and then when you went out to diner you guys went "dutch"?then 2 weeks later he finally got around to order you something but only afer you nagged him about it.
2007-04-11 14:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by maryingells 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If my fiance forgets, then he forgets. I'm not going to nag him into getting me something two weeks after the fact.
Valentine's Day is not a mandatory holiday. Instead of nagging, why don't you try telling him that V-Day is a special day to you, and you wish that he would respect that, even if it's not a special day to him? I've learned that men respond better to asking and talking than nagging.
Any holiday is never about getting, it's about giving. My husband didn't get me anything for Valentine's day two months ago, except for a card, I think. See? I can't even remember what I got, because it's not that important of a day. We did spend some ... 'special' time together that night, though.
Don't be upset that your man didn't buy you anything (since it *IS* two months later). Just let him know that it's a special day to you and that next year, you would like him to make it a special day.
Bachmanette
2007-04-14 17:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be pissed, the main reason is because he's your FIANCE, too early to be forgetful on Valentines day and going dutch and you're not even married yet.
2007-04-11 18:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd be pissed, but more importantly, I'd rethink my relationship with my fiance. A fiance shouldn't forget their beloved on Valentine's day. And one shouldn't have to nag their fiance to get them something for Valentines. Exactly how much does this fiance of yours really love you and want to spend the rest of his life with you ?
2007-04-14 20:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentines day is rather for toddlers, easily that's the least significant day for me, i could particularly save my funds and purchase my different 0.5 a good looking present on our anniversary. heavily too plenty emphasis is positioned on at present it truly is all commercial and getting funds for the cardboard shops and so on. I additionally does no longer nag to get a modern, a modern is meant to return from the coronary heart and not some thing you're compelled to furnish. Sorry yet i think of you will desire to truly have a think of roughly your priorities.
2016-12-16 03:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋