QUESTION FOR MATURE ADULTS ONLY! Do you truly believe deep inside your mind that bisexuality really does exist

Question

... or is it just a pit stop on the way to Gaytown?

Do you feel as though openly bisexual folks do not really know what they want out of sexual relationships & love and therefore flutter from one gender to the next in a desperate attempt to find what they are really looking for?

Do you believe that bisexual people are plain greedy, selfish & downright inconsiderate when it comes to selecting a sexual partner by constantly & relentlessly desiring both genders?

I mean, let's face it like mature adults; when the times comes for them to eventually settle down & get married, who are they going to ultimately pick? The opposite sex as their lawful spouse and a same sex partner as their lover on the side?!?

Come on you guys...

One must not be too greedy now...

After all, Greed is one of the seven deadly sins, is it not?

One last question:

Would you ever consider dating an openly bisexual individual, knowing full well that he/she runs the risk of straying at any given moment in time?!?

Answer 1

Why do so many people think that bisexuality doesn't exist...?! The way I define sexuality is having a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for someone, something, some whatever (whatever you're into, insert there). Therefore, why can't a person be SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to two different genders or more? Don't define sexuality by whom you're currently going out with! Just because a bisexual (female) is going out with a male and settles down with him doesn't mean that she's immediately heterosexual, and just because a bisexual (male) becomes life partners with another male doesn't mean that he's "turned gay" and has stopped being attracted to females.

Not everyone wants to "settle down" and "get married." I sure don't. Some people are just the single for life kind. Getting married isn't my thing, and I never want to do it. Why should I? Just to please YOU...? HA!

I myself am omnisexual, so I love everything under the sun (except Repubs, conservatives, and all other CLOSE-MINDED people... wait, that pretty much eliminates 3/4 of the human world...). That's just my sexual orientation. That doesn't mean I'll go around f*cking everything that strikes my fancy... (not that I think promiscuity is bad or anything... if that's your personality... *shrugs* go for it. Just establish some rules because cheating is so lame, but that's another discussion for later).

You can talk about sin all you want, babe, but the fact of the matter is that doing someone of the same sex is already pretty "sinful" according to your book of hypocrisy, right? That's why I'm an atheist.

As far as the whole "straying" thing, you DO realize that heterosexual males and females all pretty much f*ck around and cheat like crazy, right...? Just because someone identifies as bisexual doesn't mean that they'll "stray." It's a judge by an individual basis type of thing. So, why don't you open your mind for a little while and see if you can't digest what I've just said. If not, well, it's not necessary that you HAVE to understand or anything. After all, I know that ignorance is bliss for a lot of people in the world...

Answer 2

yes, there are truly bi-sexual individuals. There is usually a preference for one gender over the other. Usually it is the gender that they can relate to better,on a personal level, not so much a sexual one. I know a couple who have another man living with them because both men are bi-sexual. They are very happy. I also know some swingers, who bring in another woman to be with both partners.

If one is mature enough to handle it, think for themselves, and want that kind of relationship, I feel there is nothing wrong with it. If someone is bi,they really need to let the other person they are dating know it. Just like if I was dating someone and they were seeing some else too, I would like to know.

I would date someone bi-sexual. Even if I dated a woman, what would keep her from running off with another guy?? It happens every day. Life is full of chances.

That is my 4 cents.

Answer 3

I think it is completely possible for somebody to be attracted and want to be with either gender. No, I do not think they are greedy or anything else.

It all depends on what you want out of life. If you want the white picket fence, dog, kids (with an opposite sex partner) then you are going to marry an opposite sex partner. I think you can fall in love and spend the rest of your life with either, it is just what your goals are in life that ina way helps you decide which sex to be with. And being bisexual has no bearing on whether or not somebody will stray. That is like saying because a man has brown hair he will stray.

Answer 4

Not a pit stop to gaytown. I personally don't check out guys out on the street. I do, however, look at 99% of the women that I see throughout the course of the day and decide in a split second whether or not I'd like to have sex with them.
I have not yet been with a guy, but I think about it a lot. As ready as I am to have a bisexual experience, I don't see guys in the same way that I see women. I see women as hold, hug, kiss, etc. etc. all day long. They are attractive before, during and after sex. A guy is there for sex and then to go have a beer and watch a game with after. No affection. I like the idea of some good hot sex with a male and a female, giving and taking all night long, but itls the female that I would want to spoon after. I really want to sleep with a guy, but I'll never give up women.
As far as being with an openly bi woman, I would hope that she could come to me when she wanted someone else In fact, I would like my next relationship to be with a bi women that I can go pickup with. I would love to be with my lady and bring another woman home for us. The next time would be hot to bring home another guy for us. My big fantasy is going out with my lady and bringing home another couple. If she was going out on her own, i'd be pissed. But, going out with her would be a big turn on. I need a woman like that.

Bottom line, I want to have sex with a guy, but there's no way that I'm gay.

Answer 5

I think bisexuality is real if not predominant but is phased out by societial influences.
A tongue on your clitoris feels just as good be it from a male or female.
Or a mouth around your penis.

No, I don't think there is any need to choose one gender over another.

I don't think they're greedy or selfish.

Not everyone wants to get married, and in the US not everyone can get married to their chosen partner.

Anyone runs the risk of straying, whether they are bisexual, homosexual, or heterosexual.

Answer 6

Yes. There's no believing it exists, it's not something you believe, because it -does- exist. "I Personally think yes, it does, but I also think that it is a stepping stone to homosexuality whether it be gay or lesbian" No, it isn't. "In some cases with a few of my friends they are truly bisexual but in many others they end up being straight or gay/lesbian." Those that end up figuring out they are gay or lesbian (or even straight, asexual, pansexual, polysexual, ect) were not bisexual to begin with. The idea that they could stop liking one sex and like the other is about as silly as the idea gay people could stop liking the sex that they like and like the other. Edit: @ℒ'amour est le chaos Pansexual is NOT bisexual. Gender and sex are two different things, there are more than two genders. Asexual is just as possible as any other sexuality.

Answer 7

"consistently and relentlessly"...say what?

there are people in the world who are attractive to me, and people in the world who aren't. some of the attractive ones are men and some are women. but there is only one person with whom i'm in a committed relationship...it's been nine monogamous years so far. (and my partner, too, is what you would call bisexual).

for the record, some of my good friends are polyamorous or in open marriages, and i respect that way of life too, but poly is not the same thing as bi.

it's completely unreasonable to think that a person who acknowledges multiple aspects of his sexuality is not capable of fidelity.

and if any person can't deal with the idea that his sexual partners are human beings with a range of other emotional and sexual interests besides himself...that seems to me immature, insecure, and sad. but i wish you the best.

Answer 8

It must be tough to be bisexual, it's hard enough being straight and thinking sexual thoughts about every half way decent women you meet every day, but to look at everyone that way? And guys like dating bi women. I'd have no problem settling down with a gal who was bi, hell it takes half the pressure off of pleasing her.

Answer 9

being attracted to someone has nothing to do with sexual opposites, it is what we find attractive in others.

the gay and straight thing is a boundary in which we allow to put upon ourselves do to social pressures and or own perceptions of morality .

i am not personally attracted to men in any sexual manner however i do notice attractive men, maybe due to my artistic eye. i tend to see the beauty in a lot of things that others may not. like that guy in American beauty and the bag in an updraft type ting :P

i have no problem with dating a bisexual, as for them straying at any time with anyone, thats a trust and loyalty issue and nothing to do with sexual orientation.

Answer 10

Heck, my ex g/f was bi. I was cool with it! As long as she didnt cheat behind my back! She had a few g/f's that were bi also. We hung out. It was fun! And yes 3 sums were involved. But it was mostly for her. Me and her were true to each other, until temptations with another male and his g/f made her leave. Thats was trouble, honesty was broken, She moved out of state, the other male is in prison for drug chareges, and the other lady left the state also. Its all fun, until trust is lost, then its trouble. And yes, ex wants to come back, but trust and honesty was broken....No can do!