what do you do with an x-husband that thinks he will be able to come back to you when he figures out the grass wasnt greener on the other side?
2007-04-11 18:09:05 · 15 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i can't shut him out, we have a child together.
2007-04-11 18:09:41 · update #1
and in NO WAY am i taking him back he just thinks he will be able to come back!
2007-04-11 18:14:44 · update #2
Like I told you dear, kick him in the balls! Show him, in no uncertain terms that he can not run your life, take the wind right the fook out of his sails. Get on with your life, take your time to heal, learn something totally new.
YOU have to show him that he can't hurt you anymore.
2007-04-11 20:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically, this comes down to what do you want. You have a child together so he will always be in your life, but beyond that, to what level you want him back in your life is up to you. You just have to figure out if youre better of with or without him and go from there. There is a reason why hes an ex and not a current, and only you know the reason so if you can overcome the difference that broke you up then give it another chance otherwise let him go and move on beyond whatever contact you must have with him due to your child. Good luck
2007-04-11 18:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can, he can be part of his child's life without being part of yours.
You may want to start moving on with your life. What if you get married again and have other kids what will you do then?
Remember the end of the world is not 2 years from now.
2007-04-11 18:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mow the lawn...sorry while you were testing the grass on the otherside, I mowed the lawn and found out the grass was greener on the other side.
2007-04-11 18:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to shut him out only due to the child, make him stay in another room or on the couch. He can't have his cake and eat it too.... or can he?
2007-04-11 18:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by ~Crystal~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police, if he can't observe the boundaries. Keep your distance, if he cheated on you before, he probably will cheat again. So, don't take him back even if he begs for a second chance.
2007-04-11 18:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by allengenator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better yourself and make him realize what he is missing! There's nothing more attractive than a person who is confident of their worth!
P.O. (personal opininon) - Sounds to me like he could use some growing up!
DON'T GIVE IN TOO EASILY! Spread your love for him to your child :)
Best of Luck~
2007-04-11 18:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by HLacey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a number for an escort service hand it to him and tell him they are his type of woman and you have more class than to put up with the likes of him.
2007-04-12 18:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there nothing you can do, he can think any way he want to think but if you dont wont him back in your life,then the ball
in your court, not his., he has not say of anything except the
well being of his child. it simple as that. the power is in your
hand. his lost not your.
2007-04-11 18:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i see your kinda still in love with him. its up to you make him wait it out. you just can't let him just walk in like that. make sure it wont happen again. if you don't want him back tell him to get back over that fence or call the cops
2007-04-11 18:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋