I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half. We agreed to continue being friends, but it didn't work out and I haven't talked to him in a little over a week. I completely regret breaking it off, but I don't know if he would even want to take me back. We aren't even speaking right now but I still really care about him. I need to do something really special to win him over.
2007-04-11 17:27:51 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you break up with a guy it is very easy to forget the bad things as soon as the loneliness sets in. Make sure you remember why you broke it off with him. If you still want to get him back, go up to him and just talk to him about it. You don't have to do anything special, if he says no, then forget about it. You will get over him in time.
Good luck!
2007-04-11 17:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatemonkeyxoxo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sarah...Hot then cold then hot again...If you're not just lonely now and realize you should not have broken up then normal strategies may work if the trust and intimacy factor are not destroyed. Relationship deteration normally doesn't just happen but is a process. Before you get back in, figure out why you got out, and be sure you want back in. Beyond that you can be sweet, ask forgiveness, and be romantic but all of that only works if he's willing. I do know the longer you wait to decide either way the less likely a reunion will be. Good luck
2007-04-12 00:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by okstatecowboy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's too soon to tell if you've lost him completely. Right now, you're both uncomfortable with the change in your relationship, and since you say you broke it off, he's probably hurt and angry. Take it easy, be civil to him when you see him, and after a few weeks, if you still are sorry, tell him so. He may miss you just as much as you miss him, but maybe not. At least you could talk with each other and learn to discuss rather than arbitrarily decide.
2007-04-12 00:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by jelesais2000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call and see how the conversation goes. If he doesn't take you back, there are too many guys out there and you are too young to be hung up over one person.
2007-04-12 00:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Hipster Doofus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is you don't care about him just talk to others and try to ignore him if he really cares for you he will feel jealous
and will soon try to talk to you are bring you back in his life.if he don't do so then search for a new one
2007-04-12 00:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by gilli 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
take off your shirt for him and dance naked!.. well that WOULD probably work... but uhm you dont want him back cuz it will end up the same way...
2007-04-12 00:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by AdrianAP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you told us. Good luck!
2007-04-12 00:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by natsuko1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋