I am 16, and this gal is 18. i often realised in class that she often peek at me, and when i looked back she turns away. i got very little oportunity to know her.
then one day, as we share the same route home, i was like 100 metres in front of her, then out of the suddenly she ran across the road and chase me. i didnt have the courage to look back but i could hear her footsteps. She said hi, and we talked as i offered to walked her home. she sounded ehtusiatic and we walked really closed, shoulders bumping to shoudlers... she smiles at me often.
then the next day, in school, suddenly she lost interest in me. i gave her chocolates, sweet and continue to talk to her, but like she ony reply hi and kepy quiet. as if like only avoiding me alone.... its been a few days and i cant figure out why are women so strange? i dont admit i am boring as we laugh and talk about jokes and stuff...
so whats the problem and what is she thinking?
thanks
2007-04-11 15:27:26 · 14 answers · asked by psp p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does age really matters that much? then why is she avoiding me alone?
2007-04-11 15:37:06 · update #1
does age really matters that much? then why is she avoiding me alone? besides i gave everybod chcolates and sweets.. so its not obvious my feelings for her..
thanks for helping me figure this out....
2007-04-11 15:38:02 · update #2
When I was in school, I was so shy I had secret crushes that only I knew about. I would look at a guy and smile at him and then he would start to smile at me and keep looking at me.
I would be so scared that I didn't know what to do with it, that I would not look at him anymore, even though I knew he was interested and I liked him too. If they said Hi to me, I would actually turn around and look to see who they were saying hi too.
It could be that she is very shy and when she did get the guts up to start talking to you, she was embarrassed about her forwardness. It may have absolutely nothing to do with you and your "boringness" as you say you both laugh and had fun. She may not know what to do.
My suggestion is just to be friends with her and get to know her as friends and that way she won't feel so uncomfortable while getting to know you. Tell her you would like to get to know her as friends. If things happen to develop into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship further down the road, then that would be a nice bonus, but for now, you would enjoy getting to know her as friends. Don't get her gifts like chocolate as they may be scaring her a bit. She may not want a relationship or know what to do with one either. You have to be friends first anyway.
2007-04-11 15:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice cup of coffee in the morning is great. edit: I also had an answer deleted a month ago that I appealed because I know did not in any way break the guidelines. It took me awhile to get over the Violation. I appealed, no good. Congratulation on the level 7!
2016-05-17 23:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by pilar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes girls are funny, but there is usually a reason we act weird, even if its not obvious. But there is only two things I can think of that happened. She just wants to get to know you as a friend first, and then was startled by the gifts. Or she is feeling really self conscience, and doesn't know what to do. But I cannot speak for her, so if you really like her a want to go for it, ask her!! nicely asked if there is something wrong. Hey I wish ya good luck!
2007-04-11 15:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm maybe age is the factor. Cuzz some girls like younger guys, but other people always have alot to say (they disapprove) so they tend to act different. You should keep talking to her. See whats up, and get to know her more...aside from just liking her. So just talk to her more, and later you can ask.
2007-04-11 15:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gave her chocolates after one time of walking together? its sweet but a little soon. she might have thought that was a little much. and she's older than you so she may not be interested. sorry to break your heart, but if someone actually cares for you, they're not off and on like that
2007-04-11 15:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by lily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she might just like you as a friend that she feels safe flirting with because you are younger than her. I would find someone who is your age and is not into playing games with you. I'm sure you will find someone - you sound like a very kind person.
2007-04-11 15:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by Joan H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably shy, when it comes to showing you she like you more than a friend. When you feel comfrotable to tell her how you fell just say it. If she reject you then its not the end of the world,at least you know where you stand.
2007-04-11 15:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by blkcityangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh, always happens to me she just gets shy one day and super outgoing the next.
She has her days to flirt with you.
just stay strong and wait for her
2007-04-11 15:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by cutie.pie_xo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if one thing i know is that if a girl lost interest dont continue to poke at it.... shes done so just forget her
2007-04-11 15:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by Matt W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your heading down a road she would rather you not.(friends only)
2007-04-11 15:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋