Family & Relationships - 11 April 2007

Im with this girl right so she tells me that she thinks that she is cursed with males. She says every male that she gets close to something happens to them. Her father was killed and her grandfather died and her other two boyfriends broke up with her. I didnt believe in cursed but now Im starting to worry that maybe she is cursed and I might die or something its really bugging me on the count that this guy I knew just died in a freak accident so Im just a little scared. Is it in the bible can people really be cursed? or am I just over reacting because death is on my mind. What do you guys think?

2007-04-11 18:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am seperated.we play lots of jealousy mind games which is stupid i know...but she got a boyfriend. she still calls everyday though..but wont come back. is she still playing the game. how do i get the power back.

2007-04-11 18:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by docta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to have a casual sexual relationship with a man who is also my freind. I want to know if anyone else has done this and it has not ended ugly. I want to know if it is possible to have a relationship like this and still keep the friendship.
Also how do you bring up the subject to your friend? Any ideas would be great.

2007-04-11 18:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by roadtoolong06 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes; I realize i'm a guy, and guys have the stereotype of being afraid of marriage. I'm going out with someone now for 2 years. We are working in similar fields, but not at the same company. I'm 28, an Attorney & a CPA, still have $63,000 in student loans & $600,000 loan for my house. I'm quite financially independent, but think marriage would be a risky move right now, while i'm still getting started. I really love my girlfriend, but I know she's also getting testy, waiting for me to propose and take things to the next level. I just don't know. What if we're not financially compatible? (Different spending/saving habits) What if she starts to hate the fact that I make more money than she does? What if she has a problem investing in Real Estate to secure a better future for us and out family? What if I really am too young to get married? I know it's mean to say, but there are alot of other women who I reject all the time, do married men ever have such regrets later on in life? Women???

2007-04-11 18:23:47 · 19 answers · asked by Felix 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 18:22:18 · 20 answers · asked by Larissa ? 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my closest friends keeps telling me that my closest guy friend likes me, but i don't know if i should believe her and i don't know if i like him. My friend says the way he acts around me makes it seem he really likes me. I used to like him a lot but i dont know if i still do. How can i tell if he likes me as more than a friend? And is there a way to "find out" if i might like him again?

2007-04-11 18:19:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had plans with my girlfriend to spend time together and go out. But a few of my friends are planning on visiting one of my old friends out of state to drink beer, shoot guns, and do some fishing. It's obvious which plans are more important as guns, beer and fishing are great superior to cuddling. But what would Jesus do?

2007-04-11 18:19:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am a natural observant.
Observation analysis reasoning is natural to me.
I find the life not any mysterious like many other do, I find it mystic.
I wish the best of everything to all the living kind.

2007-04-11 18:17:29 · 14 answers · asked by surya m 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend so much but when we fight am the one that makeing up first am the one that says srry frist and by me saying sorry i have to play with before i forgives me...

2007-04-11 18:16:54 · 3 answers · asked by Larissa ? 1 in Singles & Dating

... or is it a disastrous display & circus show of impure & utter hypocrisy?!?

Do you believe that adults who wish to remain sexually inactive until marriage for personal & private reasons should be allowed to go out on dates in order to "master" their foreplay techniques so that they can impress their bride or groom on their wedding night?!?

Aren't they going a tad too far considering they are supposedly & allegedly self-confessed virgins to begin with?

In other words, how far are you "allowed" to go in order to still claim yourself as a goddamn virgin???



Tell Angel.

She wants to know!

2007-04-11 18:16:25 · 9 answers · asked by Devilish Angel 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay...my wife travels a lot for her sales job. Our sex life is nonexistent. Once in a while I call an escort girl and go see her at a motel. Last week I called one and went to go meet her. It was my 19 year old daughter! I thought she was at college. We both freaked out and I left. I haven't spoken to her since and my wife came back and wants to know what's wrong between her and me. I am a loving husband who just "needs some love back now and again" and I've raised my family in the most conservative, wholesome christian manner possible. How is it that my daughter has become a hooker???

2007-04-11 18:14:47 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do you do with an x-husband that thinks he will be able to come back to you when he figures out the grass wasnt greener on the other side?

2007-04-11 18:09:05 · 15 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 18:06:34 · 13 answers · asked by carla p 1 in Friends

My friend broke up with her boyfriend of 5 months, and then our friend started dating him 2 days later. He found out from some of my friends that her main motive in dating him was gaining some popularity, and he ripped into her on the internet to humiliate her. When my friends and I voiced our opinions and told him that was not ok, he insulted all of us- cussed us out, said the 'rule about hitting girls no longer applied', all this stuff. And our friend who is dating him does not stand up for us or anything, and she is not trying to solve the problem- she's not doing ANYTHING.

WHAT should I do? This is tearing my group of friends apart, and I couldn't stand it if we allowed a stupid, selfish, immature guy to break us apart.

2007-04-11 17:57:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dated this girl for nearly 2 yrs and since college we have broken up and gone our separate ways. The distance was just too hard..neither of us really know why we broke up.. it was just right. Its been months since the break up and I feel like I should move on.. and honestly, for the most part, I have. But, I still think about her. I wish things would have worked out. Just tonight I was on the..infamous Facebook and noticed she's going to prom with some other guy... a friend of hers commented "he's cute..have fun!" And again...feeling came up. Sounds pretty lame ey? Yea I feel pretty lame asking this question on this website..but How am I supposed to get over her!? I want to start thinking about..maybe other girls... and just move on with my life. What happens happens. Just looking for some advise..and PLEASE if ya don't wanna give a serious answer don't bother leaving one. Thanks for reading

2007-04-11 17:56:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i have kinda known her my whole life but i just like her alot... i just dont want to come off as a michel jackson type guy liking a younger person even tho its a girl.

2007-04-11 17:54:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told the guy that i loved who got turned down by a girl he liked...he told me he likes me but he thinks he is not the right guy for me.........he says i wont be happy with him........he says we should stop talking coz its painful for both of us.....im so lost......i love him dearly......what should i do? plz help

2007-04-11 17:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a women has been dating a Taurus man for over a year and their in a situation that could lead to sex does she tell him they need to have a relationship first, or will them having sex take things to that next level, because I no that Taurus men don't like to be put on the spot or given ultimatums. So how should she handle this?

2007-04-11 17:49:48 · 7 answers · asked by GoodGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Or am I overeacting? He only comes home to sleep - we've been together for 4 years the man is always gone - sometimes even entire weekends, when I complain, he'll spend an evening with me and his son and then disappear again. He never contributes financially to our household. I found proof he's cheating. I don't know what to do.

2007-04-11 17:49:33 · 13 answers · asked by Candy H 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep getting attracted to men who are alocoholics. There must be something wrong with me.

2007-04-11 17:48:14 · 5 answers · asked by notagain 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive never seen him before at work until last week.. he and my female co-worker were in the office talking and i noticed them when i came in for work, said hi, and left.....

then a couple hours later my female co-worker walked up to me and said that the guy stopped talking when i entered the room and couldnt speak anymore.. and that he told her i was cute...

then later (when i wasnt in the room) she took his number down and then gave it to me before i could say anything.

i think he's cute too, he seems kinda shy.. i wasnt introduced to him, but just had his number handed to me.. should i give it a chance and text him (if not call?).... i really need someones advice, thanks!!

2007-04-11 17:45:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i get over a girl or win her back. im in limbo. she wont come back but calls everyday to check on me. i need to move on or win her back...why is there so many mixed signals.

2007-04-11 17:45:11 · 14 answers · asked by docta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont want a direct quote obviously just some ideas i can work around

2007-04-11 17:43:28 · 22 answers · asked by TCUhornfrog87 2 in Singles & Dating

So my family is very old fashioned and they are strong believers in graduating college 1st, then getting married 2nd, and having children last. Well I have one year left in college and no kids but my boyfriend of 4 years and I just want to be married. He's a full time blue collar worker and a home owner so he is very capable of supporting me while I'm in school. I'm 22 and he is 25 so we're old enough to be married. To save money and not ask for help, we want to get married on a cruise ship this August, but I know my family won't approve so any suggestions on how I should approach this?

2007-04-11 17:41:30 · 6 answers · asked by missC 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Anything out there that you just could not resist even if the cost was great? Anything goes.

2007-04-11 17:39:19 · 11 answers · asked by calgarychef26 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want children, but I am not sure if my hubby really wants them. A male co-worker stated that we (my hubby and I) are not ready for children because we have 3 dogs and fixed our backyard to cater to the dogs.

2007-04-11 17:37:08 · 11 answers · asked by msstikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

by rreading what i am saying right now what do you think i look like?(it can be anything u want to say).ooooooooooh i almost for got i am a female

2007-04-11 17:33:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half. We agreed to continue being friends, but it didn't work out and I haven't talked to him in a little over a week. I completely regret breaking it off, but I don't know if he would even want to take me back. We aren't even speaking right now but I still really care about him. I need to do something really special to win him over.

2007-04-11 17:27:51 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-11 17:24:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-11 17:22:25 · 7 answers · asked by Showstopper 3 in Singles & Dating