girl doesnt kno her feelings?

Question

i really like this girl and recently she told me she might have feelings for me when we had a fight and she told me i guess because she thought we weren't going to talk anymore. and that didn't happen we still talk and are good friends. but she says its a lot for her to even consider a guy. but it seems odd to me for a girl who claims not to trust guys and almost never have feelings for a guy to even mention it if she didn't sorta have an idea of what she thought about me. it seems weird, i'm not sure how to interpret this i really think she has a better idea. is it possible for a girl to really not know how she feels at all? wat should i do? she asked me to write a poem about her but i dont feel comfortable giving her something like that since i wrot it romantically because shes not sure about her feelings to me. i told her to just tell me she didnt like and she refused. can anyone make sense of this for me?

Answer 1

Love is neither black nor white, its many, many, many colors. Realize that its just a symbol (words are symbols) thats used to describe the sum whole of all feelings that an indivdual has for an entity (possible another individual). With that said chances are she even loves you buddy, because she feels for you. Now how does this information help you, explain to her that all your need to know is what it is she does feel for you. Your right it is something, but it could be malicious or wonderful depending on what it is exactly. One of the better things to do in this situation when people don't bow to pressure is to take it off them. See how she reacts when your still being cool with her, but your not worried about how she feels. Just accept that she does feel something, and your in a little dance to find out exactly what, play it smart and this could end well. Just never get upset with her, and speck honest and from the heart. The other is the deal about "true" love buddy, and lets just say we has humans can love many things and many people, that doesn't make it right for us, and it doesn't mean it even feels right for us. We have big hearts that can get us in big trouble if we don't listen to that brain we've got. So play cautionly this game of love and don't care more then the other shows, it isn't about what they say anyways, its there actions you need to keep an eye on. Shoot she could tell you, your gods gift to her, then never call you again, and you'll be confused. So just remember people do a good job lieing with there mouths even to themselves, but their actions speck volumes. So be patent, be sweet, be nice, and just keep relating to her, the truth well come out and it well all make sense.