It gets annoying when some of the girls could just ask for something they want, instead of having to pry an answer out. Or expecting guys to get all these subtle hints, instead of just being direct.
2007-04-11 14:51:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say that all the time, our society is full of people playing games. Why can't we all be honest and sincere and say what we feel and ask for what we want. I hate when people hint around about something they want, if they do, they certainly won't get it from me. I pride myself on honesty, sometimes more than people like, but that is their problem.
2007-04-11 14:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish you were more oblique? but I'd rather you use a dictionary instead. I tolerate spelling mistakes but when someone says indirect and slanted/sloping, then I figure he's trying to be fancier then his schooling. Was that direct enough from a girl?
Oh, also, whenever I was not direct was because I was trying to block the games that the guys played. Give a ring... because they want sex... yea, right, really direct.... NOT.
2007-04-11 14:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You're right, women are not good at asking for what they want, and not just in their personal relationships.
I suggest that, when you encounter a problem like this, you refuse to play the game. Be kind; but say, "if you tell me what it is you want from me, I'll do my best to accommodate you. But I'm not a mind reader." Then be sure to try to meet her needs if at all reasonable. Hopefully, that will create better communication in that direction. If she insists that you must intuitively know what she wants, you're letting yourself in for a lot of hassle if you stay.
2007-04-11 14:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Terri J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am one that you would have loved, for I am very direct. Men are also guilty of not just coming out with it! Still, I don't want to say all men do this nor can you say that all women do this. I'd say that both sexes do this. I agree that it is annoying but unfortunately many like to play games. Or they're just incapable of just saying what they want.
2007-04-11 14:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by mich 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys do the same thing sometimes. I will ask this guy who I am talking to a question and he will always beat around the bush to answer it and it makes me think he's lying. It has nothing to do with gender it just the way people are.
2007-04-11 14:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alot of girls don't want to have to tell the guy what to do. That's like having a drone! The girl makes hints because she wants the guy to WANT to do those things.
2007-04-11 18:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its just as annoying that guys just cant figure us out!What is wrong with paying attention to her needs & wants,ask yourself this, why should she feel she has to PRY anything out of you?
2007-04-11 14:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by scooter_ gal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We're afraid of being direct. Being direct leaves us really vulnerable and we don't want to be rejected.
2007-04-11 14:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by bookworm1317 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some girls have been direct with a guy and had their hearts broken and don't want it to happen again. :)
2007-04-11 14:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by Moi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it possible , well if you catch my meaning, in other words, that, what was the meaning behind your question, maybe you should be more, well you figure it out.
2007-04-11 14:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by NuncProTunc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋