what do i do?

Question

i really like this guy, but he hasn't asked me on another date yet. i asked him to prom and we ahd a lot of fun and our personalities really seem to connect. he's in one of my classes at school and every time he sees me now he gets this big grin on his face and says "hi (my name)!" and he goes out of his way to talk to me about the craziest things. i think he may like me back, but im wondering why he doesnt just ask me on another date?! he'd said at prom that he wanted to go on another one...is he waiting for me to say something? is there some sort of magic word i have to say? lol hahhah jk. ;) so please help decipher this and if more details r needed just ask. =) thank u soo much help would be appreciated!

thanks bonsai67! i'll try that! =)

yes...i tend to go for the shy guys..but this guy is the perfect gentleman and treats me like im a special person. i know it sounds old fashioned but i am totally into that kind of thing =) he's definitely a rarity and i don't want to lose him

Answer 1

I really can't decipher based on what all you put, but he seems to be too shy to make a move. I'd say if he asked you directly to prom, maybe I am wrong. The safe way to lead in to finding if he does like you - go hang out as a group with some mutual friends. It may not hurt to have him pick you up to go wherever you all go - this way after you all get done, you two can have some alone time where he may feel more comfy in talking with you. If not, mutual friends are pretty good (most of the time) in bringing couples together. When you are out, 'throw the guy a bone.' In essence, little things like a brush of the hand or sitting a little close may clue the guy in - plus it is a safeguard, keeping hints low on the radar, while out with friends in case he really doesn't feel the same way. Oh, If the guy pays, he likes you...gentlemen are few and far between! If push comes to shove (and you don't feel it is below you), you could ask him...make it on friendly terms if you don't feel safe. Tell him you want to see some movie but don't want to see it alone - even offer to buy the ticket if he drives or picks up dinner. Good Luck!