mad as hell and letting off some steam, but somebody will get 10 points for it >-(?

Question

why is it that some guys act like they are doing their girlfriend the biggest favour when they do the simpliest thing that any good boyfriend should do?

why is it they feel the need to point it out every single time they did something nice for you?

why is it they dont see all the thinks you do for them and never point it out?

thats how my b/f makes me feel. i do so many things for him that i dont have to plus try and be the best g/f i can to him. when i do things for him i dont think twice about it because i love him, it's like nothing to me. dont think i'm bragging but all of the things he's done for me doesnt compare to what i've done for him. yet still to spend 1/2 hr with me he's acting like he just bought me a mercedes benz. so apparently i wasn't excited enough so he's giving me attitude. what the f#ck is up with that?

Answer 1

You love him and he doesn't love you, obviously! Think like this people can paint a beautiful picture with there worlds (of course this guy sucks at it...) but the actions speck volumes. Sorry seems like a classic case of a relationship thats based on an agreement not to have sex with anyone else, a business deal. Looks like you should of done a better job willing and dealing before the contract was signed. He gets to have his cake and eat it too, and the only thing you'll do about it is come on here and complain... wish I was still a boy out for myself, you'd be the cat's meow..... but understand it takes more then just love, it takes passion and compassion. And yes the passion has to be shown somewhere outside the darn bedroom... and trust me honey nothing about that is compassion, looks more like he doesn't think about you at all, no empathy, and not only that its hard on him to even try to empasize with you! Good pick.... maybe time to think about what you deserve as oppose to what you can do to make this guy actual want to spend time with you, I mean OUCH! Geeze that even burn'd me.... I'm still trying to figure out how you can deal with it like its no big thing, man if my lady did that to me she would of left after that 1/2 hr for good.... why you don't do that I have no clue, love blinds I guess...