heres this guy in my class who keeps staring at me . he even sits behind me in class just to stare at me . initially i ignored him but later wen i couldnt take it anymore , i started giving him angry looks only to find that he continued to stare at me shamelessly .
one day i was alone at the bus stand . the whole area at that time was DESERTED ! . there wasnt even a vehicle in the road . then he arrived at the scene . it was just him & me there .
as he came closer , i became scared but did not show any signs of fear . i made eye contact only once and saw that he was giving me that dirty look again . i gathered the courage to give him one very angry look . to my surprise , i found that his expression changed--- he became a bit scared or was he sad i dunno , he simply walked away with his head down
since den , he avoids me , doesent look at me , , even though he has a lotta friends . he only stares at me wen i talk to other guys
wats up with this guy ???
2007-04-11 10:39:36 · 12 answers · asked by Grateful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you. He's really shy more than likely and doesn't know how to talk to you. Instead of shooting him dirty looks and ignoring him, try going over and talking to him. Be nice to him.
2007-04-11 10:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lillian M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you're going to resolve this is to talk to him. Lunch or before school or in between classes are often good times if you have a few minutes. So you go up to him whether he's with friends or not, be nice, ask if he has five minutes that you can talk to him. If he agrees, then ask if there is something wrong with me (yourself). Tell him that you've noticed him staring and that you were wondering if your shirt was inside out or something stuck on your shoe or what. Tell him that it's making you nervous and if there's a problem you'd rather know if somethings wrong than have to guess and get paranoid about it.
By doing it this way, first of all you come off as a nice person than as a stuck up person. If this guy likes you than maybe he'll get the courage to say that's what the problem is. If he really doesn't like you and calls you names, tell him to keep away if he's going to mean for no reason.
Avoid cursing and name calling. Don't act like you're afraid, just curious. Stop giving the mean looks because you're afraid, just ignore and play the you don't exist if he's mean after you talk to him. You may have done something to him or a good friend of his without even realizing it, so whether you believe it or not, assume that it might be your fault for long enough to be polite to him to find out. That way you don't walk up accusing him and put him on the defensive which makes people say mean things. Calm, cool, and polite is the way to handle this situation.
2007-04-11 17:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cat M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DRAAAAAAAAAAAAMAAAAAAAAA!!!!
Take off your princess tiara and talk to him... don't you think you are taking this way too far in your head not to????
Just talk to him face to face and ask him why is he staring at you so much... in a nice way... and not in front of everyone... maybe you can pull him aside and ask him if you could talk to him...
THEN and only THEN you will know why and you will find the solution to the problem and the dilemma in your head...
If he likes you and you don't like him... you can tell him...
If he just thinks you are cute, you can tell him thank you and move on...
Good Luck....
2007-04-11 17:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy likes you alot thats why he keeps looking at you he wanted to see if you liked him back and what you would do at the bus stop......you then gave him a face that told him you are not interested in him and thats why he walked away with his head down........me may have lots of friends but his interested in you the reason why he looks at you when you are talking to other guys that......his jelouse that you like to talk to thoese guys and not him like he wants you to...........do you like him..........why dont you go up and say hi to him.......hope i have helped feel free to ask for more advice
2007-04-11 17:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and make conversation and say things like do I know you or have I met you before? This will start a conversation and then his intent of whatever will be reveal.
2007-04-11 17:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am pretty sure he likes you and the only reason he walked away its maybe cause u gave him a dirty look and he got the vibe that u are not interested in him.
2007-04-11 17:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might like you, and not know what to say. You maybe intimidated him with the look. He's probably jealous that you talk to other guys and not him.
2007-04-11 17:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by jesssikahhh_x3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might like you but be scared to talk to you but doesnt know what yo think of him try saying hi to him sometime and see what happens
2007-04-11 17:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jack Russell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pleasssssssse!!!! callllll! the police!! sounds like this guy is a psycho and needs to be locked up! seriously, call the cops next time you see him report him, and have them keep this pervert away from you!
2007-04-11 17:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
omgd he liked u
he juss didnt know how to tell u
u juss ruined the mood, hun
now he avoids u?!!!
sheesh
2007-04-11 17:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by ilovesoccer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋