Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

I'm 24 and this is such a huge issue for me. I'm still at home. I have been with bf for 4 months. If we are still together and happy in a year I want to move in with him. He wants me to. He has his own house. But I'm scared. Escited but scared. Just wanted to hear people's experiences...

2007-04-11 13:40:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do girls really get horny like guys? or do they just have sex because they want to please their boyfriend?and if they do get horny like guys what happens when they do.

2007-04-11 13:38:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He denied everything when he knows that i look in his phone and i see a lot of text message said the he want it as bad as she do. I confront him but he lied.

2007-04-11 13:38:22 · 7 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone! I am need of help on a topic that I been telling my friends. I have a crush on this guy that I happened to met. See when i first got my job I was pretty excited meeting new people, and as weeks went by there was this man that kept coming where I'm at. Suddenly I didnt notice anything I mean there were a lot of attractive men and I told myself I could actually find someone here. Well they moved me to a diffrent location and so when i saw him it was like something cleared the air and I said wow I never felt this way about anyone. So we spoke and he said" Oh so I notice you moved over here" and it caught me off guard and I said yes, and he asked me so how do you like it.. I told him yeah I like it much easier,. so my friend jen said that oh so he was noticing you. And since then he came all the time but i"m keeping things cool and just taking one day at a time. So my question of the day is when you know someone is attractive to you how do you approach the next step.

2007-04-11 13:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by hotbeauty 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband just took off 2 weeks ago, I am pregnat by the way and we have 2 beautiful kids, 3 1/2 and 1. We are still married and I just dont think its fair my children should be around her. Do I have the right to ask for a custody agreement that states he may not have his children around this woman? I asked legal aid, and they said they heard of it being done before, but dont know if its oftemn a factor. I just want whats best for my kids, I think seeing their dad hug and kiss me just 2 weeks ago, and now do the same w/ this woman is immoral, WE ARE MARRIED! What is that saying to our kids?

2007-04-11 13:15:08 · 15 answers · asked by AntzaGurl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

People who I know & those I don't know-They don't like me, they look at me like I'm a germ & I'm extremely attractive, smart-I'm a teacher (The parents at my job dont like me much) but I dont have friends, my dad even left when he found out my mom was pregnant with me, my step-sisters HATE me, the people on my job (my bosses and co-workers) cant stand me. Ive never had a boyfriend because guys for some odd reason never find ME attractive & Im PRETTY! Then everything I try to do successfully-never works out for me. I wrote a novel & tried to get an agent--I contacted 81 agents-all of them said no. I cant get into film school-because for some odd reason the admissions director wont respond to my calls requesting for an application! I feel like I'm cursed & that I don't belong here on Earth with everyone else. I feel like I'm unwanted here and that makes me want to cry & I'm only 22! Can someone tell me why is all this happening to me and why are people reacting that way towards me?

2007-04-11 13:11:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know he mess around with them, or he used to be but he denied everything.

2007-04-11 13:11:15 · 7 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that the adults must get annoyed by kids when they get to a certain age but I dont wanna stop yet! hah

2007-04-11 13:10:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why is it that some guys act like they are doing their girlfriend the biggest favour when they do the simpliest thing that any good boyfriend should do?

why is it they feel the need to point it out every single time they did something nice for you?

why is it they dont see all the thinks you do for them and never point it out?

thats how my b/f makes me feel. i do so many things for him that i dont have to plus try and be the best g/f i can to him. when i do things for him i dont think twice about it because i love him, it's like nothing to me. dont think i'm bragging but all of the things he's done for me doesnt compare to what i've done for him. yet still to spend 1/2 hr with me he's acting like he just bought me a mercedes benz. so apparently i wasn't excited enough so he's giving me attitude. what the f#ck is up with that?

2007-04-11 13:09:29 · 1 answers · asked by JudiM 3 in Singles & Dating

Im getting married and am having a western wedding. Ive had the idea of having my fiance and I joining 2 horseshoes. We came across the problem of that not taking enough time, as well as having our mothers do something before the ceremony. The only thing we can come up with is the lighting of candles then have my fiance and I also light the unity candle in the middle and the horseshoes.

My question is what are some other ideas we could do for our unity event? As well as the mothers thing for the start of the ceremony?

Thanks in advanced.

2007-04-11 13:02:57 · 2 answers · asked by lil_e_is_my_racer 1 in Weddings

2007-04-11 13:01:41 · 6 answers · asked by Brian B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Myself and a friend of mine were just recently discussing this subject of neediness and relationships and how "you have to love yourself before really loving another" do any of you guys have any insight on this? what exactly is "neediness" and if you are that needy how do you suppose a person change?

2007-04-11 13:01:34 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Lori♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

dumb i know i just thought it would be interesting

2007-04-11 12:59:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 12:56:47 · 3 answers · asked by John C 2 in Singles & Dating

I am planning my wedding and I have come across websites talking about "save the dates". Whats the diffrence and what should I look for in save the dates?

2007-04-11 12:56:45 · 9 answers · asked by lovely 2 in Weddings

I was wondering why down there before I ever did anything it was nice a pretty and pink. Now i'm getting worried, it is starting to turn dark color, almost purple. I've heard that if you are active for a while, it will eventually change shape and color. It won't longer be nice and pretty. Is that so?

2007-04-11 12:52:43 · 12 answers · asked by Girlwoman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just asked this question: "How do Get Her trust back?"

Should I Show her this answers from you guys in order to convence her that I am being honest with her.... (by the way) I broke Up with my Ex longer than six months.... we still talked kinda sorda.. untill about a three weeks

2007-04-11 12:49:46 · 8 answers · asked by webdesignsperu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why many men online like to play games? i don't understand a man like this,when take time a while he leaved me without saying anything. Where is gentleman?

2007-04-11 12:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by กระจกใส 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 12:39:02 · 12 answers · asked by allie o 1 in Singles & Dating

I tried to get a hold of my child's father who lives in Mexico. His parents speak spanish and I don't. I tried to converse with them so that I can talk to him but its not working and they hung up.I have tried to write to him and have recieved his mother's signature on a registered letter that I sent back in Feb.What can I do?

2007-04-11 12:36:05 · 4 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family

I have been going out with this one girl for about two weeks. Kinda like her a lot... so i am trying so hard not to loose my patience...

she told me that she is dissapointed with me cause she thinks that I have not still gotten over my Ex. which is not TRUE!!! but she wont believe me... I guess she does.. but she is just taking her time to trust me, I guess.... I just want things to go back to normal.... girls... please I need a word of advice... what can I do to get it back to normal...

2007-04-11 12:34:33 · 13 answers · asked by webdesignsperu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was seeing this guy i love for about a year.we split up about a month ago,and weren't talking for a while.however,we have resolved our differences,and have agreed to help eachother and build the relationship back up and see how things turn out.however,we are both seeing people casually.for the last few nights,he has been online on myspace but not said anything,but then neither have i.eventually i did,and he talked back for a while.then today we were talking for hours,and he was sending me huge emails,saying how much he loved me etc.he had to go out,but said he would come online and talk to me then!he's been online for a while and isnt talking again!what's going on!?

2007-04-11 12:33:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

aim,39yrs,single,w/m trying to meet single female 32-45yrs,who lives in barrie ,ont,who is open minded ,honest,caring and would like to date a nice guy like me!!who is sick of the run around of those free singles sites ,that end up charging just to e-mailing them,single females who reply to your personal ad.......

2007-04-11 12:27:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 12:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by proud mommy of 2 lil boys 2 in Weddings

my bf of almost 4 months recently broke up...im a junior in high school and me and this guy have been really good friends since 8th grade....he told me i was different than all his ex gf's and he seemed to really like me....we were totally comfortable around each other.....and i could be myself and i loved that.....now that we r broken up we have only talked like once or twice...we broke up a month ago.....two of my really close friends(girls) still talk to him....and they asked him if he was just never going to talk to me again? he said no i just dont know when....and he said i will eventually...what does that mean??? how long does it take boys to feel comfortable around their ex's...because being a girl i know that they want to talk with their ex the day after they break up...but guys r different.....i want to contact him....should i call and just say hey havent talked to u 4 a while just callin to see how u r???ttyl...or should i email him?? i dont want to piss him off though..thanx

2007-04-11 12:24:16 · 3 answers · asked by Lo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 12:22:23 · 14 answers · asked by leapyrangels 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

just asking

2007-04-11 12:10:35 · 6 answers · asked by nbb rocks and what 2 in Singles & Dating

In the state of Illinois, at what age does child support stop if the kid starts to work at 18 or stays in school ?

2007-04-11 12:09:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together 4 years. We're both mid twenties. We've been fighting because he is always making comments about how he would like to be with other girls, and i hate that.
So, he told me:
1. He'll lie to me, and not tell me what he really thinks. Warning me to expect to hear stuff about him from other people.
2. Me 'being good', and not making a fuss or be hurt by his remarks.
3. Not being together at all.

He says it's my problem, because i'm the one who doesn't like the way he is. I tell him i love him, but i don't like being hurt just because he thinks a girl is hot and he likes to go on and on about it, and how sad he is he can't be with them, or that if he can, he will.
Is it really my problem? Should i be just thankful that he's brutally honest on that? He says if a man says he doesn't want to fool around with others, he's lying. I think to some extent it's true, but still! Is it really MY problem?

2007-04-11 12:08:14 · 27 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been having problems with my fiancee's family. His mother ran and told his sister in law that I cld her a lesbian which I never did. His sister says that I talk about his parents like they are dogs which I dont. Ive been threatened by his brother and his oldest sister. Everytime they decide to go to his mothers house I have to find somewhere to go. Its driving me nuts because I cant tell them how i really feel about them it will make things worse. These ppl are all about 10-20 yrs older than me and act like this. Help what should I say to them when they come at me with this crap without causing more problems. How do I tell them that they r liars?

2007-04-11 11:58:37 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce