I just asked this question: "How do Get Her trust back?"
Should I Show her this answers from you guys in order to convence her that I am being honest with her.... (by the way) I broke Up with my Ex longer than six months.... we still talked kinda sorda.. untill about a three weeks
2007-04-11 12:49:46 · 8 answers · asked by webdesignsperu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It will take more than answers from OTHER people - you are the one who needs to rebuild the trust. Quite frankly, it may take years. Can you do that? Are you truly trustworthy, stable and committed?
2007-04-11 13:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
You have a little more to learn my friend. Trust is a house not a hotel. It's a long-term investment vs. something that you just show and tell when it's convenient. It took time to build that house and whatever happened tore it down. So, guess what, you have to build it again. You have to start from scratch. The best thing that you can do right now is tell your girlfriend that you messed up and that you realize that. If she's willing to start over with you, she's worth it, if not, don't waste your time and energy. Nothing that you do will convince her of your trust until she's willing to start over. That's crucial. Once you do that, build it one day at a time, keep your word and say what you mean. Don't say things to appease her. Trust me, she'll start trusting your consistent action vs. your consistent promise.
2007-04-11 20:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by clayborne112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it'll take much more than just showing her the posting to earn the trust back.
2007-04-11 19:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she is willing and wanting to look at it. If the subject comes up show her and see what she has to say. Good luck with your relationship.
2007-04-11 20:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust takes time... just show her that you love and care about her never lie to her or else she may catch you at it... it will take some time but hopefully you can win her trust back
2007-04-11 20:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just think you posted it with the intention of showing it to her. iwouldn't do it, it could backfire
2007-04-11 22:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by ilovemykids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't, most likely is still wouldn't change the fact
2007-04-11 19:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should show her.
2007-04-11 19:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋