Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and have been through a lot of bad ****, and good ****...but more bad, and i believe it has made us stronger..anywho, he broke up with me last week and said that we wanted space and time to grow..so i said okay, even though it is hard to give him space because he's my best friend and my LOVE..i am. he told me he still loves me and wants to be with me eventually..just now he wants to find himself, which i understand. he told me he does love me and i know he does, he wouldnt lie to me about that..today i come over and he's GONE. he packed some **** and left with a friend and two girls who are unknown...one of my friends said he said he was going cross country...im so lost...i dont really want to hear the negative..but if anyone has been in my situation i would love to hear it. please help me. thank you.

2007-04-11 15:31:37 · 1 answers · asked by cHiCkEn SaNdWiCh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 16, and this gal is 18. i often realised in class that she often peek at me, and when i looked back she turns away. i got very little oportunity to know her.

then one day, as we share the same route home, i was like 100 metres in front of her, then out of the suddenly she ran across the road and chase me. i didnt have the courage to look back but i could hear her footsteps. She said hi, and we talked as i offered to walked her home. she sounded ehtusiatic and we walked really closed, shoulders bumping to shoudlers... she smiles at me often.

then the next day, in school, suddenly she lost interest in me. i gave her chocolates, sweet and continue to talk to her, but like she ony reply hi and kepy quiet. as if like only avoiding me alone.... its been a few days and i cant figure out why are women so strange? i dont admit i am boring as we laugh and talk about jokes and stuff...

so whats the problem and what is she thinking?

thanks

2007-04-11 15:27:26 · 14 answers · asked by psp p 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in Pa and my husband of 3 years just picked up and left us (his 2 kids and 1 baby due in nov) If I file for a divorse and get a layer, can he be the one finacially responcible for it b/c its an at fault divorse. He was the only one in the marriage to ever provide income, except 2 years ago when I had a weekend job, just for fun. He has always been the "bread winner" of the relationship, but now that he has done this (he left with another woman) I feel I need a layer, but have no finacial ability to get one, how do I hire a layer that he would be responcible for?

2007-04-11 15:24:25 · 3 answers · asked by AntzaGurl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 15:22:52 · 13 answers · asked by keith_r83 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-boyfriend has been engaged to a girl for a couple years now but I'm not sure if he really wants to marry her.

We've started talking again lately and he was telling me about their plans. He said "If we do get married..." instead of "When we get married..." Does this mean he's having second thoughts? He's not really serious about marrying her?

He also told me he has changed from when we were together and has called me a couple times. Do you think I have a chance with getting back together with him? I broke up with him 4 years ago and regret it badly. I know he is engaged but I think we are a better couple. Thanks!

2007-04-11 15:21:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im very shy and a total outcast. i dont fit in a school and have no friends. im always at my house and usually spend weekends with my grandma. i feel really upset about this all the time.

2007-04-11 15:21:02 · 31 answers · asked by tacos 3 in Friends

I have been friends with this friend of mine for about 3 years (Im 24 by the way), and we are good friends. We know each other quite well and she is a thinker like me. I dont know if im in love with her or anything cause i wouldnt know what it is if it slapped me in the face. Also she has a boyfriend (only recent about a week or so old and she is having second thoughts already). Any ideas?

2007-04-11 15:20:16 · 2 answers · asked by ChAtMaN 4 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy that Ive been talking to now for a while. We text at night and just ask each other random questions. My best friend doesnt really care for him to much but he is a nice guy so I can c past that. Im worried thought becuz we have been talking about .. sex... and we arent really dating yet. Should I be worried that this is all he wants?
I know that he wants it eventually, but we talk and spend more time getting to know each other. Should I still be concerned? PLZ help!!!! Thanks for readin.

2007-04-11 15:19:07 · 14 answers · asked by gurly gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

... or is it just a pit stop on the way to Gaytown?

Do you feel as though openly bisexual folks do not really know what they want out of sexual relationships & love and therefore flutter from one gender to the next in a desperate attempt to find what they are really looking for?

Do you believe that bisexual people are plain greedy, selfish & downright inconsiderate when it comes to selecting a sexual partner by constantly & relentlessly desiring both genders?

I mean, let's face it like mature adults; when the times comes for them to eventually settle down & get married, who are they going to ultimately pick? The opposite sex as their lawful spouse and a same sex partner as their lover on the side?!?

Come on you guys...

One must not be too greedy now...

After all, Greed is one of the seven deadly sins, is it not?

One last question:

Would you ever consider dating an openly bisexual individual, knowing full well that he/she runs the risk of straying at any given moment in time?!?

2007-04-11 15:16:53 · 19 answers · asked by Devilish Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 15:14:26 · 15 answers · asked by Mara 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than a year and we have talked about marriage. He has even asked me if I would marry him, but he said he still hasn't asked "officially." He has even gone so far as to purchase a ring. He said I could see it if I wanted to and try it on so if it needed to be resized he could have it done before he proposed. I'm really confused and hurt by this because the element of surprise is gone now and when I told him this he said he wasn't ready to propose because there were still things that he "needed to take care of." I told him that I really felt like he was stringing me along and of course this upset him. Why has he gone about it this way? I feel like he has no regard for my feelings concerning this. Please, no crude answers! Thanks

2007-04-11 15:07:46 · 3 answers · asked by justcatch13 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked my friend to ask this guy i know if he liked me and she says he needs to get to know me better before hand and then two day s later she dates him he just dumped her and during this time he started flirting it up and i want to ask him out but i dont know if i have a chance should i go for it or should i forget about it

2007-04-11 15:03:20 · 3 answers · asked by babygirrl 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl and recently she told me she might have feelings for me when we had a fight and she told me i guess because she thought we weren't going to talk anymore. and that didn't happen we still talk and are good friends. but she says its a lot for her to even consider a guy. but it seems odd to me for a girl who claims not to trust guys and almost never have feelings for a guy to even mention it if she didn't sorta have an idea of what she thought about me. it seems weird, i'm not sure how to interpret this i really think she has a better idea. is it possible for a girl to really not know how she feels at all? wat should i do? she asked me to write a poem about her but i dont feel comfortable giving her something like that since i wrot it romantically because shes not sure about her feelings to me. i told her to just tell me she didnt like and she refused. can anyone make sense of this for me?

2007-04-11 14:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 15

2007-04-11 14:56:59 · 25 answers · asked by miracle_teague2002 1 in Singles & Dating

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say HI to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". But while we were at the movies, I kinda felt disrespected cuz he didn’t open any doors for me, he didn’t walk me to my door & he talked about stupid stuff the whole time. Since he treated me that way, my feelings have gone way down for him. I was hurt yes, but that was wrong.

2007-04-11 14:55:22 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

She's in my school and since my school is small we share a few classes and we chat online, but she hasn't returned my phone calls should I even bring that up ever?

2007-04-11 14:53:29 · 1 answers · asked by Brad 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok So I need To Know If This Is Love

So Like Two Weeks The Girl i Liked Just Came Up And Hugged Me, Now Everyday I Just Want Her To Hug Me Agian, And Everyday She Doesnt It Hurts Me



oh and i have liked her for the whole year since last september even when i was dating someone, and i never stop thinking about this girl, and today when i saw her in the hall, my heart literally stopped

2007-04-11 14:53:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It gets annoying when some of the girls could just ask for something they want, instead of having to pry an answer out. Or expecting guys to get all these subtle hints, instead of just being direct.

2007-04-11 14:51:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When guys in prison says: That they've changed and what ever happen in the past will stay in the past...what comes to your mind..

Is he lying or.....

2007-04-11 14:49:46 · 13 answers · asked by MINA 2 in Singles & Dating

actually most of the girls that do that have me thinking there sooooooooooo fake. But is that what guys like?

2007-04-11 14:49:36 · 18 answers · asked by Keanne McKinley 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. Me and this guy were dating for about a month and a half. We made out A LOT and went to prom together and everything. A week after prom he takes me home after a date and tells me he needs a break. Not just from me he said, from everyone. He said his dad might get deployed and needs time for himself. Since then he hasn't called me, and he barely talks or looks at me at school. What do I do? Move on? Wait?

2007-04-11 14:48:43 · 14 answers · asked by roytoyez 1 in Singles & Dating

and then when you went out to diner you guys went "dutch"?then 2 weeks later he finally got around to order you something but only afer you nagged him about it.

2007-04-11 14:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by maryingells 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I’ve learned.....maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how birthdays you have celebrated.

I’ve learned.....its taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned.....you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved; the rest is up to them.

I’ve learned.....no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I’ve learned.....it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned.....either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned.....its not what you have in your life but who you have in life that counts.

I’ve learned.....you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believe it.

I’ve learned.....you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.

I’ve learned.....you can do something in an instant that which will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learned.....you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned.....we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned.....heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned.....sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned.....sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned.....no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned.....it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others, sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned.....no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned.....our background and circumstances may have influence on who we are, but we are responsible for what we become.

I’ve learned.....just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned.....we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learned.....even when I have pain, I don’t have to be one.

I’ve learned.....credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I’ve learned.....the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon. Cherish and appreciate them now.

I’ve learned.....regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.

I’ve learned.....its hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings and standing up to what you believe.

I’ve learned.....life sometimes gives you a second chance.

I’ve learned.....making a “living” is not the same thing as making a ”life.”

I’ve learned.....we are born with two eyes in front because we must not always look behind but see what lies ahead beyond ourselves. We are born with two ears, one left and one right, so that we can hear both sides, collect both the compliments and criticisms. We are born with a brain concealed in a skull, then no matter how poor we are, we are still rich and no one can steal what our brain contains. We are born with two eyes, two ears but one mouth for the mouth is a sharp weapon. It can hurt, flirt and kill: remember our motto --- talk less, listen and see more. We are born with only one heart, deep in our ribs and it reminds us to appreciate and give love from deep within. Real beauty lies not in the physical appearance, but in the heart. Real treasure lies not in what can be seen, but what that cannot be seen. Real love life is not in what is done and known, but in what that is done but not known.

2007-04-11 14:45:25 · 11 answers · asked by LONE WOLF 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend likes this guy. I don't know him. At all. He's not and has never been in any of my classes, and I've never exchanged a word with him.

She wants me to give him a note that says "Single? Yes or no?"

It's kind of embarrassing, but I don't know the guy, and I'm going to say (truthfully) that it is from a friend of mine.

She's his friend, too, and he's probably seen us hanging out together.

If I do it, he's going to have to tell me the answer and then I'l pass the message on to her.

Should I give him the note?

2007-04-11 14:39:55 · 5 answers · asked by True Happiness 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 14:36:19 · 1 answers · asked by jennygetty78 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is 24, living at home and cannot make a decision on his own.

2007-04-11 14:33:19 · 10 answers · asked by Beachbabe480 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 14:33:18 · 6 answers · asked by KB 4 in Singles & Dating

every time I look into his eyes i like the world stops and when we touch I get butterflie and when I looked into his eyes back and forth he did the same to me for the first time the next day!! and when a slim and beautiful girl is showing her stomache, he doesnt even look at her and lookds straight at me!!! And every once and a while I look up at him and find him looking at me like he is thining really hard about something!! But there is a problem, he has a girlfrend and were only 12!!! I get shy around him only SOMETIMES!!! will we ever be together!! sometimes I cry!!?

2007-04-11 14:33:13 · 6 answers · asked by SOMEONE 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been bored a lot lately... looking for fun things to do around the house or somewhere close. I'm one of those people who can't stand not doing something... Keep in mind that I can't drive, but what do you do when you're bored? Any suggestions?

And, I DO have friends... they're just busy with school stuff, and can only hang out on weekends... Just had to throw that in there.

2007-04-11 14:28:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i really like this guy, but he hasn't asked me on another date yet. i asked him to prom and we ahd a lot of fun and our personalities really seem to connect. he's in one of my classes at school and every time he sees me now he gets this big grin on his face and says "hi (my name)!" and he goes out of his way to talk to me about the craziest things. i think he may like me back, but im wondering why he doesnt just ask me on another date?! he'd said at prom that he wanted to go on another one...is he waiting for me to say something? is there some sort of magic word i have to say? lol hahhah jk. ;) so please help decipher this and if more details r needed just ask. =) thank u soo much help would be appreciated!

2007-04-11 14:27:47 · 1 answers · asked by alkdfjlkasdjlkdf 2 in Singles & Dating