i really like this girl and recently she told me she might have feelings for me when we had a fight and she told me i guess because she thought we weren't going to talk anymore. and that didn't happen we still talk and are good friends. but she says its a lot for her to even consider a guy. but it seems odd to me for a girl who claims not to trust guys and almost never have feelings for a guy to even mention it if she didn't sorta have an idea of what she thought about me. it seems weird, i'm not sure how to interpret this i really think she has a better idea. is it possible for a girl to really not know how she feels at all? wat should i do? she asked me to write a poem about her but i dont feel comfortable giving her something like that since i wrot it romantically because shes not sure about her feelings to me. i told her to just tell me she didnt like and she refused. can anyone make sense of this for me?
2007-04-11 14:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women can not be sure of what they want. they know what they want but there not sure of it because of other factors. if you have feeling for her give her the poem. dont give up because she does have feelings for you. she already told you and she wants you to persue her. she just doesnt want to be hurt.
2007-04-11 15:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by rob m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound to me, is that, both of you weren't open mutually in the beginning to understand each other feeling, until engaging in the arguments, funny with humans feeling, either too much or too little. In this particularity situation, you needs argument to find out other person feelings, and the argument could circles around, for hours, trying to get the other person say
what you want to hear, and it's surrounds in "one thing".
And you've got the answered, that she is have feeling for you, maybe deep feeling for you! Seems to me is that, this girl had been through a lots of hurt and paint, showed me that she afraid to get hurt again, and don't want to repeated her past, and finally she wants to be with you and wants to trust you. She wants you to write a poem about her, so that her deepest could feel with your. To me she has so much feelings, no words could describes it. So write a poem as she requested, and use your deepest when you write about her, don't let some thing like this get away until you find out the real her. Don't judge the book by it's cover. Good luck.
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2007-04-11 22:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Pam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering how you asked this question, I am guessing you are both still young teenagers, so in that sense, it is perfectly normal, where you both are first experiencing your hormones and attractions to the opposite sex.
About the poem, just write her one that explains what it is you are thinking and feeling, and see how she accepts that, straining over any type of writing (poem or not) never works and best comes out when you write from personal experiences and from the heart.
2007-04-11 22:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a Player.
She has not found anybody she likes but she wants the attention from anybody she can get it from so she can share it with her friends and say"Look at what this Guy wrote to me".
Not a nice person.
Avoid her, do not write anything for her, find somebody else. This is a Heartache (for you) waiting to happen!
2007-04-11 22:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure this is just part of being a female-we get upset when we really care for someone---and it is hard to deal with it some times--who said love made any sense anyway.
2007-04-11 22:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this girl is playen hard to get game. Tell her you willl write her one she writes you on. She is playen games is all I can figure out sorry. Better off to tell her how you feel and if she still wants to play her games then wash your hands and go find someone else Good Luck
2007-04-11 22:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Babie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of guys/girls that dont know how they really feel about a person........she does like but for some reason she is to shy to admit how she feels incase you dont feel that way about her..........the reason why she asked u to write her a poem is because she knows you write romanticly and it shows her how you feel about her then she might be comftable and telling you how she really feels and if you to have somthing there...........hope i have helped if u need more advice feel free to ask me
2007-04-11 22:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your confusing rambling is confusing to me...could you gather your thoughts a little better, write the facts, without your comments, and maybe i can help you then....right now i just dont understand any of it...sorry.
2007-04-11 22:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(sigh) well it seems like she likes her take a shot see if u dont ull regert it if u dont u wont know!well the poem probbly to romanic write her somein from guy view ur view if that dont work ?do wat u want
2007-04-11 22:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave her alone for a while and see if she chases after you.... she either doesn't like you or is playing hard to get. time will tell.
2007-04-11 22:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by dormouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋