but i do agree on with people told that i should date someone my own age because he has a five year old but today he told me his is starting to fall in love with me. I dont know what to do now can anybody give me advice?

2007-04-11 08:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by airplanes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there anyone on here that you think has the absolute DUMBEST ideas and you disagree with almost every single thing they say?

There is one person on here that I swear is the exact opposite of me. I think everything she says is ridiculous and she comes across as so rude and condescending in most of her posts. And she's almost never helpful.

Is there anyone on here that just rubs you the wrong way?

2007-04-11 08:18:07 · 16 answers · asked by heyjennyslater7 3 in Weddings

The guy I am going out with told me his ex girlfriend sent him a hand-made card designed and made all by herself.

Does she still have feelings for him? They are still friends and talk. Should I worry?

2007-04-11 08:16:46 · 17 answers · asked by ce 1 in Singles & Dating

which took longer to recover from?

2007-04-11 08:14:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 36 yoa male, w/ 2 children in Oklahoma City(recently moved in the middle of the night.) I was unemployed in Missouri for last 5 months due to either effort on my part or local economy of jefferson city mo(40,000 people)

My wife of 14 years, 33 yoa, met a guy at a bar (she didnt tell she was stopping there also. (she says she went there to tell him she didnt want anything to do with him) was caught by him calling me at hometo pick her up and that she was drunk (possible medication interaction from pysch meds) and needed to be picked up by this guy.


Am I wrong to leave, w. my kids I know women leave if the toilet seat is up, but I think It was acceptable....Cheating is cheating. I havent filed for divorce, but we continue to talk about this


What do I do? (she has since been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder)

2007-04-11 08:14:34 · 15 answers · asked by pauljpray 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 08:14:25 · 3 answers · asked by s914thurber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter 14 has been acting a little secretive and has been in trouble a couple of times this month for not making her check in time mostly she is a good kid and I havent had much trouble out of her. She has a bag she carries with her everywhere and my husband thinks whatever she is hiding is in the bag and thinks I should look, but I feel this is an invasion of her privacy and unless she really gives me a good reason not to trust her I should not snoop through her things. What do u think and if u think I should snoop would u tell her u want to see whats in the bag or would u look without her knowing

2007-04-11 08:12:26 · 35 answers · asked by pickletbug 2 in Family

2007-04-11 08:10:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 08:08:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 14 years and have 3 kids. 2 girls ages 13, 10 and 1 boy who's 4. Well, I'm not happy in the relationship and haven't been for a long time. We don't really fight..we don't really talk and everything we have is petty much separate. Years ago, she cheated on me. Once after 2 years of marriage and the other time after 8 years of marriage. We were separated when the 2nd one happened but I didn't find out about it till we got back together. We were separated about 9 months. I just hate to divorce because of what it may do to the kids. I spend the most time with them and I take care of the whole family finances by myself. The relationship isn't bad for the kids really because we don't fight but I just hate being miserable all the time. I'm not sure what to do.

2007-04-11 08:08:18 · 35 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy for almost a month and I am really starting to fall for him. The problem is that his previous girlfriend was extremely controlling and would call him several times a day if he didn't answer the phone.
The other day I was buying a dress for Prom and called to ask him what color I should get. When he didn't answer I called again to make sure I got the right number. Finally I called a friend of his to see if he was okay. My boyfriend assures me I am nothing like his ex, but now he acts different when I call him.
How can I get him to see I was only worried about him and not being a controlling person?

2007-04-11 08:08:09 · 7 answers · asked by music_chick18 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you get over the one you love so much??

2007-04-11 08:07:02 · 14 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

Last time I had sex with my guy he moaned something to me, he said " you send me to the moon" was this a compliment?

2007-04-11 07:59:27 · 24 answers · asked by Niki 2 in Singles & Dating