i told the guy that i loved who got turned down by a girl he liked...he told me he likes me but he thinks he is not the right guy for me.........he says i wont be happy with him........he says we should stop talking coz its painful for both of us.....im so lost......i love him dearly......what should i do? plz help
2007-04-11 17:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had the same situation and i was in ur place leave it... the reason he doesnt want u is because he likes u alot but doesnt want to end up cheating on u or hurting u... and the oly way to do it is just go ur own way for a month and then just not really even talk to him and then just start talking to him agin like nothing happend but dont throw urself on him....
good luck
2007-04-11 17:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love you, he is really doing you a favor. He could have been dishonest with you and used you until he found someone else. He must respect you, and that is worth plenty.
It takes time to get over someone that you love, but you can't make him love you. He is right. It is best ot avoid each other, until the pain subsides. Hang in there--you will find the right guy one day, and this will all be a memory.
2007-04-11 17:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's trying to tell you he doesn't want to be with you. Let it go and find a guy who's not trying to get over someone else or give him some time. Back-off for awhile maybe he'll feel different after his heart has healed. Just don't push you'll rally scare him off for good. Go on with your life and put your feelings for him aside.
2007-04-11 18:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the reason he told you he is not right for you is cuz he still wants to be with the other gurl. But if she still turns him down, just give him a week or two 'til he moves on. THEN MAKE UR MOVE!!
2007-04-11 17:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by BabyAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is so close to two different women? Secondly, he told you in a polite way to go on about your business...He's doing you a favor. Let go and move on.
2007-04-11 17:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to him, he knows who he is and what he is, if he says you will be unhappy with him, believe it. that poor little me game he is playing is pitiful, why would you want to be with the whiner anyway. Find someone who is a bit more confident about himself and what he wants. Someone who can talk to you with ouot the head games.
2007-04-11 17:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Papa Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes cant in all probability cant stare at a woman because of the fact 0.5 the time hes going to be scream at and worrkin out all the time so he wont have the flexibility to cheat on you thats if he is going to bootcamp
2016-10-28 12:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by gulnac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋