I keep getting attracted to men who are alocoholics. There must be something wrong with me.
2007-04-11 17:48:14 · 5 answers · asked by notagain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont seriously think its just alcoholics drawn to you. You may be a very special person placed by God to help less fortunate people who are in need of special help and are drawn to you by whatever means. You must appear to them like a mother figure, willing to help anyone in need and it just seems to be alcoholics. People that are seeked by others are very special people with a unique talent to help others, except you dont realize your talent. You may not even have the education or experience to help others, but you must have a natural ability to help others in need and others sense this. So the only thing wrong here is how you look at this, and by your question, youre looking at it the wrong way and there is definitely nothing wrong with you. Also, it may be also Gods way of telling/showing you your chosen path of helping others in need. Think about it and good luck
2007-04-11 18:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably keep looking for men who are in trouble because you like being the responsible one, or you need to feel needed. You try to help these guys and turn them around, right? And you end up doing everything for them? Tell me if I'm off base, but I've been there. You kind of feel superior to them, maybe because you have low self esteem, and you want to be with someone who you are doing better than. Go to counseling and figure out what is going on with you - these guys are just going to keep dragging you down, and you're never going to fix them. You deserve better.
2007-04-12 01:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are co-dependent or you are driving good men to drink in a misguided effort to cope with you.
Most likely, it's both of those things.
2007-04-12 00:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a caring person,but you just cant help theses people they have to help themselves, stop giving up all of your love to theses guys, they cant give it back to you, find someone that can show you the love that you need!
2007-04-12 00:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like they always say "If you can't beat it, Roll with it" lady....
2007-04-12 01:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by sheadrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋