im 14 but ive never had a date. i have a hot body akording to all my friends and i have a nice smile. i never swear and i have good manners. i do good in my school work and in my sport, but ive never had a boyfriend.
what im i doing wrong? what shoud i do?
I really need help!!!!!!
2007-04-11 08:42:54 · 15 answers · asked by Zabbstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do school work
you're too young for a Boyfriend
2007-04-11 08:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are really really young to be worrying about this. When I was your age, the more I tried to be what *I* thought the guys wanted me to be, I would do it, just so I would have a boyfriend. (but I didn't have sex until I was 16 and I regret that now because I didn't love the person I had sex with.) Having a *hot body* is not the whole point of having a boyfriend. It's good that you never swear and have good manners- those will help you when you get older and more mature. You're not doing anything wrong. You just need to concentrate on school, and do not make the mistake of chasing some guy, because believe me, that turns them off more than anything. It makes you look desperate, which you already sound like you are. Concentrate on school and sports activities and having fun with your friends. It sounds weird, but the less you obsess about having a boyfriend, the more attractive you will be to a guy. Guys hate desperate girls. Trust me on this one. I went through the same thing in high school.
2007-04-11 15:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by PURR GIRL TORI 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI SWEETIE, MY ADVICE IS, WHEN THE RIGHT TIME COMES YOU WILL MEET A WONDERFUL BOY THAT WILL CARE ABOUT YOU AND TREAT YOU SPECIAL.. YOU SOUND VERY NICE. NO RUSH HUN. WAIT AND IT WILL HAPPEN. TRUST ME THERE IS ALWAYS THAT SPECIAL BOY FOR EVERYONE.. CONTINUE DOING GOOD IN SCHOOL. YOU ARE NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG, IF ANYTHING YOU ARE DOING RIGHT!! YOUR 14 NO RUSH. YOU HAVE A LONG LIFE AHEAD OF YOU, AND MANY SPECIAL THINGS WILL HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE. RELAX IT WILL BE OK, YOU WILL SEE. ENJOY BEING 14, BECAUSE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT LIFE WILL FLASH BY!! GOOD LUCK SWEETIE KATHY
2007-04-11 15:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by kathy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of time to find the right person. Don't rush it. If you are cute and attractive, it is only a matter of time until some guy notices and becomes interested.
2007-04-11 15:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on you. Study, hang out with your friends, and be true to yourself. Nothing is more attractive than a strong, smart, self reliant young woman. Boys will come in time, make sure they are worthy of you.
2007-04-11 15:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Robin C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just asked this damn question. You have a lot of time left so stop complaining. 14 years hardly qualifies as a long time in life.
2007-04-11 15:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety...i m 16...a tone of boys have asked me out but i didnt like any of them....last year i almost ''did'' sthn with a guy 21 and i regretted it....thank god...and 2 other guys i liked turned out to be so immature!!!! i advise you not to be hurry....it will come....maybe your expectations are high and i m not telling you to lower them!!! keep them where they are...you will find a guy!! and besides..maybe you will regret having a boyfriend in that age...cuzz most of the time...you do stupid things!!!
2007-04-11 15:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by ursula!!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why worry so much? you are 14. most people live to be in thier 70's and 80's.
2007-04-11 15:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Azalea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r ok. i guess u r looking for one guy, and are not intrested in riff raff. more importantly, ur heart is probably telling u to go for a long term relationship of trust and love.
ur brain, i think is looking for a guy who has the most -- looks, talent, economic security, honesty..................stick to it. u'll end up having the last laugh.
2007-04-11 15:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by slmanl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you arnt puttin urself out there and talking to guys
or guys dont like ur personalitiy and think ur annoying
one of those two
2007-04-11 15:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋