if you were exclusive with someone and someone else?

Question

kissed you and you did not reciprocate but instead pulled back away and told them they knew better because you were exclusive with someone else.....would you tell the someone else?....if you dont is it considered cheating?.....if you do then is it still considered cheating and does telling alleviate you of any guilt? oh and yes they are acquaintences/quasi-friends but not close.

Answer 1

It isn't cheating, because you didn't do anything wrong. You just need to condier if you want to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend or not. Would it benefit him/her to know? Should he/she know this about his/her friend? Or, will it just anger him/her, and be a problem?

I'd most likely tell my boyfriend/girlfriend as I don't want to keep things from him/her. But, you didn't cheat. So, just figure out if he/she should know or not, and how he'll/she'll react. And also, consider if he/she will believe that you did not kiss the other person back.

Answer 2

I would follow your heart - God speaks through your heart and will lead you to your soul-mate

don't feel bad about having loving feelings for many people other than your 'exclusive' - explain your true feelings for your 'exclusive' and if that's not good enough for 'him/her' then it's obviously not meant to be

what the world needs is more love between people - the non-sexual love, but agape love

but also be aware that most men are DOGS who will do anything to get in your pants. Not that we're to blame, it's just programmed genetically with the "survival" thing - just as women are "nesters"

Answer 3

if you didn´t reciprocate the kiss, then you did nothing wrong, and even if you have done it you can handdle it.

you can tell the "someone else" about it while being confident because you did nothing wrong, and it the "someone else" get jealous and dont get it its because its insecure, not because you are wrong.

A very good book about any kind of fear anyone should read its:

Feel the fear and do it anyway
Susan Jeffers

Have fun

Answer 4

If none of them are boyfriends or anyone close then you shouldn't say anything....just forget it happened...if you do tell the other guy.He will start a argument and will probably stop seeing you or being a friend; maybe the same with the other

Answer 5

First of all, don't get close enough so someone can kiss you. Second of all, if you tell him to alleviate your own guilt, you will feel better, but how will he feel.

Answer 6

it's not cheating. you can tell if you want, but personally I'd make it clear to the kisser that I wanted no part of that, and that it was inappropriate. Maybe tell your exclusive someone, that somebody he knows came onto you, but you set them straight. Just tell him not to make a big deal, u just wanted to clear the air....

Answer 7

I wouldn't say anything. Your not interested in the person who kissed you, but if the person who kissed you is a mutual friend of you and your beaus, you might want to say something. Cuz thats just rude!!

Answer 8

I'd let it go and not mention it unless this other person does it again or doesn't accept your saying no. You said no, so what's the guilt about?

Answer 9

Don't tell. Nah, don't tell. Just tell him that he is crazy and he better be glad that he is one of his friends, cause if not, you would have slapped the hell out of him! But your bf might be trying to see if you will cheat**. I bet cha.

Answer 10

i believe honesty is best.especially if you are wanting the same in return.do onto others..ya know,besides if he and you are really serious and that is an acquaintance he needs to know the kind of person he is associating with