... or is it a disastrous display & circus show of impure & utter hypocrisy?!?
Do you believe that adults who wish to remain sexually inactive until marriage for personal & private reasons should be allowed to go out on dates in order to "master" their foreplay techniques so that they can impress their bride or groom on their wedding night?!?
Aren't they going a tad too far considering they are supposedly & allegedly self-confessed virgins to begin with?
In other words, how far are you "allowed" to go in order to still claim yourself as a goddamn virgin???
Tell Angel.
She wants to know!
2007-04-11 18:16:25 · 9 answers · asked by Devilish Angel 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry hate to be a prude, but if you intend to be a virgin, virginity also refers to your exposure to sexual behaviour. Those of us who aren't virgins understand the function of hormones and how easy it is to get carried away and how 2nd b ase can shift without warning to 4th base and next you know it's gone.
Dating in a nonsexual environment and socializing in a group allows one gather necessary skills for dealing with the oppposite sex and also gives one a chance to know their prospective spouse and watch them in different situations etc.
Virginity might seem outdated but your body is a treasure and giving up your virginity should be a gift to your spouse.
After all as Paul the Apostle stated 'The marital bed is undefiled' i.e. whatever you do sexually with your spouse is blessed, the rest is a sin
2007-04-11 18:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Maddy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds terrible. That's way too far..... What's the point of waiting then? There are many reasons some people choose to wait till marriage..if its religion..then this is totally wrong..if this is out of respect for your bride or groom..its totally wrong! It's disrespectful all together!
2007-04-11 18:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by rigby88 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt do anything that could be construed as sexual contact, thus there is no questioning the boundary...no touchy feely stuff, no anything, granted kissing and hugging are not classified in that group, but come on use a little common sense here.
2007-04-11 18:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have not had sexuall intercourse, by defintion you are a virgin. No gray area there, sorry. But I do agree, a pig is a pig whether it wears white or not.
2007-04-11 18:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Papa Joe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be a virgin even after the hymen has been broken.
It really doesn't matter to me who is counting. Everyone was a virgin at some point. Like I say Virginity is like a balloon only one prick(dick) its gone.
2007-04-11 18:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have to have sexual intercourse to not be a virgin. using the word "allowed" i feel is inappropriate for this topic as well. As long as they arent surrently with anyone while "mastering" their techniques I see no problem with it. whats wrong with wanting to fully please the person your to be wed to?
2007-04-11 18:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by green.eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How exactly do you plan to ban certain people from dating?
2007-04-11 18:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by Melinda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want ME to judge others for what is none of my business???
2007-04-11 18:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by TedEx 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's ok, you don't wanna be a disappointment!
2007-04-11 18:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋