My boyfriend is 24, living at home and cannot make a decision on his own.
2007-04-11 14:33:19 · 10 answers · asked by Beachbabe480 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Please don't bother. If you become his wife he will force you to compete!
my ex mother in law would magically appear at the furniture store or at the car lot or even at an open house
when we were considering buying a house.
I swear the woman had a bug in our house lol
she even bought his clothes... did our laundry while we were at work and told me a thong would give me hemorrhoids and threw all my panties out and bought me Grannie panties
don't even try lol
2007-04-11 14:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well these days there are a lot of people that age living at home. Paying off college loans, etc. Its becoming more mainstream.
But - if the guy cant make a decision, then trying to pressure him wont help. You will basically be making decisions for him, that he will regret later, so in a sense the best that could happen is you become his momma. LOL not fun for you.
He probably just needs some time and space to figure some things out. he isnt a pot-head is he?
2007-04-11 14:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Traveler001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 24 he's too young and immature to be serious about anyone. Chances are his mom does everything for him and my guess is that's working out pretty well for him.
Generally women mature faster and I'd advise you to move on from him. He'll only frustrate you and then you'll get more bitchy about things and come off looking like the bad guy.
Better to explain to him that you two are obviously in different places, that you're looking for something more, and that you wish him well. Who knows? In 10 years you might run into him again and he could have it all together!
2007-04-11 14:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by noworries562 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are able to desire to tell her which you do not delight in her controlling each thing on your existence. you are able to desire to tell your boyfriend which you are going to not be able to handle the region and you 2 would want counseling. you are able to desire to speak with him and notice why he desires to seek for suggestion from his mom. he's a damn grownup and desires to think of for himself. Your not married so if it does not artwork out do not stay only because of infant. you're a large mom. carry your infant. you are able to desire to bond and create an attachment. not the way his mom is declared yet you're doing a healthful bonding attaching ingredient. because of the fact of what you have been via you will not do what she is on account which you understand its not top. Take it as a existence lesson and pass on if necessary. My coronary heart is going out to you only stay reliable on your lil one.
2016-10-28 11:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, you can't. You just learn to live with it. I'm married to a 40 year-old one. He's not as bad as he used to be, but it's still aggervating as heck.
2007-04-11 14:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tammie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to. Who he is at 24 is pretty much who he's going to be. If that's what you lkike, great - if not, move on.
2007-04-11 14:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by John R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that he need to make decision himself because this is his life not other people life
2007-04-11 14:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by mitsuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him movin girl! how long have you been together? not long? maybe reconsider
2007-04-11 14:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
introduce him to crime... trust me, he'll be a big boy in no time
2007-04-11 14:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by krusty477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can only change themselves, sorry
2007-04-11 14:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋