my bf broke up with me on easter, he said he wasnt interested in me, and he didnt like me anymore. he was the one who had asked me out, and was dying to get a date with me, and then he screws me over and breaks up with me 10 days later. why do you think he broke up with me? what do you think his reasons were? what are good reasons why guys break up with girls??
2007-04-11 08:54:17 · 20 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he asked me out 10 days ago but we've dated b4 that. and he was the one saying i love u, and stuff, i wasnt at all.
2007-04-11 09:33:21 · update #1
They find you boring ans USED!!!
2007-04-11 08:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's what "dating" is about. It's about finding a candidate for marriage. Especially later in life. Just because he thought that he didn't want to spend the rest of his life with you, doesn't mean that you are a bad person! He may just feel like you aren't the right girl for him. But that doesn't mean that you will not find a perfect match for you, because you will. So, really, it's all about being together, seeing if that is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, and breaking up and moving on or staying together forever. Hope that helped.
2007-04-11 15:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for him...he should act on how he feels...sorry, but I'm sure he had some reason...same as he probably had a reason to go out with you. Whatever he thought he would get out of going out with you he must not have gotten...or he had a change of heart or a new better opportunity came along. Usually that covers it...guys are pretty simple. Women only question us because what we think they don't always agree with...
2007-04-11 16:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by James T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what dating is all about. He probably gave you more reasons than most guys would. Dating is looking for that special someone and he is still looking as are you. Ten days isn't a big investment to find out things won't work out. You are still in the game, check your inventory, adjust your smile and you are ready to go again. Happy hunting.
2007-04-11 16:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kenny Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do not want to commit.....Just need a sperm depository for a while then go on to the next girl...why would someone just stay with one person if I call a girl on my list and she says she is too tired to have sex I am not out.. I go onto the next girl on the list and so on...get it? So as a guy we will always get what we want lots of sex. If one is in a bad mood we can just call another girl see how good it is.
2007-04-11 16:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by George T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are stupid. Some will break up with you because you slept with them and the hunt is over, Others will break up with you because you wouldn't sleep with them. When you meet the right guy--a good guy-- you'll know it. There ARE good ones out there. Remember, a good relationship has to be a two-way street. And trust is sooo important.
2007-04-11 16:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the same reasons, girls break up with guys! Some things are just not made to last forever - forget about it, get over him and move on in your life and someday to another man who treats you better.
2007-04-11 15:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by darmstadt_kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To clingy
Annoying as hell (constant talk talk talk)
Was to easy
Only wanted sex, wasn't that great when he got it.
Girl wanted to much to soon (i.e. a relationship)
Figured out that he didn't really like you once he got to know you.
Girl isn't the sharpest knife in the drawer.
Girl has some undesirable trait, such as - does drugs, doesn't do drugs, doesn't drink, drinks to much, to religious, not religious, loves cats, hates cats, hates your family, his family hates you, .........could be anything.
If he didn't give you a good reason, then he probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings. That means you're probably to smart or dumb or annoying.
2007-04-11 16:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change. They like, or think they like someone until it changes. Most of the time it's the guys. They are dawgs! When the real person they are getting to know comes out they run. Or he might have heard a rumor. There's no telling.
2007-04-11 15:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a 19 year old guy, i have a lot of friends that pull this stunt. and im sorry to break it to you but more often then not, a guy breaks up with a girl becease he simply get bored of her or that he has found someone he thinks is either better looking or "easier" Again, im sorry to hear that you had to deal with something like this but most (NOT ALL) but most guys are jacka**es! there sometimes isnt a reason they for their ways.
2007-04-11 16:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Bates 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you sleep with him already? Were you clingy? Did you have anything in common? Maybe he just felt victorious that he finally got what he wanted. Chances are, he broke up with you because of exactly what he said-he wasn't interested and didn't like you very much. I am sorry if that sounds harsh...but seems to me like he was probably being honest with you....move on!!
2007-04-11 15:58:52 · answer #11 · answered by Christina M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋