ok so..we've known eachother forever and like eachother a lot but he lives a few hours away and had dated this girl and they went out for a few months then she broke up with him and it seems they are friends again but to me it looks like he likes her again and he wants to go out with me but because he lives so far away it just doesnt work right now and he comes and sees me whenever he can but its killing me not knowing if he likes this girl and if she would want to go out with him again if he would just dump me off..i dont think he would..but him living so far away how could i know?..i know its like if you dont know if he would just do that then you shouldnt like him but its not exactly like that..its just really complicated and i cant deal with it anymore..its getting really old and would it be wrong if i gave him an ultimatum her or me?..or just ask whats going on..i'm just not sure..what do you think of that situation?..i cant stop liking him and he likes me..its just so complicated
2007-04-11 10:20:32 · 6 answers · asked by ash d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel that strongly about him, you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him and just ask him, me or her. Tell him how you feel, and how its driving you crazy. To be completely honest, a long distance relationship is hard, and it seems like your referring to if he does go out with me, he could easily cheat on me with this other girl and you will never know. And its true. Not to scare you, but unless you have a lot of trust in him and he has never broken your trust, then you need all the faith you can get if you guys do decide to go back out. But don't put your heart into jeapordy if you feel as though he's not being completely honest. Talk to him, tell you how you feel, and see what he says. Its the only way to know for sure, and the only way to find out if he feels the same way as you. If it doesn't seem like he's going down that road, it may hurt, but you need to move on. Some advice if you do move on, make sure you give tyourself time to heal before looking for another guy. Have some girl time. Good luck, and I hope it turns out well for you.
2007-04-11 10:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by Laxbaby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how he feels and what he feels for this other girl don't play the guessing game if you can't ask him face to face email him send it in an e card but i think an ultimatum is wrong but at the same time right in your case if it is you he chooses then ask him to respect you and not see this other girl but he can talk to her that shows you trust him and resepcts you good luck
2007-04-11 10:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say ask him whats up with that other girl, but be suttle about it, and if that doesnt work then dont be suttle about it..but save the ultimatum until [if] he tells you he likes the other girl too.
2007-04-11 10:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by amandalynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NOTHING COMPLICATED ABOUT IT . IT'S
EITHER U OR HER. HE IS NOT GOING TO HAVE HIS
CAKE AND EAT IT TO. BESIDES IF YOU STAY WITH
THIS PERSON AND HE SOON COMMITS TO U AND
THEN LATER CHEATS ... HOW WOULD U FEEL THEN.
LET HIM GO NOW AND NOT HURT AND FEEL THE PAIN
LATER . THINK ABOUT IT . LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE
PLAYING GAMES AND BEING USED FOR THEIR
ADVANTAGE..... GOOD LUCK
2007-04-11 10:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tjink 4 ur best intrest just comfront him an d say 'hey i know you like me and i like you but i wanna know beacuse ui'm getting hints that you are startuing to like your ex. if you wanna aske me out just do it. but if you are starting to like your ex and me i don't want that. because i don't want ot have my heart handed back to me." or something along the lines of that.
2007-04-11 10:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what feels right inside
2007-04-11 10:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by hbk-4-champ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋